Do you reply to Text Messages immediately?

@poohgal (6845)
Singapore
June 25, 2008 11:06am CST
I am one of those people who do not reply to Text Messages immediately. Usually, after I read a text message, I will not reply immediately (except for those real urgent ones) I will usually wait till I am really free or wait till I remember again before I reply. A few of my friends are really unhappy with this habit of mine. They expect me to reply to their text messages immediately. I feel bad sometimes. So, whenever I remember, I will try to reply immediately. However, most of the times, I still do not reply immediately. I guess old habits are difficult to kick. How about you? Do you reply to Text Messages immediately?
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@jHoEn16 (2043)
• Australia
27 Jun 08
yes i do!! that if i am free... i love texting... thats my happiness especially now that i am away from my friends...thats the way we talked bout the latest.. lol aside from chatting on net and emails... but if i am at work i wait for my break and sometimes if the boss is bot there... i will sneak out the back and reply my messages hehehe... they said that when it comes to texting... i am soooo active... hahaha
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@jHoEn16 (2043)
• Australia
28 Jun 08
ahahaha yes i am!!
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
27 Jun 08
You sound like a real avid texter.
@squaretile (3778)
• Singapore
27 Jun 08
well, usually i reply to text messages immediately especially if they are time sensitive, like someone asking for an update of where i am because they are trying to meet me now. other times, when the message is something that can wait, or something that requires a longer reply i will reply later. it also depends on when the message was sent. if it were sent during office hours when i'm very busy then i will reply later. however, if i get something during a boring meeting at work then i will reply immeidately. the thing about having a hp is to be able to reply fast, so i guess that's why people expect that.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
27 Jun 08
It's a reasonable expectation. That's why I never complain when my friends are unhappy with me replying late. It's my wrong.
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
27 Jun 08
Haha.. You sound like a real avid texter.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
26 Jun 08
Usually, if I am not in a meeting, the messages will be replied immediately. But if I am busy, or in a meeting, unless the message is urgent, it will have to wait. There are certain priorities that need to be set. Can you imagine, sitting in a meeting with your big boss, then a message comes in. While he is talking, there you are, typing furiously with your thumb to reply to messages. Not very nice right?
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
27 Jun 08
Then explain to your friend lah. They are also working. They should know the scenario mah. So the next time they gripe, just tell them again loh.
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
26 Jun 08
Not nice at all. That's why I always reply late because I'm usually either in meetings or appointments when messages come in.
@chitchat (179)
• United States
25 Jun 08
I always try to reply to text messages as soon as I can. If I'm too busy to respond obviously I wait until I have time to reply. I always try to get back to people as soon as I can b/c I don't like people waiting for me. My sister always waits until the next day to reply to my text messages. I know she's busy with kids and work but by the time she replies, I forget what I texted her about to begin with. I don't like to wait so I try not to let people wait for me either.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
26 Jun 08
Hearing you say that makes me feel bad about replying late.
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@chitchat (179)
• United States
26 Jun 08
I didn't mean to make you feel bad, poohgal. I was just giving my opinion. I didn't mean to imply anything. I just wanted to tell my point of view on the topic. I know you don't mean anything by it when you reply to text messages a little late. Your busy and that's okay. I'm sorry I made you feel bad, that certainly wasn't my intention.
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
25 Jun 08
I usually don't reply immediately unless its real important, and they need my answer now. I don't have a text message plan on my phone plan, so it costs me everytime I send a text message, so I'm very careful about that.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
26 Jun 08
No wonder. I have 500 free sms. Most of the time I'll exceed.
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• United States
26 Jun 08
Gosh, you must really do alot of texting, if you go over your limit....lol.
@selece (2357)
• Philippines
26 Jun 08
I don't reply to all text messages I receive. Only important or interesting ones. I find it quite a pain to be wasting my load or money for unnecessary messages. Although, I initiate conversations when I'm bored or lonely. Hehe.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
26 Jun 08
Yea. Anyway, a few mylotters have commented in my discussion that they do not reply to unknown messages. That might explain why the gal did not reply to you. So ya, I hope you can approach your gal soon.
@selece (2357)
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
Oh yeah LoL. Damn haha. I was off to do so but I ddnt see her today. SAD huhu..
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
no. not really. i just reply immediately if it is so important, but if it is not important i reply it at a later time.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
4 Jul 08
Thanks for sharing.
@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
3 Jul 08
I try to reply as soon as possible, unless it's something I might need to think about. But I get annoyed when I text someone and they don't text me back, so I try to keep this in mind.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
4 Jul 08
Yea. I get annoyed too. I think it's OK for my friends to reply late but it's not ok if they Never reply. Late better than Never.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
25 Jun 08
luckily i dun mesage u, if not i will have to wait till my neck gets real long b4 u will reply or maybe i wait till i have forgotten about my msg, then u will reply.. lol ^_^ I guess your frenz should know this habit of yours and they should call u instead of texting le.. haha For me, i will make it a point to reply back immediately, because once i wait, i will sure forget to reply them and they wun text me again to ask the same things.. lol
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
26 Jun 08
My friends prefer texting leh.. Haha.. aiya.. actually most of the messages are not that important.. some of my friends also take a long time to reply.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
27 Jun 08
haha.. I will always reply them immediately so that they will have no excuses to take a long time to reply me back.. lol ^_^ And i will always be the one to end the texting session by sending the last msg.. lol
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
3 Jul 08
No because I don't get any. I had it blocked on my phone because so many people just send all those forwarded jokes and it ended up costing me a fortune. I don't miss it.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
4 Jul 08
I know what you mean. Those forwarded messages can be annoying at times.
@Kanutchie (343)
• Philippines
30 Jul 08
i replied fast when im nit busy that im only holding my cellphone But if i have lots of doing gosh when i read it after 1 hour . i replied very late .
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
30 Jul 08
I see. Thanks for sharing.
@srpkinja (375)
• Canada
12 Jul 08
No, I dont. Sometimes, I dont reply at all. Depeding on who the text was from, I will consider texting that person back. If the person texting me is an annoying person or has written something silly or pointless, I will not reply. I usually reply to my good friends, family and boyfriend always but for other people, I dont even bother. I know that sounds a little mean, but why waste money on a text message when I dont have to? Thats my way of looking at it.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
12 Jul 08
Yea. I do not reply to annoying people too.
• United States
11 Jul 08
i usually do immediately if i'm not working. i often get information about what's going on with my family or i'm exchanging jokes with someone.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
12 Jul 08
That's good. Thanks for sharing.
• United States
11 Jul 08
Well my house usually get crappy reception so I have to stop and reply to them all once I get all 500000 in a small reception zone, but I normally reply pretty quickly. I don't mind, but sometimes I won't reply instantly because I think it over but I like to get it out of the way before I forget I even got a text.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
11 Jul 08
Yea.. Sometimes I forget to reply..
• India
26 Jun 08
Hi friend, i always try to reply immediatly when i get text messages. Some of my messages got 6 responses. I feel very happy when i get text messages. Whether it is mylot private message or mobile text message. If i feel somebody's absence i just pm them.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
26 Jun 08
That's good. I'll try to be more responsive. too.
• Canada
26 Jun 08
LOL I fI have my phone with me and I hear it then yes i do reply as soon as I get the msg. I love talking to ppl so if they msg me I always give them what they seek lol an answer lol
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
26 Jun 08
That's good. You are a responsive friend.
• Singapore
28 Jun 08
That would depend on whether I check my phone immediately. I do not always check my phone immediately upon hearing or feeling a sms notification. When I ultimately check it, I will usually reply immediately to get it out of the way - unless it is something that I simply cannot give an immediate response to.
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
29 Jun 08
Yea. I know what ya mean..
@shorty08322 (1270)
• United States
1 Jul 08
sometimes not all the time
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
2 Jul 08
Thanks for sharing.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
26 Jun 08
I rarely get text messages so any message that reaches me takes on a high priority. I try to answer as quickly as I can, that much courtesy I can extend to whoever sent the text message.
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
26 Jun 08
That's good. I shall learn to be more courteous too.
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
whenever i receive messages, i reply right away. my friends sometimes would get annoyed coz they receive a reply a minute after they sent me a message. some love it coz they get a reply right away! =)
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
2 Jul 08
Why should your friends be annoyed? My friends will be more than happy if I were to reply immediately.