"At what age did u get Married"

@iyah10 (4116)
Kuwait
August 12, 2008 4:10am CST
I get married when I was 20 years old eventhough my Mother has a doubt but I still go on and then I got 2 children which a Son of 13 and a daughter of 11 years old and after 5 years of Marriage my husband died then being a Single Mother to my children is a very hard responsibilities and so I decide to travel abroad and found a work here in Kuwait as a Hostess in banquet in JW Marriott Hotel and to make it short I got married again after 5 years of being a widower and got another daughter to my beloved Husband and she is one year old at this time.....and although the life for me has been very tough but I do love all of my children without any regrets to have them in my life Now, what age did u get married, Did u get Married in an early age, Do u have regret........//////
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@babystar1 (4236)
• United States
12 Aug 08
I've got married when I was 19 years old and my husband was 18. We have 4 children two gorls and two boys. I never regret it. We been married now for 39 years. i have 10 grandkids .
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• China
12 Aug 08
God, I really cannot believe that you got married when you were 19 years old, which was too young, I think. Well, there is a tendency that people are getting married later nowadays, HUh.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
13 Aug 08
I was thinking that I was the younger one when I got married but it is nice to know of you that everything is fine eventhough you got married early like me and you already have a grandchildren then that was really nice of you.....
@babystar1 (4236)
• United States
13 Aug 08
thank you for your comment
@intimate36 (1416)
• Pakistan
12 Aug 08
No dear, I have no regrets...I got married when I was 25 ,and my wife was 19. Now married for 20 years , we have a daughter 16 ,and a son 12...
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@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
12 Aug 08
Congratulations that was such a very long way (2 decades) is such a big number of years already and wish you and your family the best of everything........
• Pakistan
13 Aug 08
Thanks dear... It was sad , to know that you lost your first partner ,at an early stage...I pray for your happy long life ... GOD bless you..
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
13 Aug 08
It is fine now for I already recovered on that part and God always have a reason and purpose on everything that happened in our life.........
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@se7enthbird (8328)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
i ot married when i was 29. and for me it was a perfect age for me. i am already looking forward to wake up with someone and grow old and build a family with someone. i already met a person who is perfectly fit for me. now we are married for five years and this august is our 6th year anniversary. we also have a tow year old son.
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• China
13 Aug 08
Hey, I think 29 is a very good age to get married, and this cute kid in the picture you used is your son right, hey, it is August now, anyway, Happy Anniversay.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
15 Aug 08
Happy 6th Anniversary to you and to your partner and you also have a cute child (Son), Bless you all
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
I got married when I was 25, no regrets at all. There are problems with my partner of course, but when you see the angelic face of your baby, everything gets resolved...
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• China
12 Aug 08
Really? I never thought that staring at your partner's angelic face would solve problemm, I think you are going a little bit further, aren't you? But anyway, if you think it could settle your problem, then it is a good way. Keep on looking at your partner's angelic face. Good luck.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
13 Aug 08
Guess so lucky to see with her Angelic face ever but what if one day those beauty will be gone by time would you still love and be happy to be with her???
12 Aug 08
I got married at the age of 24. I do not regret getting married, and I believe I made the right choice. I had a child when I was 19, so when my husband took him in whole heartedly that is when I knew he was the one for me!!
• France
13 Aug 08
I was engaged to be married when i was younger, but found out he had been seeing someone else behind my back and break my heart. Then i met my now husband and we got married when i was 27 years old. We just celebrated our wedding anniversary of 16 years and we have four lovely daughters.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
13 Aug 08
No wonder that he is the right person for you girl for he accepted you for being who you are and that was truly Love, Good luck more for the Marriage.
@gemini_rose (16194)
12 Aug 08
I am sorry you lost your husband so soon into your marriage, that must have been very hard for you. I was married when I was 28 years old, we have been married now for 7 years and have four children. I think that my only regret is that I married too soon, I married more because everyone else thought we should and not because I was ready too. I do love my hubby and I would have definately have married him, but I just wish I had done it when I was totally ready and not half ready.
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@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
13 Aug 08
God always have a purpose in our life so I do not have any regret on that part as well and I am still lucky because God lend me to someone who loved as who I am and I am now leaving with my new Husband for more than 8 years now and I have a new baby as well she is a year old now and her brother and Sisiter very happt to be with her........
@Humbug25 (12552)
12 Aug 08
Hi there iyah10 I got married when I was 25, started having children when I was 30 and fled from my husband when I was 35. I hate the thought of marrying again and don't think I will. Yes it is tough being a single mum but my life is 100% better now than it was 2 years ago.
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@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
12 Aug 08
I am still glad that you are Happy of being who you are right now because it would not matter either we are Single or not as long as we are happy on each way of our decision and that matters......
@modmommy (44)
• United States
12 Aug 08
I got married the first time a few weeks after I turned 17. Wow, what was I doing? I have no regrets because I have amazing children. I only regret that I wasn't stronger. Now, I'm in another relationship with a lot of good things. It's not perfect but what is perfect? My relationship is minus abuse, so it's all great. :) I now have a 17 yo, a 15 yo, an 11 yo, and a 4 yo. By far, my children are the best part of me. The first three are from my first marriage. The last one from this relationship. He takes responsibility and loves all 4 of them though. I think there is a light at the end of every tunnel.
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@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
12 Aug 08
I am glad that everything is good in your life Marriage and have find the right person for you and so glad that he loved all of the children in the same way she love his own child......Thank you for sharing......
• Sweden
12 Aug 08
I get married when i was 21 and were living together here in Sweden for almost 1 year and i never regret it any single day being with my husband.I think there is no specifec age of getting married as long as you love each other then why not.But theres other country that you must be 21 years old to get married,then they do live in together before married.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
12 Aug 08
Did u got married with a Swedish Man?
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@fcangel9 (51)
• United States
12 Aug 08
I got married when i was 20. My family supported me 100%. I adopted my step son, who i had raised his entire life. He is now 5 and everything is peachy :-)
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@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
12 Aug 08
i am glad that you were also Happy on the decision that you have made and wish for you all the Luck in life........
@fwangaa (3058)
• China
12 Aug 08
no,i get marriage just last year,when i was 27 years old.and i think it is too late for someone married . but very quickly just acquaint her two months then married because i find i was in a serious ill and don't think a lot for this marriage.and now ,i want to say that,are you other children live happily for themself and are they in school? are you give them money now?
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@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
12 Aug 08
It is not yet in your age to get married at 27 so at least you are so mature in everything in life and in behalf to my children my Husband accept them as it was his own blood and they were with my Mother and we are still sending them money every month and they were in the School my Son is a first year High School now and my Daughter is in grade six.......
@humra7 (178)
• United States
12 Aug 08
I've got married when i was 17. Nobody in my family is happy about that but i didn't regret it.
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@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
12 Aug 08
I am glad that you do not have any regrets with your decision in life marriage and Good Luck to both of you.....
@nic_knick (741)
• China
12 Aug 08
I am still single now, I am now 27 years old,I have no idea that if I am old enough to get married or not, people around me are actually getting married and some of them even have kids. My parents have always urged me to find a girlfriend and get married, maybe they want a grandson. But I still think that it is yet too early for me to get married at this age, I have to work and I have lots of other things to attend to, who knows what my life would look like if I get married without work? Have a great day.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
13 Aug 08
I guess you are not old yet to be hurry on getting married but if you will be soon then that would be good but I've noticed a brother of mine he got married when he is in your age and have a stable job and helped a lot of my parents need then at this time he is also happily married with 2 kids......
• China
14 Aug 08
well. i think it really doesn't matter if we are getting early or late, cause the essence of marriage lies in the happy relationship.
@gr8life (6253)
• Malaysia
13 Aug 08
Hello iyah10, For me it is not the age that matters but whether you are ready for it or not - ready to accept another person in your life during good and bad times, ready to share your life with others and ready with the marriage itself. Marriage is not for a day or two, but hopefully it will last forever. I got married quite late - when I was 32 and was very lucky to get a son a year after. I had enough of experiencing freedom when I was single and I have no regret when I decided to get married. No one forces me. I made my own decision. Right now, I am really content with my family life. I love being a filial daughter, a dedicated wife and a good mother to my lovely son.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
15 Aug 08
I am so happy with you friend and Good Luck and wish you for more Happiness in Marriage Life.
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
i got married at the age of 28 with my boyfriend. we have a 12 yr relationship. we waited that long so that everything will be settled before we got married. and its really worth the wait.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
15 Aug 08
Good Luck for everything and wished you all the best in life......
@bfarrier1 (2083)
• United States
13 Aug 08
iyah for one you cant live your life regretting ever thing you did in it or you will never be happy at all. I was married the first time at 16 we had 3 beautiful daughters together and after 10 yrs we were divorced.Who was to blame?Neither of us we were TO YOUNG to begin with but who suffered My CHILDREN. The second time I was married I thought I really knew what I was doing I was 26 NO THAT WAS EVEN WORSE because he abused my girls and as they say I got out of the skittle into the frying pan,but MY GIRLS and I made it through it LUCKLY (they still love me)And I am now married to a wonderful man that dont have any kids but accept mine as is own along with the grandkids and so there goes the saying HAPPLILY EVER AFTER! You have a wonderful night.Regrets I can say I have had a few but they didnt hold me back.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
15 Aug 08
You are absolutely right that we all have to moved on whatever struggle we will encounter with our life. So wish for you all of the best.
@palonghorn (5490)
• United States
13 Aug 08
It sounds like you have done okay for yourself and your children. I got married the first time when I was 19, only lasted a year, ended in divorce. I remarried at 20 shortly after my divorce, was married for 5 years, and we had a daughter. It also ended in divorce, we were too much in age difference, and he was too in love with his money. I remarried a third time when I was 25, had another daughter, that marriage lasted 16 years, before ending in divorce 4 years ago. Eventhough they didn't work out, I don't regret any of them, and I have two wonderful daughters. I have been living with my s/o for 3 years now, and we are happy with things the way they are, and I don't need a wedding to know that he loves me.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
15 Aug 08
I guess it would turned out fine as long as both of you agree on it and happy with he situation then just go on with it and hope for you more happiness in life.....
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
13 Aug 08
Hey I am 28 and and I am single.....so no regrets ....Thanks GOD for keeping me like this ....at times I am just afraid of gals ...I think single is better ..... Thanku Ganesh
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
15 Aug 08
Good Luck for being Single anyway it is our life choice that would make us Happy at the End......
@ljean791 (66)
• United States
13 Aug 08
I got married at 29, I'll be 33 next month. My husband and have been together a little over 6 and a half years now, the first three years we dated each other exclusively. He's the only man I have ever "been" with and I don't regret it at all. He is very patient and loving and just an all around great guy.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
15 Aug 08
Guess so lucky at all for finding him and Good Luck for more years from your Marriage life..........
@Muelitz (1592)
• Canada
13 Aug 08
I married at the late age of 30. My wife was 31 then. Now we have 2 boys and another baby (gender is still unknown) due this November. You have to be proud of yourself. Being able to endure the tests/hardships/trials that you have been through. That is the right attitude, as long as we breathe, there is hope and reason to live. I admire your will to go on. Stay Safe
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
15 Aug 08
Thank you friend and to you also hope everything would be alright for I am also sure that in your situation by the time of your age in Marriage everything is mature enough in any part either it is financial, moral and spiritual aspect so Good Luck and be Safe also for yourself and family,,,,,,