do you enjoy being single?

i must say i feel nice being single till now. i can enjoy my freedom. i can be just the way i want to. I do not think there is any problem being single. i like it.

I am single and have been single for years. I was married and divorced. I was single for a long time and I really loved being single. I began seeing a man, got pregnant while on birth control. we tried to work it out and lived together for about 4 years but it just wasn't right. I have been single now for 10 years and really enjoy it. I do date but I can't imagine myself even living with a man again. I have absolutely no desire to.

for, it's just a matter of choice. i can jump into a relationship anytime but then it's really hard to commit to someone. If ever that I'm gonna fall again, I'll make sure he's the last person that I'm gonna fall with. You can say ,that I'm so choosy but hey you can't blame me because I've been into relationships before that it happened so fast and yet it ended without a simple warning.

someone do not like to talk with others likes being single , they just live anlone !

I'm not single, but I know I can relay my self here because I once being a single. Some times people tend to be single to enjoy their life, being a single doesn't means you were unhappy but you need to seek for happiness within you, you need to think of the things you wanted to do. Some people are also busy with their personal life that's why they don't have anytime in relationships or maybe they are broken-hearted, I guess.. =)

Right now, I actually don't enjoy being single. I have a lot behind my back and sometimes my family and friends are not enough to help me carry the load. I guess it's fate that lets me stay this way right now. Everytime I get an opportunity something not-so-good happens after a short while. I guess people are not what we really think, it's hard to meet someone who is true inside-out. I am not enjoying it but I actually think it's necessary for me now since I have a lot of important things to deal with and having a partner might distract me.

well the case for me is , my busy lifestyle - career does not permit me to have a serious boyfriend , so i guess i am happy being single at this point in time,but perhaps that might change with time.Hopefully....

This is just what I think which can be wrong altogether.. I am single and have not been in any relationship. I still find it interesting if I'd end up in a relationship with someone I really like and who'd also reciprocate the same affection. The reason that I am interested is due to the fact that I have never been in a relationship. If ever I get into one and unfortunately had a very bad experience with it, I would probably prefer being single again due to such experiences from that bad relationship. The the more disappointing the relationship was, the more I'd be inclined to be single. Thus, seeing the single status more better than being in relationship. That's for those who chose being single after being in a (or some) relationship(s). Then there are those who chose to be single without being related to any relationship. Perhaps they have witnessed some of the disadvantages with friends or relatives that are in relationships and wouldn't like to experience the same bad thing. If that's not it, there's always a reason why they prefer being single. They might find it more convenient to be free I guess and have no ties holding them down. Now, when it comes to fate... hwoa.. that's kind'a unfair.. destined to be single.. it would make me think that the person was cursed or someting.. then again, certain things just happen which makes some individuals single for life..

Hi richiem how are? have a nice day to you my friend, That was a great question I can easily relate in these kind of discussion because once I also become single and now I'm married ouch!. Only thing that I enoy being single is to do anything I want in life, like having fun with my friends all day long or all night long.

it really depends, when i feel real lonely i wish otherwise and when i hear stories from my friens who see my friends going through a bitter seperation i am happy that i am single.

it won't be my choice to be single but i'll keep and enjoy being single before i find my Mr.right.i think it takes a long and tough time for me to find the right partner.what's more,i need some luck too.but i won't give up.

Im single, 52yr., female. Been there done that. No thanks. Two times actually. I much perfer singleness. Doesn't mean you don't have a friend or lover. I have been divorced for 31 yrs. Do you know when i die they will contact mi ex. about arrangements and inheritance. Unless i write a will. Even if iam in a live in relationship. Not my children but my ex. Thats messed up. I say if you are unmarried stay that way. Doesnt mean you cant have a signifiant other or family. Give the children both last names. That piece of paper is just that, a piece of paper.

Hie Richiem, I wouldn't say it's by choice or fate for my case. It is just happen in the circumstances I am now and I am fine with it. If the circumstances change again I will embrace it and see how it goes. For the time being I will continue to enjoy my single hood as much as I could as I wouldn't know when I will this kind of freedom again. Cheers,

One thing I learn in this life is being contented. So, I am still single and honestly, I'm definitely happy about it. I can travel anywhere I want to go, hangout whom I choose to, find new experiences, learn to live, and a lot more. If ever I will get married someday, I will be happy also but for now I enjoy my life.

I enjoy being single. I never wanted to get married.I can see meeting the love of my life but I wouldn't marry him.That way I could do what I wanted and I don't have to nag anyone.

Being single has its own perks and disadvantages. In fact, I know a lot of single people who are just taking the best time of their lives. Here in our office, there are countless singles, men and women alike, who are not so eager to find their partners in life or tie the knot, as they say. I believe that each person has his or her own point of view or opinion regarding this matter. For instance, in my case, I'm a married woman for more than five years now. I couldn't say that our marriage life is perfect; because I know that there isn't a perfect marriage. When I was still single and I had been for quite some time, I could say that I enjoyed my status, my freedom in particular, where no one ever told me what to do nor what not to do. But as what my parents and aunts have said in the past, it's so hard to live old with no one by your side. I'm not encouraging you to stay in your current status nor am I discouraging you to do so. It's really your own choice but whatever it would be, be ready for the consequences of your actions. What I could only advise you to do is: examine your feelings and your priorities before making the tough and final decision. If you're happy being single, then so be it. While you're still at it, always love yourself and do take care. Best of luck.

I would never want to be single. As is, I'm a mother, so that would make me a single mother and finances would be limited. Also, I don't enjoy being alone and would prefer the company of my spouse. He is a kind man and while we have our issues like most couples, I would not give him up for an entire room of gold! He completes the other half of my heart. be well. Thanks for your enlightening post.

being single have many reasons...single because they were broken harted,single because they focus on thier family and because they still didn't bump up with their special one or true love...single people enjoys being alone...

Hi friend, I am still single and i enjoy it.It doesn't mean that i will be single throught my life. I will marry when i will find a good parter first and i am matured enough to take care of my partner. Being a single is totally good because you are free to decide and take decision and enjoy your life as you want. There is boss seating on your head.Thats the best part.It has some disadvantage that you will be alone all the time you may feel bored there will be no one so close with whom you will share your activities. But both have their own goodness.I will see how it goes after getting married.

I am very happy to be single. I am happy because I can use my energy to focus on parts of my life that I am comitted to right now and not have to worry about the needs or wants of another person. I have been single for a few years by choice. A relationship takes a lot of committment and energy that I am willing to give or take. I do have a friend with benefits and that type of relationship works for the two of us and has for a couple of years. Not everyone needs a 24/7 mate and the responsibility that goes with it.