Is a flower enough for you to forgive your boyfriend ?????

@goergineo (1498)
Jordan
April 23, 2008 10:56am CST
Can you forgive your boyfriend if he gives you a flower no matter what his mistake is? is it enough for you?
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• United States
23 Apr 08
I wouldnt say no matter what the mistake was. If it was something minor maybe, and with a good apology along with it. However if it was serious, like cheating on me or something of that nature. Then no! A flower just wouldnt cut it.
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• Philippines
23 Apr 08
no, we must talk about it and not by just giving a flower,, we must know what really happened and if you settle things on their place, then it's the time to forgive your boyfriend and then take the flowers...
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@nixxi76 (3192)
• Canada
23 Apr 08
I've heard a myth about a man bringing you flowers. They say when a man brings you flowers out of the blue.. for no reason that you can think of.. that means he's trying to say sorry for something he's feeling guilty about. Especually red roses! It's all different if it's an occasion like your birthday or valentine's day or whatever, then that's obvious but for no apparent reason that he brings flowers, that means something's up according to the myth. I don't think if a man gives flowers to a woman to try ask for forgiveness, she should NOT accept it because it's not good enough. I'm the type of person where I will carry on with letting the man know that he's done wrong and sometimes I push it over the limit too. I don't mean to.. that's just me.
23 Apr 08
definitely not. I'm not a flower fan but even if I was I would never go to the extent to say I'd forgive him for ANYTHING. Me and my boyfriend have to talk when something's wrong and that's the only way we can get through it. If one of us does something wrong, an apology will usually suffice -though it is always nice to get things - like chocolate - I think maybe if your question had said chocolate then atht would have been closer to the mark for me lol
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@oandee (13)
25 Apr 08
That's enough for me .. but after that he shouldn't do something wrongs again and again. If we love someone,we can forgive every mistaken.
@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Apr 08
That would depend a whole lot on what his mistake was. a flower by itself would not repair a badly broken relationship. He has to apologize and show the girl that he really means it and do by his actions what a flower or fancy words would not do. Tell her he is sorry and take her in his arms and kiss her. one flower does very littlesometimes. He needs to treat her like he loves her by being kind and undoing his mistake.
• United States
23 Apr 08
It would depend on what he had done. Flowers are nice but they don't fix everything.
@kezabelle (2985)
23 Apr 08
No it isnt a flower given to me in a way of apology means nothing theres no thought to it is there anyone can buy a flower or go and rip one from the garden. I want my man to show me he is sorry by never ever doing, what ever he did wrong, again.
@nelly5 (1425)
• United States
23 Apr 08
No a flower itself is not enough to make me forgive my husband for something he did. Now if he came to me with a flower and was sincere in his apology that would be different. If I knew that he knew he had done wrong and if his apology was truely heartfelt than that would be acceptable and the flower would just be icing on the cake. Have a great day!