Trying to stay motivated while looking for a job.

@writersedge (22563)
United States
May 12, 2008 7:24am CST
I went for an interview and just received a rejection letter Saturday. It really hurt. I've gotten hundreds of rejections, but most were for jobs I could care less about. But this one I thought I had done well and would be getting the job. Unfortunately, someone else got it. So are you looking for a job? Have you looked for one? Did you get a lot of rejections? How do you stay motivated when you receive so many rejections and some for the job you really want?
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@lvaldean (1612)
• United States
12 May 08
It is really tough out there right now. The economy is hard, the market is flooded with people, the competition is fierce and includes a huge influx of H1B non-essential workers that flood the market and depress salaries in the process. What field are you in? Are you specialized in your field or a generalist. Rejection letters are never easy. In the market today that you are even getting this level of attention is a boon though, many applicants to positions never receive anything, even after an interview. Have you followed up with any of the companies you have interviewed with? Sometimes an interviewer will talk to you and advise you on what you were "missing" that the winning candidate had. This can help you in your job search if you are willing to listen.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
12 May 08
Wow! I wish I hadn't given out my best response already. I did that for a job once, they had us wait while deciding which candidate to take. Then they called each one of us in and told us their results. They told me I didn't have the job and asked me if I had any questions. I asked them what I needed to get a job there. So I was told to get more experience by applying at a lower level. Also to take classes in sign language. So I applied for and got a position at a lower level. Then I took a class in American Sign Language. Then later when I applied for the original job, they asked me why I thought I should get it. I told them because I had done all they had asked me to do and gotten good references at the lower levels. They told me to wait outside, called each person in again, and I was called last and told I got the job. It was for working in a prison and I have all the experience and everything I need. My degrees are in teaching and I have taught in a prison. But I'm not political and other people are. I was told that the last time I didn't get a prison job. You are correct, often times, I am competing with hundreds of applicants and to be interviewed, to be in the top three is an honor. But top three doesn't pay my bills. This was for a $40 thousand+ a year job, so I took it hard.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
12 May 08
I taught adult prisoners at a medium level security prison for 10 years. Both degrees are current. The insiders have told me I'm not getting in because I'm not political. I was told during the interview that all three of us had the same rating. So they could pick or had to pick the most political because we were all evenly ranked. It's politics. So I'm not wasting my time on applying to prisons any more.
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@lvaldean (1612)
• United States
12 May 08
So now there is more definition and this becomes easier to work with. If you are applying for similar positions within similar settings I would start by finding someone within the system who can act as a "mentor", someone who can provide some guidance to you in the way of skills or capabilities that you need that will put you in the top. It is clearly not just whether they "like" you or not. It is whether you have the right skills, capabilities, experience, and applied knowledge. So what do you need to do to obtain these? There are some questions you can ask. What made the top three similar? What made the top one stand out? What single skill would make me stand out and be appropriate for the setting? If you are applying for teaching positions within a prison setting I am assuming that this is working with adult offenders. So do you have teaching credentials for adult learners? Are they current? Have you researched the latest trends in learning? Is it possible for you to add to you skill set? What about other functional skills or capabilities that might be added to your personal briefcase in this situation? What about computer skills? What about technical skills? Are you able to teach behavior or life skills to adult learners? I am a volunteer in a Prison program called Victim Impact. The program is sponsored by the Justice Department in my state and works at all levels including Juvenile, State, and Federal. The offenders who participate in this program are usually also in some sort of education programs. I think it would be really useful for you to research the types of programs the systems in your area offer and make certain that you can speak directly to these programs and your "value add" or what you bring to the table as an instructor.
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@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
12 May 08
I work for myself now, but I was lucky, when I graduated from college, I interviewed for 2 jobs and got offers for both. I used an agency though that perfectly matched me to perfect jobs. Maybe you should try using an agency or a head hunter, they may be able to get you interviews with companies that are very well suited to your experience and education. When I decided to leave my after college job after almost 8 yers, I again went with an agency, and I had another job with in 48 hours. You might want to try that route. Also have someone look at your resume to make sure it is best. Also have someone you trust sit down and give you a pretend interview, and show them what you wear to interviews, then they can perhaps help you to figure out what you can improve on.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
12 May 08
Last paragraph, done all those things. You havea real agency there. All we have is temp service here and they are useless. They used to be good, but Labor Ready came in and messed everything up. Thank you can take care.
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@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
13 May 08
I'm not sure what type of job you are going for but how about a temp to perm option?
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
14 May 08
its true that you need to be motivated. rejected once, you will not be rejected again and again. try to find out what went wrong andd then try to find a job wioth all these covered.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
14 May 08
Thank you, I'm trying.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
12 May 08
I am sorry you didn't get the job. I already have put in an application one one school and will be applying to another here soon..Because I am applying for a job in the school system, I probably won't find out until later in the summer on whether or not I got it.. All I can say is to keep trying, there is something out there for you, you just got to find it..
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
12 May 08
Thank you for the words of encouragement. I'm starting to run out of places to look. So if there is something out there, it had better show up soon. Good luck on your job hunting. Hope you get something soon. Take care.
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@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
12 May 08
I stay motivated by just not thingking about it and just just moving on and focusing on how to have better interviews the next time. remember, to pray and focus in everything you do. don't lose hope 'coz God has reasons for everything! goo luck to you!
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
12 May 08
Thank you, very good advice!
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• India
12 May 08
when you get rejected think that its the loss of the company....... but if you are rejected hundreds of times there is surely something wrong...and you need expert advise
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
12 May 08
Thank you. I've gotten expert advise. From three different people. It hasn't helped. The competition is really fearce up here. I've received rejections that start like: "We received 300 applications and although yours was impressive. . .."
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@Foxfire1875 (2010)
13 May 08
I've almost given up trying to get a job, so I know how you feel after the time and effort you put in to try and get the job. You could try approaching businesses on spec, as that sometimes works as it is expensive for a company to recruit and they like the fact that someone admires their company so much that they send a cv on spec. The only thing you can do is keep trying and I hope you find something soon. Good luck
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
13 May 08
There is a job that might work for coming up. Thanks. I'd love to give up looking, by my current income since they reduced my hours and are telling me they will reduce more does not pay my bills. Thanks for your assistance, take care.
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• Australia
13 May 08
Hi there! Sorry to here you didn't get that job. Actually neither did I.I just moved from a non-English speaking country to an English speaking country, where the language skill and local standard are the barrier for me to get an accounting job. It is really frustrated but that's the real life I must face. Good luck to you. So to myself. :-)
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
13 May 08
That really is hard. French is my second language and it would be very difficult for me to get a job in that language. But your English seems to be much better than my French. Can you teach your language until you can get some accounting work? Are there other people in your community that speak your language and need accounting? Can you do a little private accounting? Take care and good luck, I hope something opens up for you and me, too!
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• Australia
14 May 08
Thank you so much for your encouragement! Let's just positive and approaching the success step by step.
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