Do you search for your friends in your discussions

Hi dear thanks for starting a lovely post. as u r aware that i called it social site where u meet differnt people and u cant think of this site complete with them. I do agree with u and understand ur feelings, i just want to assure u that u r not alone at this phase. and its also natural that whenever u start discussiobn, u want and look for ur friends to respong it, comment on it, and vice versa. u know why it happened, its due to ur nature and ur interaction with those people, after getting positive response they make it like a thread. and trust me its more fun to communicsate with mylotters u r comforable with Keep it up

The friend such like as you said,I have only one. I check his discussions everyday.I wouldn't like to miss one.Of course,I also response each one. I also enjoy your discussion here. Take care and good luck.

Yes, I prefer responding to my friends' discussion first. Thereafter, I go to the other discussions. My friends are most imporant to me, who favour me, support me and guide me here in my all discussions. I do not feel bad, even any of my friend does not reply, I take it on my stride and thinks, he/she might be busy with other tasks and whenever he/she checks out my discussion, he would definitely respond to it.

Hi Dear Well yes I do look up to see the replies of my friends to my discussion. I have also noticed that there are many of my friends who just don't reply to my discussions and have added me only to have reply to their discussions. In that case, if I find their discussion interesting -- I reply to it otherwise -- I simply ignore it. Many of my friends discussions are simply great and I am always excited to see what new they are going to start. I am glad that I am here and I have made a lot of friends here with whom I can share things and learn a lot.

As a matter of fact, yeah. It is nice to know their different opinions on different topics may it be my discussion, theirs, or from another person. And yes, slowly you start to see how they think and have some sort of a first impression about them. Then as time goes by, some of them will get real close to you, and discussions will feel more casual. Just like talking to them face to face. It is real nice that you'll find some good friends here. Not all of them are online and some aren't active for months. But it's ok. I understand they have their stuff to work on outside mylot as well as we do. I just enjoy those moments with them during discussions. I'm pretty sure most of them do as well. Take care!

that's so sweet of you, u really keep in tact with your friends even in here., I didn't mean u shouldn't, or I don't but I just felt you're such a loving person that even when you don't see us, or talk with us personally,u treat us like ur neighbors..lol..or more so.ur real friends.. I think everybody does, and to all my friends who can read this, I say the same thing for you...lol..thanks for bieng so kind. now, moving on, lol..yes dear I try to response to my friends discussion. and I'm enjoying and really proud of my friends in here coz most of the discussions were sensible and worth-reading. have fun!

I don't always try to look for friends on MyLot, but I do like it when I see the same friends over and over again. I know their good online friends when we start to reply to the same discussion; even if we don't have the same opinion on something, it's great to have friends with the same interests as you do.

i do search for my friends in the discussions and i become sad when i do not see their responses immediately.you could say i am a very emotional type of person.

Really mayka, in the earlier days, after starting a new discussion, I always keen to see my friends would respond to it as soon as possible. Yeah, it’s really disappointed and depressed, if we don’t receive their responses after some time. Nowadays I come to realize that they don’t respond to our discussion very soon, most probably is that they might be busy with their personal things in the real living. Or busy to take care of their own discussions and have to respond to those responders in their discussions firs. Or totally not interested in the new discussion we have started. Anyway those friends who are really interested in the topic surely will turn up in our new discussion finally. posting and have a nice day.

A little of both, and let me say I'm sorry for not latching on to your discussions, I have you modified "on" but I don't seem to get them. Maybe I'll log out and try that.

Hi When ever I login to my lot I will look for the discussions started by my friends. If I have any response to these discussions, then I will post my responses. Since we are working from different time zones, we can not respond when ever our friends post a discussion. I like to respond to my friends and when ever I can I do this in a regular manner.

Every time I visit myLot I will check the discussion started by my friends. I read the title and then respond to those which are interested to me. I think most of the myLotters are doing that. I like to get the response from my friends here.

hi dear this is very true there are some friends who are very regular on my discussion and i also get disappointed if i dont see their reply..there is an unseen bonding i feel..and you are surely one of my special friends..have a nice day..

Yeah, sometimes I do. I try to respond to as many of them as I can.

Yes, I do look forward for their responses as it's fun to discuss with your mylot friends and get to know them a little better every time. Lately I haven't had much time for mylot and I merely don't feel like it these last 10 days of the month. Somehow it's not working for me right now so I'm taking a short break. I do regret not being active and reading what my mylot friends are posting but whenever I get on I feel like I'm not having a good time. Untill that looks up I'll have to take some time off. Thanks and have fun with your other mylot friends! .

I am a bit of an egalitarian when it comes to discussions. I think of everyone the same way and even if someone is not my friend I would still enjoy their discussions and they can easily become my friends is they wanted to. In the offline world, I don't have too many friends because I suspect they don't consider me an asset to their lives and I respect that. Very few people need me now and I am fine with that.

I always check my friends discussions regularly but i may not be able to respond to all of the discussions. I respond to those discussions which i feel interested or i know some thing about the topic. i will be happy if i get responses from my friends.

yes dear true i do. and if you are not you are advised to do so. not only that but i select my interests as well and i tend to post according to my interests too. as you mentioned you develop a sort of affinity for that person and repeatedly you can exchange some thing out of mylot and share your personal things too. and other difficulty, new people on mylot seldom know how to respond back or appreciate the right stuff and marking as the best response and the things like that . ok . each has his aptitude for learning and following the ground rules. keep up the good work . happy mylotting!

Hello, Some of my friends will always answer a discussion I have made . I don't start ones all the often either . Sometimes , When I leave post I will see that a friend of mine has answered the same post too , and sometimes I will comment on that . I also tend too be a shy one most times too

I have only few friends in mylot and whenever i start discussion, i really expect replies from my close friends here. Since i know the profession of some of my friends, if something i raise on that then definetely i look for their expertisim on that discussion.