A Toaster As A Graduation Gift For Her????

@Rozie37 (15499)
Turkmenistan
August 4, 2008 5:24pm CST
I was browsing around on Kmart.com and found the most interesting thing. Under "Graduation Gifts For Her," I found three toasters and a mini size refrigerator. I was totally shocked. How many women would be offended if they recieved these kind of gifts for graduation. I am confident that the men on Mylot would know better than to purchase such gifts for the women in their lives, right? For myself, I would prefer jewelry or something personal like that. But please do not give me a household appliance for a gift. I would not even want a household appliance on mothers day. These are days to make me feel special. Not days to contribute to the needs of the household. What do you guys think? http://www.kmart.com/shc/s/s_10151_10104_Gifts_Graduation_Her
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@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
4 Aug 08
Well, I must disagree a bit with you because if I was graduating High School and moving into a dorm in college I would GREATLY appreciate a toaster, and a minifridge and other of those items. They are very expensive and Lord knows that money is not something you have when you are a college freshman.
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• Canada
5 Aug 08
But should they be gender pecific? I think it's the old sexit stereotype that's bugging people here. Isn't a toaster or mini fridge as good a gift for HIM as it is for HER?
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
5 Aug 08
You guys are funny, but not that funny, show me the money. Then I can buy my own stuff. I have yet to see a toaster in a college dorm. But then again, I don't watch very much television.
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
5 Aug 08
I wouldn't want a household gift either for a graduation present. Household gifts are for Christmas hich I still hate getting them then truefully. I would rather have jewelry or money that sounds like a better gift for a graduation to me.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
5 Aug 08
I totally agree. A toaster is a wedding or house warming gift.
@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
5 Aug 08
It would depend on if the girl was planning on going to college, then the gifts might come in handy. Also if the girl was getting her own apartment, that would be a nice gift. My hubby felt like you do, household stuff was not a gift. Gifts were personel things. I would be happy with new appliances for a gift, but jewelry from your hubby or boyfriend does make you feel more special.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
6 Aug 08
I would think that a toaster would be far too messy for a college dorm. But I have never lived in one so I do not know how things work. I know as far as a school and being on time, I would want to keep it simple and fast and waiting for a toaster to pop up just doesn't play in to that.
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• United States
5 Aug 08
I think some people might be thinking of getting a gift for a kid who is going to college and living in a dorm. I know I have actually asked for a toaster for a birthday or Christmas present when I didn't have one and needed one. So, it didn't offend me. But, I wouldn't have wanted it otherwise. I think it's good to give appliances out if the person asks for it, but not out of the blue. It might make a good wedding gift for a young couple just starting a home together, or a housewarming gift.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
6 Aug 08
Exactly, a wedding or housewarming gift is perfect. It also bothered me that they only offered appliances and only two little cheap ones at that. We women are so much more than that.
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
A toaster as a graduation gift? That's something new to me. And you are right, I'm sure women would rather receive jewelry or something as their graduation gift than a toaster. I actually find this funy. though if I'll be one of them who will receive this, i'll think otherwise. Come to think of it, I got a blender from my husband-then-boyfriend for one of my birthdays ---- upon my request though.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
5 Aug 08
If you ask for it, that's different. I would be offended to recieve a household appliance for graduation.
@Vladilyich1 (1454)
• Canada
5 Aug 08
I should post the entire Dave Barry column that was published this morning in the Miami Herald. It talked about exactly the same thing! http://www.miamiherald.com/living/columnists/dave-barry/story/612227.html Read it, it's hysterical.
• Canada
5 Aug 08
Yeah, I read that too, after you sent me. You'e righ. It does go well with this whole discussion. I hadn't thought of that.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
6 Aug 08
Awwww, that is so not fair, but it is true and therefore extremely funny. More fathers do not to teach this to their sons. I believe the world would run so much smoother if they did. I remember when I was in my early teens, my uncle gave my aunt a "Lakers," basketball for mother's day. He had been bugging her about losing weight. That still tops the list as the worst gift ever to me. But as the article stated, men give gifts that they feel will be useful. Then one Christmas when we were planning to move and my aunt was going to rent out the house that we were in, he did not give her a gift at all that Christmas. He told her that the bars that he had put on the house a few months ago, had been her Christmas gift. She ran home to her mother and for the first few days in the new house, she was not there. But somehow he made their relationship work. They were married for 27 years. He passed away this May and they were still very much in love.
• Canada
5 Aug 08
I can't beliee all he sexit assumptions tha can go along with those gits. I guess I won't be shopping at KMar anymoe. Not to worry since they're no longe in Canada, and haven't been or years. If my husband ought me a oaser as a special gift for a special occasion, I'd shove his left foot in it!! LOL Why do there need to be different gifts for her and fo him anyway? I can't think of one thing I'd ever wan that a man wouldn't enjoy oo.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
6 Aug 08
I totally agree with what you are saying. Another thing that seems to have bothered me is the fact that the only gifts they had listed for a girls graduation was a toaster in three different colors and a mini frig. The list of gifts for women for any occasion should be the longest list of all. There are so many special things that we enjoy.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
5 Aug 08
lmao! Do you have something against toast? hahaha I am just kidding. I'm with you, giving me a toaster for a special gift is a good way to get a toaster up your a55!
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
5 Aug 08
LOL!! What if you didn't have one and you were CRAVING some cinnamon toast? Huh?
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
8 Aug 08
I never graduated so I wouldn't know Rosie LOL but having said that, when family graduate we give money and have them buy whatever they want themselves.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
8 Aug 08
That's is the way that it should be. If someone gave me a toaster for graduation and I did not ask for it, I would be grateful and probably offended at the same time.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
8 Aug 08
Actually it sounds very sensible to me. If your talking about a high school graduation, most of the kids will be going to college and toasters, toaster ovens, microwaves, mini fridges, coffee makers and such can be the only way these kids manage to eat without having to go to restaurants. It actually makes sense to me. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
8 Aug 08
I would think that a toast would be a luxury I could do without in college. They are far too messy anyway.
• United States
6 Aug 08
If I was going to college or going to be getting an apartment of my own because I now am moving from the dorms I might like a refrigerator for a gift. I do not mind getting appliances for a gift. I guess this has to do with growing up poor and if someone wants to buy me a toaster as a gift then go for it. When growing up my dad bought my mom a milking bucket for a birthday gift. Granted not a nice gift but one she needed to milk the goats and it was a fancy one what had a lid on it so when bringing the milk in should would not slop it. Now I say "She" because she did not do the milking it was us girls because mom laid in bed most of the time.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
8 Aug 08
If it is something that I need, then that is fine. But did you notice on the page that the only gifts for her were appliances. I also think that a toaster is a little messy for a college dorm.
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• United States
20 Aug 08
It sounds messy but when you consider that the only food a college student gets is cafeteria food. A few crumbs from the toaster is not bad.
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
5 Aug 08
I'm guessing that it would depend on the person and their wants and needs. Some women have Hope Chests in which they buy a few household items every week/month/year for a loved one's Hope Chest so that when they grow up they'll not be needing so much because it was bought through a period of time such as sheets, bath towels and wash rags, dish cloths and towels, blankets and so on. But if this person didn't put it on their wish list then heck no! I wouldn't buy that for them as a gift! It would be very insulting. But then again, it could be for a college dorm use too so who's to say? I'd have to ask the person who's recieving the gifts a few questions without their knowledge of why I'm asking before I bought anything just to be sure.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
5 Aug 08
Hmmm. Well, for a high school graduation, this isn't a BAD gift idea. If you're sending your daughter off to a dorm for college or to her new, small-but-cute apartment, she is going to need that mini fridge or toaster! Other useful and fun graduations gifts? A new bed set, a towel set, frames and backing screws/tools to display photos or art, storage solutions such as large flat boxes or collapsible cubes. By the way, some items I have loved as gifts - a crockpot, a toaster, pampered chef stoneware, and something I would love - a roomba (robot vacuum), a scuba (robot floor cleaner), etc. I received the toaster for a wedding gift, and it went to good use because neither of us had a toaster. I also received a nice little hand blender that plugs in, perfect for mixing up fresh salad dressings, protein shakes, even making chocolate or strawberry milk for kids.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
5 Aug 08
I believe that a toaster would be an excllent wedding gift. But for graduation, I would want something more personal. A toaster would also be a nice housing warming gift.
@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
4 Aug 08
They are perfect gifts for any girl that will be continuing her education. Lot's of times people do not think of practical gifts to give, and if she is not going to college, one day she will be on her own and would appreciate gifts like those.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
6 Aug 08
Are you saying that boys do not make or eat toast?
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
6 Aug 08
Hi Rozie37! I would not like to receive household gifts too. I will prefer personal things even if they are not that expensive as long as it is really for me alone. haha..I am just trying to feel special. Sigh! Take care always..God Bless!
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
8 Aug 08
Everyone wants to feel special when they accomplish something great. If someone were to give me a toaster for graduation, it would be someone who didn't know me very well.
@ruby222 (4847)
5 Aug 08
It does make you wonder who would buy their wife a kettle or a toaster as a gift,but lol there are a lot of us who may well be happy with a present like that.Im not a present person full stop,I would rather just have a card,that does me nicely,but I do know many women who would be very offended at the thought of getting a toaster for a pressie!
@Elixiress (3878)
5 Aug 08
I think they are quite useful gifts to both men and women, especially since many people move into their first home after graduating or into a new home, so things like this would be useful as they would not have to buy them themselves, which would save them money, which is great when you have student loans and such to pay off. I do not see anything offensive about it.
@samijo719 (1052)
• United States
5 Aug 08
I agree that these would make wonderful gifts IF the graduate was moving on to college, or moving out on there own. I know when I moved into my first place this year for my birthday most of my family got me stuff for our apartment and I was thrilled. It is also my first place though so I guess this would depend on the situation that goes along with it!
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
5 Aug 08
Mini Fridges are awesome and I think anyone would be happy to get one. They are cool. But a toaster seems kinda lame, but I think it depends on the person. Some kids have too much fun stuff and really just need household neccesities. Why should those things only be for a girl though? I think that's pretty jacked.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
5 Aug 08
I understand where you are coming from. I wouldn't mind a refrigerator like that if I were going off to college and would be living in a dorm, that would be cool.
@Corimore (249)
• United States
5 Aug 08
I have to disagree I want a carpet cleaner and my only hope of actually getting it is for a gift. So I would love to recieve something like that. Jewelry is nice but as a mom who has no where i would actually wear it. I need something practical. So if anyone is wanting to get me something a carpet cleaner the one that heats up I am all for it.