Normal ? Who's normal? What do you mean Crazy?

United States
February 11, 2008 12:08pm CST
Ok here is the one question that still boggles the mind to this day at times. How can you define what normal is when there are so many different types of people? Who is to say what crazy is? What one might see as normal another might see as crazy! So your thought on this one? Have at it everyone!!!!
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Feb 08
If someone call anything "normal" is refer to an average. If someone is not fitting into an average than is fitting into crazy. Call me crazy if you want, it is better than an average. In other hand, some craziness is not save for society and this is another story.... Take care, HUGS!
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
11 Feb 08
I am with you pola, i rather be a bit crazy then totally average. who in the heck wants to be that!!
• United States
11 Feb 08
Already in the crazy category to some because I have 5 kids about a year apart. LOL!!! And yes I like individuality so please call me crazy LOL!!!
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
11 Feb 08
I have 3 pets with my craziness...
• United States
11 Feb 08
You can't define what is normal and what isn't for all possible scenarios. Having blond hair might be normal in california, but weird in Africa, for example. But in most cases, normalcy is what you expect when you meet a person. You don't expect them to talk in a different language in the middle of sentences, so if they did that would be abnormal. But in a family of immigrants swapping languages mid-sentence would be completly normal. So normalcy can only be defined by what the people around would expect.
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• United States
11 Feb 08
See I knew I would get people thinking. To me there is no normal only what we feel is acceptable. LOL!!! Every one has a different definition of normal or crazy .. I didn't start this to get a cookie cutter answer but to get peoples ideas of what they think normal or cray is!!!thank you for participating and have a nice day.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
11 Feb 08
we are all crazy in one form or another. we all at one point in our lives do the same thing over and over hoping to get a different result. that is the definiation of being insane. I know i personally have issues being like the average Jane. I love the fact i think out the box and don't being alittle off center. that's what makes me me!
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
12 Feb 08
normal wow, i have never been called that before. let me roll that around in my mouth for a while and see how that feels. and 5 kids a year apart, you are totally nuts honey
• United States
11 Feb 08
I love thinking outside of the box. It's gives you so many options. But who has the right to say that's crazy because to me Momma you're normal.
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• United States
11 Feb 08
But even though I say your normal it doesn' mean that your not an individual that is unique. I just thought I should point that out.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
12 Feb 08
I think normal as being the average standard for the country, like not going out in a nightgown during the day, men having shorter hair then women, wearing underwear inside instead of outside your normal clothes and walking on your feet instead of on your hands. OH and whooping through the streets stark naked and chewing on trees, and then yelling, "Itsy coosey cookoo coo!" then screaming at the top of your lungs and eating mud would be considered crazy. I doubt if anyone in any country would act like the former. In fact, they would be committed or put into the looney bin.
• United States
13 Feb 08
ok i need to stop laughiing at your description of crazy.. Ok I would consider that stark raving mad. LOL!! Thank you for your view I really appreciate it. I consider most of what you stated that was crazy crazy. LOL!!
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Feb 08
I think we would all agree, bella, that "normal" is relative. For that matter, so is "crazy." I once heard it said that actions that are considered crazy in the average person are considered "eccentric" in a wealthy person. In this world anyone who marches to the beat of a different drummer might be considered crazy. Some "crazy folks" have more sanity than the supposedly normal ones. I perceive people as crazy only if they present a threat to the safety of others or themselves.
• United States
13 Feb 08
Very good thought process ... I agree what may be consider eccentric in the wealthy is definitely crazy if you don't have the cash to back it. LOL!!! I Totally agree with how your put it out there. Thank you for your views. Have a nice day.
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@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
15 Feb 08
Crazy is such a loosely used term. Individuals with clinical mental illness are often called crazy which is a huge misnomer- it is that their brain is chemically misfiring. People equate non clinical craziness with clinical disorders and we get a view of what "crazy" is. Craziness is foolishness and we all have different opinions as to the meaning of it. Some conservative souls might call having a drink crazy..someone who is more free spirited might call streaking down the street crazy...Who knows it's subject to the way that we and others around us percieve our acts or what we say. I think the only one who can can themselves normal is yourself. We know best what is crazy or out of the ordinary for us and we know what is normal. But your friend might think your normalacy is crazy..It's all open for debate. I have to run I have someone to flash...:)
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• United States
15 Feb 08
LOL!!! That is absolutely correct what we may percieve a normal someone else may percieve as crazy and those with mental disabilities like bi polar have a misfiring somewhere in there noggin and the meds the doctors put them on help them to correct that misfiring. Have a nice day.
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@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
11 Feb 08
Normal is one of those words that is often slung around when somebody is trying to prove a point in their favor. What is normal to one, might be completely nuts to another. I think when they use the word 'normal' they are referring to what most people do. The definition of normal is bound to be different for each person. One group of people think one way, and another group think different...it's all normal, but in different viewpoints and contexts. Example: In one country normal may be to have arranged marriages and think that's normal, and in others, we'd see arranged marriages as abnormal & crazy, and choosing our own spouse as 'normal.' I guess normal depends on where you live, what belief system you were brought up with, and whether you can see and relate to both sides of the coin without passing judgement. One man's crazy is another man's comfort and truth.
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• United States
11 Feb 08
Here is the definition of normal.... nor·mal /'n?rm?l/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[nawr-muhl] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation –adjective 1. conforming to the standard or the common type; usual; not abnormal; regular; natural. 2. serving to establish a standard. 3. Psychology. a. approximately average in any psychological trait, as intelligence, personality, or emotional adjustment. b. free from any mental disorder; sane. 4. Biology, Medicine/Medical. a. free from any infection or other form of disease or malformation, or from experimental therapy or manipulation. b. of natural occurrence. 5. Mathematics. a. being at right angles, as a line; perpendicular. b. of the nature of or pertaining to a mathematical normal. c. (of an orthogonal system of real functions) defined so that the integral of the square of the absolute value of any function is 1. d. (of a topological space) having the property that corresponding to every pair of disjoint closed sets are two disjoint open sets, each containing one of the closed sets. e. (of a subgroup) having the property that the same set of elements results when all the elements of the subgroup are operated on consistently on the left and consistently on the right by any element of the group; invariant. 6. Chemistry. a. (of a solution) containing one equivalent weight of the constituent in question in one liter of solution. b. pertaining to an aliphatic hydrocarbon having a straight unbranched carbon chain, each carbon atom of which is joined to no more than two other carbon atoms. c. of or pertaining to a neutral salt in which any replaceable hydroxyl groups or hydrogen atoms have been replaced by other groups or atoms, as sodium sulfate, Na2SO4. –noun 7. the average or mean: Production may fall below normal. 8. the standard or type. 9. Mathematics. a. a perpendicular line or plane, esp. one perpendicular to a tangent line of a curve, or a tangent plane of a surface, at the point of contact. b. the portion of this perpendicular line included between its point of contact with the curve and the x-axis. My question is who has the priviledge of saying this ..? Who are they to come up with this answer?
@azeemjz (445)
• Pakistan
12 Feb 08
Ah normal is the person whose do's are according to the thinking of the society. And the crazy is that one who not do as the people like but he do for his or her own likeness. And don't mind it and let me say that you are crazy because you not do as I think or like. Hahahahahahaha I think that you understand what I mean to say.
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• United States
12 Feb 08
yes I do understand what you mean to say. I agree with your thoughts. LOL!!!
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@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
11 Feb 08
Okay.. crazy is, as crazy does! lol. My mil is crazy! my hubby says that his whole family is crazy. i ahven't met most of them, but i believe him. . Crazy.. normal.. I dunno how to define either.. i think there must be a fine line. And possibly a matter of opinion. You may htink my mother in law is NORMAL for telling me teh same story about when my hubby was a child over and over and over again... Or maybe you would think i was crazy for letting her think its a new story again and again and again. Which is it ? i dunno. One of us is freaking nuts though! On another note.. i dont think that crazy people know they are crazy, they are too busy being crazy to think about weather or not they are crazy! they have better things to do and think in their minds!
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• United States
11 Feb 08
what's to say the crazy people aren't normal and the normal people aren't crazy ..LOL!! I know what you mean.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
12 Feb 08
Normal is anything which is generally accepted by most of the people either through any convention or any laid down method/rules. An 'average' person is considered as a'normal'person. I would say - 'anything which is not normal is called 'abnormal'. Degree of abormality may vary. For example if you take 50 marks out of 100 marks as a normal result then anything beyond of less than 50 would be considered as 'abnormal'. If a person calls anyone 'crazy' or say 'abnormal', he himself should first be 'normal' to judge the other person. Very Good post indeed!
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
13 Feb 08
Thanks for appreciation. You are most welcome!
• United States
12 Feb 08
Thank you Dpk I appreciate it and thank you for your response. I do agree with it .. They say the avarage is normal. But hey what do they know..LOL!! Have a nice one.
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• United States
11 Mar 08
The longer I live, the more I have to adjust to what I view as being crazy. Many people base their views on what is normal on their life experiences. Some times if you don't know someone's past their decisions will seem like they are just nuts. There are things I am doing today .. that 5 years ago I would certainly think was crazy. A lot of times people change their thinking from what isn't working for them personally, and to other people who don't have that issue or problem is seems irrational. Sometimes you have to get "crazy" and do things other people aren't doing to get what you want
• United States
13 Mar 08
Interesting view .. Thank you for your time in my dicussion I hope to see you in many more. LOL!! YOu have definitely left me with food for thought.
11 Feb 08
To sort of add to the above response; normal is the average. Whatever is the thing which occurs the most. However, normal and crazy are not opposites. You can be quite bizarre (un-normal) and be perfectly 'sane' and cope just fine in society.
• United States
11 Feb 08
but who define normal? LOL!!Scientist , society as a whole. who? Are they correct?
• United States
13 Feb 08
no I understand what your saying that we identify normal as that which is most common. But my question to you is who decides that. I understand what they place as normal but want to know who was given the permission to say that is normal!!!!
12 Feb 08
You're not understanding the quantitative measures; normal is that which is most common.
@mbcousins (116)
• United States
12 Feb 08
OK..I'm willin ta git tagged. Here goes. Psychology Statistics, which is usually a 3rd level or Junior year course which takes care of the norm, standard deviation, and other stuff that is MATHEMATICS. You would'nt take psych stats unless you were going into psych, social work or some other fields close in that area. You can take psych stats if you just need a math elective, but I ain't in that crowd. Ain't got that kinda head. Crazy or not crazy for the average person in the USA is wheter you are a danger to yourself or somebody else. Acutely. If you are going to look at schizophrenia (praecox dimentia), paranoia schizophrenia, manic depressive (bi-polar), etc., those are conditions which can turn out to be chronic but even though that is true, insanity is based on the danger thing for everyone. On an acute basis. Bye PEACE
• United States
12 Feb 08
Hmmmm very interesting .. Thank you for the food for thought. Did every one hear that Inasanity is based on the danger thing. Wow then I know a lot of insane people .. Where is Cyn must go tell her she's crazy.. LOL!!! Oh by the Mbcousins, you don't get tagged in my peaceful utipia becuase everyone is entitled to their thoughts and opinions...
• United States
13 Feb 08
Thank you Bellachaos. Brittney is a recent example. "They" say she may be bi-polar and that may be or may not be true, but is she a danger to herself or someone else? They need to observe her for at least 24-48 hours and they can't seem to get that done. If they find her a danger thang..they will committ her for prob. 30 days to begin. Stress can lead some people (usually PTSD) to a dissociative state when the stress is severe. Used to be called the multiple personality condition where you are out of touch with reality. Attorneys use this one to get clients out of responsibility. If the person is in the dissasociative state when they committ a transgression, they ARE pretty much out of it. Thank you for accepting me Bellachos. I think I love you. PEACE
• United States
13 Feb 08
AWW your welcome. I think if they do get brittany in they can only hold her for a week without her consent if they mange to 302 her I think that is the code for involentary ... My Aunt when she was in her right mind use to be a crisis worker and they were only allowed to hold people for observation for 7 days on an involentary committing. LOL!! Again thank you for the debate and if she is bipolar depending on the analysis she can be treated and medicated for it. I have a friend and he is bi polar at first he was really messed up got into a lot of trouble then he completely turned his life around to a respectable person and that was him staying on his meds and taking the effort to say I can be better and do better. Anyone can overcome the adversities thrown at them if they believe they can.
@duranv (516)
• Honduras
12 Feb 08
Normal would be what I do, and crazy what other people do, except if they're doing the same things I do.
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• United States
13 Feb 08
LOL!! Nice example how are normals differenciate between people. LOL!! thanks for responding and have a nice one.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
12 Feb 08
A normal person mylot because of the friends here and knows that he cannot expect more than a few pennies and a crazy person tries to become rich by mylotting.
• United States
12 Feb 08
Hmmm, interesting mylot example. Wouldn't we all be shocked to you know where and back if someone did get rich from mylotting. LOL!!!!!!!
• Canada
28 Feb 08
I couldn't agree more. I don't believe that there is such a thing as "normal." In my view, "normal" does not exist. There are cases when one's mental state causes them to do dangerous things, and it's pretty obvious that something is wrong, but there's nothing wrong with someone being eccentric.
• United States
2 Mar 08
I couldn't agree with you more!! Thank you for your response and have a nice day.
@mummymo (23706)
12 Feb 08
Normal as most people mean it is very boring indeed - I have tried to be "normal" and it drove me mad! Having spongy floors and walls and a nice huggy jacket is far more fun! xxx
• United States
12 Feb 08
LOL!!!! Most definitely. I have to agree...Lock out nutter here we come!!!
@shamsta19 (3224)
• United States
9 Mar 08
What is normal? I'd say I'm normal because no one else thinks like me but how could that "norm" be possible if I coexist with others? Even though I hate everybody I love everyone. I don't think I am normal.
• United States
9 Mar 08
There is no real judge on what to say normal is. LOL!!
• United States
12 Feb 08
Being "normal" can only be conceived by what the mind is going through at the moment. Is the homeless guy on the corner "crazy" because he talks to himself in the third person? Perception IS reality. Is he harmful to your children? Probably! But his reality is what he perceives is real in his mind. Judging what is "normal" is a matter of circumstances that you have been through. You may think it's "normal" to have many friends, hang out, and pick up chicks. I MAY think "normal" is to sit here in front of the computer since there's less chance of rejection! We all find our own normalcy. Great question though! :)
• United States
12 Feb 08
Exactly what is normal to one is never the same normal to another. LOL!!!!
• United States
2 Mar 08
to me there is no such thing as being normal..however i do think that sometimes people are quick to judge others as if there normal or not ! but to be when people do that , i dont think there actually normal themselves..so basically people are all different..however sometimes people do think they are normal..but im pretty sure we've all did some really stupid things in our life that has made us look very crazy. thanks ! -Brittney
• United States
3 Mar 08
thank you for your response. I do see how when we are younger and we tend to do wild and stupid things with our friends how that can be seen as crazy. But how many stupid acts would qualify you as crazy...