Is looks that important in a realtionship?

When we meet someone special, looking is not important, we can love someone by his/her ideas. Nowadays people are more interested on looking on fashion and sometimes we do not give any chance to others. People can be not so good looking but they can be kind, respectfully, have a good speech, like the same as we or like what we have desire to do but we are not courageous to tell or to do and that is the most important. People are always seeking someone who completes him/her, but they are afraid of relationship hand to hand, eye to eye and on web we can not see the other and then they judge by the photos which could not be the real person.

Soetimes apperence is important,but we can't think that we should have relationship with the good look ones and avoide the others.I think kind is the most important of a person.You will be liked by others if you have a kind-hearted no matter how you look is.

Just as what is attractive varies per person the same underlying thing is the same. Thing is, people like beauty. Beauty in the things they choose or desire. People fill their lives with things that they find beautiful or attractive so why would a partner be any different? They may not be conventionally good looking but there is likely to be someone out there that will find them attractive and the difficulty would lie in finding these people. It is possible, but just like all things in life.... Some people just appear to have an easier time at it than others. I too am like this, the physical attraction has to be there. I can admire good qualities in people and will get to know people I do not find attractive but I can not bring myself to enter a relationship with someone that I do not find attractive. It is as important as their personality to me. I do not find anything wrong with this. It is what it is. I need the whole package.

I used to think so alot. I have dated a few guys when I was younger and most of the time I went for looks mainly and also their personality. I got treated badly buy them so I tried to look a little bit past looks and got the same treatment from them. I then decided to just be friends with a guy and there was no attraction at all other than friendship. We fell in love and he is a very nice looking man to me now and we have been happily married for 13 years now.

Unfortunately it is true, that the ones who are blessed with very little looks are usually the most wonderful person you could ever wish to meet, and if people could see past the fact that they did not find someone attractive but got to know that person underneath then they would fall in love with them. But as is the case with many people there has to be a physical attraction. I am the same, how someone looks is the first thing that I look for, I have to be physically attracted to someone to want to get to know them more.

i say yeah it is , i wouldnt be first interested in the woman if she wasnt good looking , but then agian i rather have a great looking smart woman than a dumb great looking one, a smart beuatiful woman to me is golden , not only is she fine but she's smart and can teach me things i didnt know , lol that goes boths in the books and in bed ..i dont know i ve seen couples that i cant even know why they're a couple but the love is there ..i guess overall thats what is need to be seen first before anythinhg is love

Looks i think are important. I meant that people should be presentable at all times, and look always clean. There are not so good looking guys i know but dresses well and they too look attractive. In reality, we get attracted first by a person's appearance, but it is their personality that helps us keep the relationship once we get to know the person we are with. I don't judge a person too quickly but i have to admit there are people that even at first meeting, i feel i can never like them - i was wrong about 30% but is proved to be correct by my first impression 70% most of the time.

I think people are way too concerned about looks. That may be one reason the divorce rate is so high. I think its much more important to have someone in your life who you can talk to, feel comfortable with, and share the same values.

Looks does matter a lot to me. Though I never judge anybody based on their looks or dressing sense, I always try to be good looking and neat so that somebody else do not underjudge me.

For me, looks is not that important in a relationship in compare to the education and personality that take more priority. Besides, the taste of looks is depends on individual. Someone likes rose, but someone likes lily or other type of flowers. Therefore, regardless any looks, as long as the couple who are happy with each other will do.

Looks I guess are important to me.. I want to feel attracted to my partner. I don't think I need a model or anything just that feeling like I want to kiss him and be near him. If I am not attracted to him then I would never want to touch him and that wouldn't be fair to him. I know because I did try to be with a very nice man but wasn't attracted to him. I now have been with a man I have always been attracted to for 12 years now and I still love to kiss him.

I think so. Looks is really important in relationship, yeah... not all persons in the world has perfect face, but not all persons has really that ugly face... maybe he is not perfect handsome, but he looks cute when he smiles, or he is not tall and muscular... But if he has good way in dress, good hairstyle, clean and smell good...he looks attractive for me, and i'm happy to hang out with such person...

When two strangers meet, they make judgement only through the outlook of each other.In this case , person with good looking becomes advantageous to be accepted by people.Even though, the appearance shouldn't be a major factor for us to establish our relationships. Still there are many other characteristics we have to take into consideration such as honesty and kindness.if not, the relationship will turn out a fail upon good looking.

Hi..I posted a similar topic the other day..because I think that beauty comes from within.They say that somewhere there is a special someone for everybody. Plus we cant all be like supermodels!!

look is not that much important in relationship.but it makes the first impression.after that people try to find out. but one most be with good nature in relationship. it matters about the quality.

The look is important, but it's not that important in a relationship. We have a saying here: The lover's eyes can see a beauty. That means to say your love always regards you as the most beautiful person all over the world.

being attractive and good looking is definitely a bonus and an added advantage. but looks doesnt define who you are, it's the inside and your personality that counts the most. there's so much more to a person than just judging them by their looks. that's why we can never judge a book by its cover ;)

I don't think looks matter much. For me, if a person is presentable, regardless of its outside appearance, then it's fine with me. What I am looking for is the personality, and if the person is good looking, I just treat it as a bonus.

No not exactly.. Those who thinks that looks are important then i guess they dont have the contentment with their partners.

i am not a good-looking girl , so for many many times i dreamed to be beauty , i thought that good-looking can give others good impression at the first sight , it is good . but now , i believe that , appearance does be important , but inner beauty is more important ,good-looking face can leave others good impression at the first sight , but inner beauty make others feel warm all the time .