you should feel confident about your self!

Indonesia
March 26, 2008 8:53am CST
no matter how is your appearance and how your look, you should be confident with your self. by having self confidence about your self, you would able to do anything in this life. be confident seems easy to do but not all of people able to make it since they might have any lack in phisically. my ownself also not too perfect in performance or phisically, but i have my confidence of myself and it makes me able to get what i want in my life. be confident would generate possitive thinking and optimized about anything. so do you have any experience to be confident in your life? would you please share in here, cause sometimes we can have our confident by seeing another stories
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6 responses
• Singapore
26 Mar 08
there are many times i lost my confidence; especially when i get my exam results. Nevertheless, I have been strong and have carried myself this far. I can confidently say that I have made it through.
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• Indonesia
29 Mar 08
i agree with you, dear and thank you for responsing my discussion
@stephcjh (32328)
• United States
29 Mar 08
I am hardly ever confident about myself. I have been treated badly by others all of my life. I am never noticed and hardly ever heard or understood. I just stay to myself, my husband and my daughter most of the time because of it. I have no self esteem but I do work very hard to try and make my life better. That is the only thing that keeps me going.
• Indonesia
29 Mar 08
so sorry to hear whats goin on with you, and i believe you able to find out the best way to be confident in your own. as like you said that you work hard to make your life better is kind of confident. you confident by doing hard working, your life would be better
@stephcjh (32328)
• United States
31 Mar 08
Yeah. I sure hope my hard work pays off in the end. I am working seven days a week as well as my husband also. We are trying so very hard to reach our goals and keep our heads above water. I will gain more confidence as we are able to prosper, but right now it is almost like we are just spinning our wheels because it costs so much to live these days.
@youless (91494)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Mar 08
You are quite right. We need to be confident for ourselves and sometimes things will go better than we expect. Lately sometimes I will have a little makeup and I feel better after it. As you know, a good appearance is also a main factor to feel confident
• Indonesia
29 Mar 08
you got it sweetie. be good in appearance would able to raise up your self confident
• United States
29 Mar 08
I think that we have all lost our confidence in some cases. But it is our job to get back up again and continue the battle. I know that I would lose faith on certain things like maybe my business that I am working on. I know that God is going to do it. But sometimes I would get discourage and just want to give it up. See we really do not need to give up on our dreams. We should try to be an example for others and try our best to push others. Some people need to be pushed.
• Indonesia
29 Mar 08
everyone must be have time when they loose their onfidence cause of some reason. but something sure, no matter how, self confidence should be build to ake the better condition of this person. thank you for your response, my friend
@williamjisir (22903)
• China
14 Nov 08
Hello plumwish. Confidence is very important in our life and work, without which we would find it hard to make any achievement. Well, in most cases I am confident in the job I am engaged in as I think that I am qualified for my teaching job. But there are cases that I am not confident in some other field that I am am lack of proficiency and skill.
@drannhh (15226)
• United States
26 Mar 08
I completely agree, as the apparent defects some people see in them selves may not even be noticeable to others. On the other hand there are some people who will try to find a fault with a put down almost anybody. I knew a brilliant man once who led a rather public life and behaved very flamboyantly. He was well liked and appreciated for his personality and mind and as far as I was concerned he was fine looking as well, but one day after I had known this man for some years, an acquaintance said something about pitying him because of his deformity. To this day I have no idea what "deformity" she was talking about. Maybe he had an artificial leg, who knows. I never saw anything wrong with him, or any reason to pity him. I thought he was terrific. When he passes from this earth his wife said he had never said one unkind word to her in over 40 years that they were married. What a guy!