Did you felt cheated???

August 29, 2008 11:44pm CST
I have been a good girlfriend, a good friend and a good person in general...But in spite of the things you've done to such person it isn't that's not good enough to them being a good to everything you did and want in life still you are not that good, everyday as i live with this life doubts multiplied either way you felt cheated by your boyfriend even though everyday you keep on reminding him if he stub you at the back with a knife better be frank and man enough to tell me for i can let you go and give back the freedom that he wants in his life. It is fair enough that you are both living in the same roof and he's playing with other team..???
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12 responses
@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
well that's life. i'm a good girlfriend, friend & a person but being good isn't enough, you will still find out that the person whom you give your trust will stub you on your back. i also experienced that, not once, not twice but always! everytime i'm in a relationship, i will find out that my boyfriend has another girl. well i just tell to myself if that's what they want, then i will give them what they want! and it's not my lost, it's theirs! i remember when i first experienced about being fooled by my ex bf, i want to get even, i want to retaliate but i just realized, what for? it's just a waste of time. so i just let karma give him the right lesson hehehe..
@Aniakim (351)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Aug 08
Should you feel cheated? Well, Y-E-S! And you don't have to learn to spell the word "cheated" to know that you are "cheated" in these case, girl. It's all over you - YOU ARE CHEATED. If you feel that you are and most of all you have evidences that you are cheated, then why the heck stay in your relationship when you feel that you're no longer happy and loved? if he can't be man enough to tell you, then be woman enough to speak for your rights in your relationship. men always wait on women to initiate the break up, it's up to you now. Good luck.
• United States
31 Aug 08
Get away from him. Find someone else. If my boyfriend cheated on me, I would not stand for it. I would forgive him once as long as he promises never to do it again, but if he ever did it to me twice or if he kept the relationship with the other woman going, I would just leave and find someone who would love me for me.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Aug 08
hi chamiemariechan No it is not fair that you are both 'living together yet hes off playing with someone else.that is called cheating and is a signal for you to show him to the door, tell him goodbye and dont let the door hit your behind on the way out, so kick him to the curb. He is not playing fair with you at all so let him go.
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@banadux (630)
• United States
31 Aug 08
If he is sleeping around on you definitely don't live in the same house with him. Kick him out if it's your place or move out if it's his place. You deserve better and the sooner you get rid of that guy you have a better chance of finding the actual mister right.
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@m_sm1982 (31)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
don't wait on the day that he'll slap you with evidences that he is cheating on you. instincts will tell you if he is or if he's not. don't be afraid. if you feel like you've been cheated, let go. he is definitely not the only man in this world.
30 Aug 08
halo mam,,,well thanks for the respond i really appreciate it with all my hearts I am really lucky enough to have a friend like u who is there for me whenever I need advices...well YES he is not the only man in this world that I should evolved my life to him...he is sucks!!!!he don't deserved me of being good to him,,,,he worthy to be dumb and be on the trash like dirt...hahahahahhah i should to move on... thanks Girl!!!
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
well there are just repeated perpetrators and they get away cause more often than not, girls allow them to cheat on their backs. i have felt cheated too, in my life, most is not about the relationship but i have felt cheated by a friend.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
23 Sep 08
If I felt as you do....I would just leave. I, alone, am responsible for my own happiness. You are too. If I was unhappy and you sound very unhappy, i'd just leave....simple as that. It isn't that you are not good enough for this guy because i am sure that you are....the real problem is that you really don't think that you are and you have to question it. I think you need to build your esteem and then you won't be asking such questions. If you were more confident in yourself then you would be ok alone and would only tolerate a partner that added to your already wonderful life.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
30 Aug 08
It's definitely not fair.. I have been back stab many times by my frenz in order to get what they want and to avoid conflicts with boss or gfs, and thus i'm always the one to suffer everything without me knowing that they have actually done that to me.. I only got to know what exactly happens from my other frenz whom only told me a few years later.. BY then its too late for me to do anything and i dun like the feeling of being cheated, because i dun feel good that i have to carry the burden for something that i din do.. Just like u say, whatever that person wants, they can tell us freely and we will give it to them if we can, there isn't a need to treat us like that..
@joyadalia (1408)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
My say is: leave him. He does not deserve you girl!
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@tewiawi (63)
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
Nobody will admit if they have ever been cheating on you, not until you caught them. The question is, would you still want to wait for that day to come? I mean, you're a smart girl and us women, have this instinct and we can always tell if there's something wrong. It's not that we don't trust our boyfriends or anybody, but sometimes we need to be wiser in dealing things like that. Yes, everybody deserves a second chance but the thing is, are you still HAPPY? If not, then why holding on to a person when you know he's just gonna hurt you over and over and over again.... I am not being rude but I know somehow you agree to this: "DUMP HIM" and show him how stupid he is for cheating on you. It will definitely not gonna be your loss, it will be his.... HEHEHEH
@chinna533 (309)
• India
22 Sep 08
yes i feel that every time i will be cheated..