Question for the ladies !

If i was with a man who were to sexually molest anyone, or physically or verbally asult them for that matter, I would leave the relationship, call the police, and turn the man over to the authorities.

Are you seriously asking this? I don't think you need a bunch of us telling you what you should do. The plain out answer is that is sick and twisted and he should be punished for what he did. I can honestly say that I would probably kill him no matter how much I love the person that is wrong. We as parents are there to protect our children. And if you can't see that you are a horrible person. Why would a mother put her child through something like that. And for asking what a person would do I think you already know all of our answers. That is just sick.

If this did happen to me i would report him to the police and made sure that he never came near me or my daughter again. I would want to kill him.

I hope that I would act rationally and turn him over to the authorities for justice to be served. This way I would be able to be around for my daughter. If I didn't act rationally, I'd castrate him and then kill him for daring to touch my child.

Will this be used against me if I ever have to go through this? LOL. I would seriously cut his parts off and then let the police have him. I don't know how women stay with men that do this. I personally could not be with a man that even hit/spanked my children. I believe that women should be held just as accountable as the men when the woman is aware of what is going on and does nothing about it.

When my daughter started acting a bit strange,having trouble in the bathroom and such I really didn't think much of it at 1st.She was four years old,I woke up one morning and she had pooped in my hair.That morning I sat her down and asked her just what was it she was trying to tell me.After asking many questions about the few people that were in her life,and or what made her start putting her poop everywhere.She finally told me what her father did to her. I told her she was safe and it would never happen again.I told him we were through and sent him on his way.He denied it but he never tried to fight to see her so that only proves his guilt more.She couldn't have known the things she told me that morning if she hadn't experienced it. I made out police reports,and tried to get something done.It isn't easy when the child is just four years old,at first when she had to tell her story to an officer she told the same story,but by the fifth time she had had enough and started making up silly stories.We were told she wouldn't do well in court and that was it he was free. I feel fortunate that I am not one of those mothers stuck in a position of having to let their children have visits with a man that has done this to them .However it does happen. I moved to help my daughter feel safe,and I took her to counseling.For two years she would scream when taking a poop I would go in and kneel beside her and hug while she went. I am happy to say she came through it all O.K. I have my difficulties with her today but I don't attribute a whole lot of it to this having happened when she was four. Jas

Thats an obvious sign that the guy is sick, and need psychological help. Also you need to move out of the home or end the marriage temporary until he seeks medical help and got healed.

If I were in a situation like this I would take my daughter to the police station and file a report without saying a word to the child molester. This would give the police the best possible chance of obtaining any evidence they would need to convict him because, ultimately, that is what I would want...him sitting behind bars for a long, long time.

Oh my god! I would call the police on him and report him so fast and that would be the end of the relationship. Calling the police would be the tamest thing I would be able to do as I would probably try to kill him! I am not sure how women can continue relationships with spouses who have been proven to be abusive in anyway to their children.