I Feel Ignored.

@Chevee (5915)
United States
August 15, 2008 8:25pm CST
I feel like I am being ignored, I have posted and posted and I am not getting any response to any of my discussion I started. Am I doing something wrong here. Are they visible? The only place I see them is on my profile page. I know somebody out their is interested in some of the same things that I am. All my responses have 0 response. Hello people I am here. My username is Chevee I am the mother of three the grandmother of 4 children. 2 girls and a set of twin boys. I am ready to retire, but not old enough. I like computers.
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14 responses
• United States
16 Aug 08
Just relax and enjoy doing your posts. I experience the same thing, and if I'm not all caught up in hoping people read and respond to my posts, I actually enjoy this site. Just write what you're really feeling, experiencing, study the posts that get lots of responses. I don't look for responses any more. I just have fun posting and answering questions.
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@Chevee (5915)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Thank you, that is a good a answer, and very good advice. I will do that just relax, enjoy, and have fun.
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@myklj999 (26206)
• Olney, Illinois
16 Aug 08
I've been ignoring all my friends on here the last couple days. Just some personal stuff going on that has got me down. I'll try to visit some of your discussions later today and post some responses.
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@Chevee (5915)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Are you better now?
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@myklj999 (26206)
• Olney, Illinois
16 Aug 08
Somewhat. Just have to get it outta my system; I should be back to my normal sarcastic self by tomorrow.
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Sorry you don't have any responses yet. I don't remember seeing any of your discussions. It's nice to meet you! What do you want to talk about?
@Chevee (5915)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Thank you, you are so sweet, now I am at a lost for words. lol Ain't that a shame.
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@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
16 Aug 08
LOL. That's ok. I sent you a friend request so I'll see your other discussions if you accept it. I hope you get to having more fun here on mylot.
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@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Hi Chevee, try to add friends so that they will be notified when you will post...I was inactive yesterday and will try my best to here in your post each time...lol! sometimes, also notifications are late....enjoy posting and for sure your friends will be able to see your post soon!
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@royal52gens (5380)
• United States
16 Aug 08
After you have made some friends and been here awhile, you will look back at this discussion and wonder what you were so worried about. Somethings take time. You are new. Give people a chance to get to know you by responding to discussions that others have started. Yes, you get paid for doing that as well as starting your own discussions. Oh, and btw, yes, your discussions are visible. LOL
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@Chevee (5915)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Thank you. Patience, is a virtue. I will be as patient and as a cat stalking a mouse. I am going to sneak up on it.
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
16 Aug 08
im now going to be watching your posts, particularly your stelf work blessed be
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• United States
16 Aug 08
Sorry that you aren't getting any responses to your discussions. I haven't been around here lately because I've been so busy at work. This is the first discussion I have read that was started by you but I'm responding to it. :-) Hope you get some more responses to your posts. See you around.
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@Chevee (5915)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Thank you, and the name fit you,
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
16 Aug 08
well it takes time to get yourself known round here, you need an active friends list. A good idea is to get an active and extensive list together of people who share your interests. Generally speaking your friends will answer your discussions hope this helps keep on posting blessed be
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@Chevee (5915)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Thank you. You are now my friend.
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
16 Aug 08
I am happy to add you to my list, long may you keep posting blessed be
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@misty99 (736)
16 Aug 08
Hello Cheevee,everybody experiences a lot of not so good things in here.If you can check no response tab...if i'm not mistaken there are hundreds of no response topic.You can see some topics dealing with deleted discussions.I have topics with no response-i think have one deleted-not so sure.Why worry?Start inviting friends,responding to topics under your interest.Soon you'll see it pays,just stay here and enjoy it.
@Chevee (5915)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Thank you I am learning.
@ronaldinu (12440)
• Malta
27 Jan 09
Hey chevee i hope that your discussions are getting much more replies after six months that you have posted this discussion. I think it is a quesion of luck here. there is no golden rule that makes you collect the greatest number of votes.
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@TessWhite (3147)
• United States
17 Aug 08
I've been MIA for awhile so I can't say if your discussions are here or not. This is the first one of yours I've seen. I can tell you that some people (for whatever STUPID reason) think they shouldn't respond to newbie's discussions. How dumb is that? Weren't they a newbie once too? LOL Anyway, welcome and have fun posting.
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@cjmobxnc (137)
• United States
17 Aug 08
I am getting ready to go look at your profile page and respond to some of your discussions. Don't let your lack of responses get you down. Sometimes it takes people longer to get around to answering postings than others. I know that I have a hard time responding to discussions weeks that I have to work 6 or 7 days straight, but weeks that I only have to work 2 or 3 days I have lots of free time to kill.
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@mommyboo (13198)
• United States
16 Aug 08
Hi there and nice to meet you ! I will take a look at your profile and see some of your discussions in a bit. I see you are fairly new to mylot - it takes a little bit of time to get a following here. As a rule, I respond to many more discussions than I start, although I do have quite a few discussions I have started now after being here a couple of months. Just remember that not every discussion is interesting to every user, I don't respond to every one of my friends' discussions. I have too many people on my list and sometimes I have no knowledge or interest in something they post. The same could be said for some of what I post, I can't expect all my friends to be pushing and shoving to answer, especially if say my posting was about toddler toys and my friend was a 67 year old man with no children lol. People will respond to discussions they find interesting and relevant, and things they care about or have experience in. Don't worry, I'm sure nobody is purposely ignoring you. Take care and welcome!
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@gemini_rose (16193)
16 Aug 08
This is the first time that I have come across any of your discussions, but I am sorry that you have not been getting any responses. I will keep an eye out for you and if I see any that I can join in on then I will. I am sure that you are not being ignored on purpose though.
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• United States
17 Aug 08
Aww, it's just because you are new here. Just like in every day life, you can't wait for people to come to you to make friends. You just have to jump in and make conversation. Welcome to myLot, don't give up.