A couple sleep by turning to the different other sides...

@yenwie84 (1345)
Malaysia
July 4, 2008 6:29pm CST
What do you think about this? A couple sleep( the girl turns to the left while the guy turns to the right),what's it mean?No more love? Do they have different thinkings? Or something else?
7 responses
• United States
4 Jul 08
They're still sharing a bed and next to each other. Comfort has to be addressed. What are they doing throughout the night? probably changing posisions several times; most people do. Yenwie, for your own sanity, you might wat to try to avoid over-analyzing things. Sleep comfortably.
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@trish32 (1471)
• United States
5 Jul 08
I think it's more a matter of comfort than anything else. When you've been married long enough to feel safe and secure in your relationship you may not feel the need to hold each other to fall asleep. Perhaps the room is warm and it's uncomfortable to cuddle with all the extra body heat. Or, perhaps, you're simply more comfortable sleeping in a different position. I don't this it has anything to do with how much you love each other, or how passionate your relationship is. I've been married for over 15 years now and, over time, we've both found different positions to sleep in that are comfortable without constantly holding each other or cuddling. We still love each other very much and have passion in our relationship.
@yenwie84 (1345)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 08
Maybe I am an over-analyzed person and sometimes can be over-sensitive too. But when this thing happens to me, I think i will feel myself very lonely....lol.
@trish32 (1471)
• United States
5 Jul 08
I don't think it necessarily happens to all couples. Couples, like individuals, are all different. And while you may think now that you would feel lonely if that happened you may find in the future, if it were to happen, that you don't feel lonely at all. I wouldn't worry about it too much, as I think most couples can easily work through such things without it causing any problems for them.
• United States
5 Jul 08
I think it means they like to sleep that way. Or that they sleep better that way. My husband and I typically begin our night cuddling and curled up together, but eventually we sleep in different positions. Just because you're not draped over each other doesn't mean there's no love!
5 Jul 08
I think it means they got comfortable. It also means you over analyze. Anyone who has more to say on it also overanalyzes I think.
@MrNiceGuy (4148)
• United States
5 Jul 08
I think its just easier to sleep like that sometimes. You dont have someone breathing or even snoring in your face and you dont open your eyes to someone looking at you. I have slept like this many times with girlfriends both me and them seemed to prefer it.
@LarienOB (103)
• China
5 Jul 08
hi,my dear friend. Turning to the different sides,i just think It's mean they were thinking different thing.
• United States
4 Jul 08
I think it means that they prefer to sleep on different sides! Regardless of what mattress and bedding commercials tell you, most people don't sleep in satin nightgowns curled happily around their loved one. I know I sleep facing whatever side of the bed I'm on, and my SO does, too. We might cuddle up against each other for a little while, but it eventually gets too hot and we roll over. I can't imagine anyone reading anything into that!