Laughing out loud in Public places!!

@Bebs08 (10681)
United States
June 17, 2008 9:39am CST
How do you feel when you hear people laughing out loud in public places? Well, to me it seems like disrespect for others? It is not a good pictures to see yourself laughing out loud in public places. what do you think about this? there are many people who are doing this. I don;t know if they are aware of what they are doing or they just do it purposely or they really like to do it when people are around? I don't understand why. What is your idea about this?
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@selece (2357)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
Self-control is really important. For me, those people who laugh out loud in public do not have this. Yes, it's ok to laugh your heart out but we should be considerate about our environment or the people around. We could me disturbing or annoying other people while we are enjoying ourselves. It's ok to enjoy and have fun as long as we don't disturb or offend others. Some may do it purposely, those are even worse than those without self-control. All they want is to grab the people's attention.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Correct!! you are right!!! we must be considerate to other people's privacy not to disturb or annoy them with our loud laugh. We will just reserve it when we get home. In our own private abode, we can laugh as loud as we can... Thanks for the reply.
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@selece (2357)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
Wow, thanks for giving me the best response. I appreciate it. Anyway, it was a good and interesting discussion you started. ^^ Thanks again! ^^
• United States
17 Jun 08
I don't think that's disrespectful unless it's somewhere where you're supposed to be quiet like the library. But if it's somewhere else I don't think there is anything wrong with it. Sometimes when I hear different people laughing I start smiling because someone is having fun and laughing is good for the soul and to let go of all your stress.
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• United States
17 Jun 08
Yeah I did know that and it's funny when you hear other people laughing. Especially when people have these high pitch laughs or these really weird ones. I don't really mind it at all.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
18 Jun 08
i think the people who do that mostly in public are the teenagers and young people... i seldom see old people laughing out loud in public places... and i really dislike it as it is really very disturbing for me... especially when i want peace with my hubby... i think those people just want to attract attentions and show off... that's what i mostly see and that's what i think... take care and have a nice day...
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
I definitely agree with you. I don't like it either. disturbing other people and annoying them is rude. Thanks for the reply.
@jesus777 (662)
• Bermuda
18 Jun 08
to me its a free country and if someone wants to laugh in a public place after all it is a public place and there are rules or regulations against it you dont get arrested for laughing it isnt a crime i feel that if they laugh so be it we need more joyful people in the world today there are too many miserable epople in this world so if people want too laugh in then go ahead be my guest
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Well, thanks for your reply... it's your opinion..
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
18 Jun 08
There is nothing wrong with laughter. Anywhere. It a human emotion and it is a happy emotion. there is nothing wrong with people being happy, ever. Maybe you need to lighten up, no offence. Laughter is beautiful and should not be shunned upon.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
yeah, theres nothing wrong to be happy but we laugh because of happiness we must also consider that we are not disturbing people with our noise. Thanks for your reply.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
I find those people really rude. We have to be respectful of each other and laughing out loud will certainly distract other people. Some ill-mannered people really do laugh out loud out unmindful of the noise they make. They just show how lowly they are...that they are not raised well so they have poor breeding, others purposely to this to draw attention and they kinda feel proud if others notice and look at them. Too bad! if they only know how they degrade their ownself by doing so.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Exactly right!! I agree with you...thanks for the reply.
• Australia
11 Jul 08
I think that lauging in any place is good. If your in public that means you need to control the volume level. but laugh hard and out loud
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@MH4444 (2161)
• United States
18 Jun 08
OMG! I do that all the time. I have never seen anyone get upset at it. In fact it generally makes people smile. Good for them.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Well, that's good!! you are in a supportive environment. Thanks for the reply.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Jun 08
Laughter is contagious and some people laugh so easily. Laughing in a church,or business meeting or school room might well be frowned on. but in other public places like cafes, and parks, and circuses and such laugh your heart out as laughter is good for you and for your soul too. Laugh and the world laughs with you, weep and you weep alone.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
yeah, you have a point here. Thanks for the reply.
@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
It's scandalous.I feel ashamed for them.hehe I really don't think it's proper.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
you are right lady!!! thanks for your reply.
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
17 Jun 08
It depends on the situation/surroundings and how many people you are with. If you have a fun conversation, a loud laugh is not out of place, especially in a bigger group. If you are alone, well then you definitely look funny. Of course there is also places like the museum, an auditorium, a concert, stuff like that where a loud laugh would of course be out of place. I also think that those who laugh exceptionally loud are not aware of it. Some people by nature have a loud laugh;)
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
hahah!! I agree with your idea. You are right...It just made me laugh when you said, laughing alone? LOUD? well, I'm not doing it loud now. I just enjoy your reply. Thanks for replying.
@tschu8 (136)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Laughing is natural. If you are happy and are having a good time or something funny happens the natural thing to do is to laugh. There are inaparoriate places such a quiet restaruaunt or church or something but in general public there is nothing wrong with it. I would rather see people laughing then to be out in public and see a bunch of sad, depressed people. I think that laughter is contagious and the mood of other people around you spreads to others. What I do not like is when you hear an overly exaggerated fake laugh. Those I can do without!!
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@raimond2 (53)
• United States
17 Jun 08
i think it depends on what public place your in. If your in a church, library, or museum its not good to be laughing out loud. If your in a park, playground, in the mall, or even at a comedy movie its fine to laugh out loud, because these places are places for public enjoyment.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
You have a point on this but what I mean is general public places where there are many people. Well, if you are in a comedy show or party, that can not be considered as solely public because most often they are in a private room or something. Public what I mean is open to everybody..... So then, for me, it is not good to laugh out loud in public. Thanks for your reply.
• China
18 Jun 08
i totally agree with raimond2 point, such these place for enjorment allown people to show their excited emotion bravely, and is proper in moralty .
@SwtJenlove (1090)
• United States
18 Jun 08
I honestly havent thought about that lol. I never really paid much attention to it. i can see if its a semi already noisey place or if there is already noise then that doesnt bother me but if someone is on the phone and starts laughing out loud and there isnt much other noise that really aggrivates me.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
You are right!!! It is really annoying when some laugh out loud at the other people's expense of being quiet. Thanks for the reply.
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
18 Jun 08
The way I see, if it is a public place like a park or a swimming pool, it's ok people laughing aloud. But, places like movie theatres, shopping malls, and so on, it would be disturbing to the public around.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Yes,you are right!! Thanks for the reply.
• United States
18 Jun 08
I don't think it's disrespectful in the appropriate places. I like the sound of laughter. It is contagious. Laughter makes me smile so hearing it is a very positive thing to me. If someone says something funny I will be the first to laugh out loud. I mean no disrespect to anyone. Being happy should not be disrespectful. We need more laughter in the world.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Well, if they are not disturbing others with their laugh, it is fine but most often, a loud laugh is annoying. Thanks for the reply.
@ameeluv (388)
• Saint Lucia
17 Jun 08
you kn ow what.. i think some people just cant help it... lol when i am with my friends i think my laugh isnt loud but we ure do laugh alot... for others i ave witnessed i gues they breathe harder and just simply laugh it away... the only disrespect is if it is in a quiet area!!
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
well, yes,... thanks for the reply.
@Lock_Heed (210)
• United States
17 Jun 08
Laughter is the best medicine. So long as they are not disturbing a congregation or group or anything, it should be encouraged. not enough people take the time in a day to just reflect and take in what's going on. if you have enough time and gusto to give out a hearty laugh, do it.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
there you go... you have a point.. thanks!!!!
@YOULANLIU (311)
• China
18 Jun 08
Yes . I usually can see some complain about the chinese tourists' bad habits.And speaking or laughing loudly in public places is just one of these reasons.I haven't go to abroad personally and do not know the performance of my brethrens.But from my experience in China,chinese indeed like speak loudly in public places.This kind of bad habit brings bother to other people around you as well as reflect one person's low quality.Now the goverment has warned that people have to pay more attention to their words and deeds.I hope the situation can be improved.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Oh thanks for your ideas.
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
Hehehe.. actually, laughing out loud in the public is not good but thier are certain exemptions to this. Like, someone laugh because there are jokes shared by a friend while roaming around the public places. If the causes why someone laugh in the public is reasonable. So be it.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Well, if you laugh out loud in public and then all eyes of the people around are focused on you with a frown look, what do you think they mean? Well, obviously they are annoyed. Not all people can understand that situation... Thanks for the reply,