Don't Touch My No-No Spot...
By twoey68
@twoey68 (13627)
United States
May 22, 2008 7:41am CST
Most ppl have spots on their bodies that they don’t like ppl touching…I call them no-no spots b/c when Hubby tries to touch mine I tell him no. Whether it’s b/c it’s a ticklish spot, a sensitive spot or just b/c it bugs them. I can’t stand anyone to touch my belly button…it bugs me to no end. I also don’t like anyone to play with my toes (bugs me) or the bottom of my feet (ticklish). I also don’t like anyone playing with my behind (bugs me). Hubby knows all these spots and occasionally will try to poke my belly button or something just to bug me…talk about irritating.
Do you have no-no spots where you don’t like to be touched? Does you partner do it anyways when playing? Would you poke your partner’s no-no spots if you knew that it bugged them?
**AT PEACE WITHIN**
~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
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29 responses
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
23 May 08
I got over all tat when someone held me down and tickled me till I hurt so much from laughing then it got to a point it no longer mattered so hubby didnt have any where to touch to provoke me. But I dont like being grabbed ahold of makes me very upset and I want to punch the person that does it.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
22 May 08
twoey my no no spots are the soles of my feet. I just
practically die if someone messes around with my feet'
as I am horribly ticklish. my husband used to try that
and I would end up kicking him as I just almost get
sick when tickled like that. it is not a bit funny
as its almost painful. I used to tickle his chest as thats
where he had his nono spots just to get back at him.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
25 Oct 09
For me, it would have to be the bottoms of my feet. There is no way I want someone touching the bottoms of my feet unless I ask them too, and then it is to massage them and nothing else. That is probably why I have never considered going in for a pedicure even though I have wanted too. If you want to upset me, this is a Great way for sure, and I even warn people I will kick them if they even try.
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
22 May 08
yes i am very ticklish on the bottom of my feet,so if my hubby touches them it has to be a rough touch like a massage.I don't like anyone getting around my eyes ,that is a sensitive spot...I use to be very sensitive on the left side of my neck because i had a mole there,and i could not stand anything around it,i use to cringe when i got a haircut..Two years ago i had it removed so now its not sensitive..I am also not fond of anyone messing with my belly button,it makes me sick to my something when hubby touches it...
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
22 May 08
I am very ticklish in almost all part of my body..LOL and my hubby will always call me silly!Most of those are my feet, knees,tummy,sides,armpit and my husband will always tickle me to bother and to irritate me! I am just helpless since he don't have any part of his body which is ticklish..LOL!
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
22 May 08
I think the difference with men and woman is that all woman have no no spots, but all men have are yes yes spots:)
I can't stand it when my husband touches my stomach. Guess what~ he tries to touch it all the time! It drives me crazy.
I am thinking maybe I should come up with another no no spot that really isn't a no no spot, but trick him so when he touches that spot to bug me, it really wont bother me at all.
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
23 Jun 08
Reminds me of a discussion I had with my little 7 year old sister about not letting people touch her no-no spots. Do I have no-no spots? Yeah, my head(irritate me). I don't like my head or hair messed with not because I am afraid to have my hair mussed just that I don't like it and my underarms(ticklish) messed with. I have alot of migraines so that could be reason for my head. Other then that I don't really have any no-no spots. Yes, my husband does bug me on a few rare occasions by tickling me. My little sister likes to mess with my hair almost everytime she comes over by brushing it and trying to style it in barettes I usually end up with a blaring headache. But I let her do it for a few minutes then it gets to bugging me to bad and I have to tell her to stop.
@shooie (4984)
• United States
25 Jun 08
Yes I have what you call a nono spot and yes the hubby likes to go to the nono spot to bug me. He finds it amusing when I get annoyed. He keeps it up sometimes that it takes everything in my power not to deck his freakin head off. But yet if I do anything annoying to him is wrong wrong. He doesn't see that it can and does work both ways.
@xParanoiax (6987)
• United States
26 Jun 08
It depends on the person, actually. I'm not a big touchy-touchy person so I'm not accustomed to people doing so, but there's a few areas which I'm particularly sensitive that I don't like anyone touching unless I'm very fond of them.
Get your mind outta the gutter! lol. My biggest spot is my back, particularly the middle of it. It might be because my brother used to poke my back alot. The other spot are my ears...because that's just weird lol.
Now, in a relationship I'll mind these less especially if somebody knows how to touch them without annoying me or spooking me.
@gmakesmoney (2923)
• United States
23 Jun 08
I can't have my belly button touched. For some reason it makes me automatically gag and get like close to fainting dizzy/neausiated. Crazy, huh? I have no idea why, it just feels so weird. Hate that touch.
@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
5 Jul 08
Yes, I do have no-no spots, but it doesn't bug me up if my wife touches it. I just feel good when she touches in those no-no spots.. I can't give the specific location of no-no spots. But one of them is my armpit, cheeks, arms etc etc
@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
25 Jun 08
i can not stand anyone tickling me.i especially can not stand it when they tickle me under the armpits,i get really angry,and it starts to hurt after a while,so thats where my children always aim for as they know i can't stand it,little buggers.cheers sue
@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
25 Jun 08
Yep, I have one spot in particular that I have trouble letting my husband touch, but only because I'm so ticklish there it hurts! lol.
Hhhhmmm, let's see if I can describe it without breaking the guidelines. Ok, upper body and have 2 of them. Funny thing is, I can still nourish my babies without them tickling me.
@AmbiePam (85497)
• United States
24 May 08
Boy if you just read the last line you'd think this was a dirty discussion, lol! I don't, but let me tell you my sister does! Her ankles are ticklish. I always thought it was fun to try to get them and bug her, but after kicking me in the face a couple times, I stopped! Her husband tries doing it now, and he has gotten a few bruises on his shoulder from doing that. I don't think she means to hurt anyone, she is just that ticklish.
@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
27 May 08
The only part of my body that I HATE having touched is my boobs. Hubby constantly wants to mess with them and it bothers me to no end. Most times it just plain hurts even thou there is nothing wrong with them. I get no pleasure at all out of it.
@mmiller26 (1930)
• Canada
23 May 08
I don't have a no-no spot. I'm a touch-junky so I'm pretty thrilled to be touched anywhere. My mom, on the other hand, HATES it when you touch her elbows. I have no idea why, but it totally freaks her out and she gets mad.
@Modestah (11179)
• United States
23 May 08
mine worst no no spot is my neck. I have painful bones - so I do not like anything touching me really - it is sad that my child wants to lay her head on my belly but it hurts to have that little bit of pressure there... my legs have a condition and touching them also sends me flying...
I wish I could be more tolerant of touches.
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
23 May 08
My husband hates to have his feet tickled. I don't do it often but I will occasionally tickle them just to irritate him. However, he does the same to me as I hate for someone to touch my neck.
I think it is human nature to do something to the ones we love just to make them irritated.
@olivebranch56 (910)
• United States
23 May 08
I have two places I don't like to be touched, one is my face,I won't go into that, the other is my knees. They were burned on a coal heater when I was about 4 and since then that is the only tickle spot on my body. My hubby will play around and try to get them, but he loves to tell the kids where to "get mom".
