Friends- Please Help !

Mauritius
July 20, 2008 2:13pm CST
I need your advices friends. Which is better:- LOVE MARRIAGE OR ARRANGED MARRIAGE ? I prefer Love Marriage. What about you? Please emphasize. Thanks
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• India
21 Jul 08
Hey you and me have the same choice, I think love marriage is the best because it allows you to have all the things cleared and have your choice whichj is very important. The best if something goes wrong then you are at blame no one else. But in love marriage you should take consent of your elder. Great man love marriage rocks . Thanks for this discussion . It really excellent.
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• Mauritius
21 Jul 08
Hi friend, well you are so right love marriages rocks ! 'Pyaar kiya to darna kya' -It's in Hindi- it means 'No fear when you are in love'. So let's all who want to marry your love be proud. However, we don't discourage arranged marriages. Both have their positive and negative effects. What you say brother? Thanks for responding.
@Icyfairy (284)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
20 Jul 08
i prefer love marriage. i wouldn't wanna be in an arranged marriage because there is no guarantee that you are going to love or even like the person who you are supposed to marry. you are not sure that you are going to be happy or anything like that and i think that i absolutely have to be sure before i marry someone. ofcoure in both types of marriage there are going to be trials but you are most likely to get through those trials when your marriage was out of love instead of arranged. some people would prefer arranged marriages because it is their tradition but i definately do not prefer it. i prefer to get married because i love someone and i'm sure that i want to be with that person for the rest of my life.
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• Mauritius
21 Jul 08
You are right, I also prefer love-marriage Thanks for your response friend.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Jul 08
hi excellence7 I myself prefer love and marriage, not arranged marriages. Here in the US we have always let our young people choose their mates based on whom they fall' in love with. And it usually works out just fine, no arranged 'marriages here as that is not our custom at all. Our divorce rate is high but so is our contented married people so its still the best for our people here in theUnited States of America.
• Mauritius
20 Jul 08
You are right friend. But do you think in country's where the custom is based on arranged marriage, will it be easy for them to accept love marriage ? Thanks
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
20 Jul 08
I'm an American and I believe that the most intimate relationship a person is ever going to have should be with someone they chose themselves and have real feelings for. I don't agree with arranged marriages. I believe that the tradition is outdated and that young people have the ability to choose their own partners in life.
• Mauritius
21 Jul 08
thanks - thanks for the response.
Well said friend. Young people must have the rights to choose their life-partners themselves. Thanks for responding.
• Malaysia
20 Jul 08
Hello Excellence7, I prefer to choose Love Marriage than Arrange Marriage because Arrange marriage usually are not long because it been set up by parents without our own willing. thanks for asking.
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• Mauritius
20 Jul 08
I totally agree with you friend. But in your country, is love marriage accepted easily ? Thanks