Paranoia, can it really kill you?

Philippines
May 29, 2008 1:45am CST
I have experienced my fair share of paranoia in my current relationship. I can never really control my mind, wandering, imagining the things that my bf must be doing right now, without me by his side, things like that. Have you experienced the same thing? --Talk to me--(^^,)
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@cripfemme (7715)
• United States
10 Jun 08
If I were your bf, I would have issues with your trust issues. Perhaps you should have a nice, long talk about where your relationship is going and if you should continue it. Something to be seriously evaluated if you really having trust issues.
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
Maybe i have the issues, i'll try to consider it.Thanks for responding!(^^,)
@Kierstal (143)
• United States
29 May 08
Paranoia might not kill you directly, but it can certainly have a bad effect on relationships. If your man is a good man, trust him! Being paranoid about what he's doing doesn't help anything and only makes you feel awful. When my girlfriend is away, my paranoia is about whether or not she is safe, not about what she may be doing :)
• Philippines
29 May 08
That too! my paranoia isn't all about him having another woman and stuff. LOL. That's a good advice! thanks so much!(^^,)
@rsa101 (15483)
• Quezon City, Philippines
29 May 08
Wow that must be hard for you to cope. I am just curios what prompted you from thinking that way to your current BF? Did he do something bad in the past that made you paranoid like this? Do you think this will help you from thinking all of these things against you BF? Well I am asking on the presumption that you don't have psychological problem or anything? But for a normal relationship, getting paranoid is one thing that one party should never have. If trust cannot be established in a relationship then you should leave it since in a loving relationship you should feel secured and loved not being paranoid or insecure about how your BF is doing.
• Philippines
29 May 08
Ahm for the record, I certainly don't have a psychological problem!LOL. I guess i still have trust issues to work on. My bf has a certain history of third party, but i trust him whole heartedly. Paranoia just comes along with the package of a relationship i guess. You can;t control your mind to not think of other possibilities. hehe Thanks for the response(^^,)