i am not forcing her to eat!

@bombshell (11256)
Germany
July 26, 2008 6:21am CST
my little princess loves to eat tomato just tomato and then if lunch time she has no mor apetite. so the question is if you have this kind of kid,do you force her to eat a proper food?
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
27 Jul 08
you cant force them to eat. grand daughter will eat certain things but when it comes to a meal time she might no be hungry or she just dont like what we fix some days she hardly eats anything good for her then she makes it up on other days and eats every thing in sight. At least she isnt eatting candy and I see nothing wrong with tomatoes they are good for you. too. and I have heard what they dont eat id made up for in about a week every thing gets balanced out for them.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
27 Jul 08
same here but she loves hambergers. one day she will suprize you and eat more in the mean time give her vitamins
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
28 Jul 08
but Lakota in Germany as long as the kid is healthy they dont advice the vitamins.they advice to eat proper food coz all the good vitamins are in good and healthy food.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 Jul 08
THANK YOU Lakota.yeah i heared tomato is good but she needs to eat meat but some how she is not a meat eater.she is eating only a bit bt sh really loves tomatoes.
@ferdzNK (3211)
• Philippines
26 Jul 08
Nah, she'll get over it. I remember my youngest eat just mushroom in thick soup. Take that opportunity to cook foods with tomatoes on it, she'll probably wont resist it or just take the tomatoes in which way she has taken something. My kids had this alternate of low meal intake but they eat something in between attractive biscuits, piza, kakanin specially cooked snacks done in front of them or they have participated in preparing for it. You have to creative in attracting them to eat something.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
26 Jul 08
thank you ferdsNK for the advice.
@Trace86 (5030)
• United States
26 Jul 08
You can't force kids to eat what you want them to eat. All you can do is offer healthful substitutes. If you really want her to eat something else, don't buy more tomatoes. What will she eat then? She does need a source of protein. Also, a multivitamin daily might be good. Will she drink those Pediasure shakes? Basically, kids go in spurts like that and just as quickly move on to a new favorite food.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
26 Jul 08
hi Trace thank you again.well in germany they dont advice to give kids a vitamins or soemthing like pediasureshake coz all the vitamins are in good food but this is my problem, my little one dont eat alot or she is eating only tomatoe if there is something she like she is eating but not a lot she just love tomatoes.but my hubby likes she not eating a lot coz she is a girl we dont want her to get fat and the doctor said she is fine not skiny and not fat.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 08
It is good that your child loves to eat tomatoes which not many kids do. She will have a beautiful skin and loads of vitamin c. As am not a nutritionist I would not know whether it is good, not to take proper food. But logically, she will be deficient in other vital nutrients which will retard her growth to a certain extent.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
26 Jul 08
hi zandi i agree with and what i have heared this also good its like food suplimentsnts too!
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
26 Jul 08
One of my kids is a little bothering right now. He has also that kind of attitude that eats in between meals. So during meals, he already lost his appetite. I can't force him and even his mom cannot. But I thought that anybody or everybody went through that kind of attitude, so let's wait for some times and their appetite will surely be back. KEEP SMILING = NEIL
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
26 Jul 08
hi neil.yeah you are right.my husbad also just the same like what you said dont force just wait till she gets hungry. thank you for the opinion.
• India
26 Jul 08
You have to somehow. One way is to let her eat as many of them as she wants. Usually that can make them lose interest in them.If this does not work, then also you have to make her eat good nutritious food. It is really important when children are small as they are growing.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
26 Jul 08
yeah i did that but somehow if she sees tomato or tomato salad she is not eating other food like meat.she is eating meat if theres no tomatoes anyway thank you for your opinion and have a nice day.
• United States
7 Aug 08
Your little princess would love living here. I have about 10 tomato plants. I eat fresh vine riped tomatoes everyday. We have beefstake, plum and cherry tomatoes. Even though she likes to eat only tomatoes and they are very good for her, you have to find a way to get her to eat other vegatables and fruits. She'll soon develope an apetite for other foods such as chicken, beef, rice, etc. As for now, it's nice to know she likes tomatoes as opposed to just eating potato chips, candy and other types of junk food. Lloyd
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
7 Aug 08
hi there,wowwwwww thats cool hey! well you are right she rather eat just tomatoe than chips or other junkfoods thank you for your advice and have a nice day.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
28 Jul 08
You have to make her try it. Keep the tomatoes to a minimum. Make the foods attractive. If you have a blender, you can blend it in with the tomato juice. Make a game out of it. You may have to sneak it in, make like you really like it. You can also say she will not get any tomatoes until she tries the new food. You have to make it feel as if it is her idea to try it.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
28 Jul 08
hi suspenseful ok i will try your advice thank you so much.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
26 Jul 08
Hi bombshell, I guess it is better if she will not skip any meal..How about giving her some rice with tomato and some viands! I got friends who will be forcing their kids to eat or give something as little reward when they will eat! it might not be good but we can change the motivation each day! I have no kids yet..LOL! I will learning from this post as my advance tips!
• United States
27 Jul 08
ohhhh! Sorry for that, thought she likes rice..LOL! I also agree about reward, not a good thing to be maintained..LOL! I will try and try..Thanks!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
28 Jul 08
hehehe thats good "try and try" .
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
26 Jul 08
she is eating but its not that much specially if she sees tomatoe salad she is eating it just salad. yeah we did it most of the time and its not nice if every time we give her reward coz she is not eating if we dont mentioned the reward the rice yes she is eating it with bacon but my family not a rice eater like we do hehehe thank you for your idea and keep making a baby .
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
28 Jul 08
My daughter has nights when the only thing she eats for dinner is tomato and cucumber. Once in awhile I think it is fine, but if your daughter is only eating tomato all the time then I would limit it and try to get some other foods in her. Maybe give her some tomato along with some other food and if she eats the other food then she gets more tomato.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
28 Jul 08
hi lilybug,she is eating tomatoes if she sees it on a table like our lunch is pork meat with potatao salad with tomatoe salad,she is not eating a alot of meat ,but she just eat tomatoes and thats it.