Do you fail to notice your friends

By Bala
@balasri (26553)
India
September 7, 2008 7:40am CST
while focusing on your enemies?
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8 responses
@dpk262006 (56521)
• Delhi, India
9 Sep 08
I only focus on my friends, I just ignore my enemies, if at all there are any enemies.
@balasri (26553)
• India
14 Sep 08
No ifs and buts.You won't be having any enemies.I know that Deepak.
@dpk262006 (56521)
• Delhi, India
15 Sep 08
LOL! Thanks Bala! for the positive thoughts.
• China
8 Sep 08
i feel this a very interesting question, in fact ,in our everyday lives, we often edit our friends and sometimes our parents. we spent more times on our enemies,because we may thought they are our competer in this or that fields.but i think it is wrong .we ought to spent more time on our friends rather than enemies.
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@balasri (26553)
• India
10 Sep 08
Thanks for the good response.
@littleowl (7157)
8 Sep 08
Hi bala to be honest I'm not sure wether or not I have enemys don't think so but my friends always come first...littleowl
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@balasri (26553)
• India
8 Sep 08
Take care of your friends and beware of your enemies Littleowl.
@wolfie34 (26792)
• United Kingdom
7 Sep 08
That is a very common and all too easy mistake to slip into my friend, we can be so focused and driven by our enemies and getting one over on them, retaliation and revenge plots that we forget our nearest and dearest friends who are always there for us, and the trouble is when you focus on your enemies you get so involved so eaten up by it all that you become less attractive to your friends who start to gradually disappear because you are ignoring them and instead of spending time with them you are spending too much on people that don't really matter to you. So you lose twice!
@balasri (26553)
• India
7 Sep 08
And you fail to notice the friends slowly turning into foes too.
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@wolfie34 (26792)
• United Kingdom
7 Sep 08
Exactly! Good point Bal!
@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
sometimes i do fail to notice my friends and those that truly care for me..i even intend to keep myslef away from them if im facing hardships or tribulations in life...i do not have enemies...if i have maybe im not aware of them.
@balasri (26553)
• India
7 Sep 08
We all need to be left alone at times.
@chinniR (661)
• India
15 Sep 08
hi bala. i do fail to notice my friends at times, but that's not because of my enemies. it happens when i feel unhappy about something. as far as my enemies are concerned i don't have any for now. i will see to that i will not fail to notice my friends, cause i know how it feels. happy mylotting!
@sang2k2 (1834)
• India
14 Sep 08
yeh i do,and have recently experienced the same situation which makes me feel very bad
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
7 Sep 08
Yes, it happens to all of us. We concentrate so much on the bad people that we forget that we are blessed with so many wonderful friends.