Loving despite the sexuality?
By jeiyah_12
@jeiyah_12 (1041)
Philippines
September 10, 2008 8:46pm CST
What can you say about this?
There's been a lot of man-man or girl-girl relationship and I don't find any reason why they do it... It is morally wrong to do it, but they say, companionship and loyalty is what they benefit from this kind of relationship.
What can you share about this?
Your stand against or pro to it?Thanks for your responses in advance...
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16 responses
@pheonixstar1982 (2307)
• United States
11 Sep 08
Its not morally wrong, but some religions find that there beliefs go against it. I have no problem with it, one can not truly control who they are attracted to. What right do i have to judge what anothers preference is?
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@blackmantra_x (2732)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
Good day.. I think today's people ave the right to choose who they wanted to be and who they wanted to be with. As long as they don't hurt other people and the society. If they love a certain people and that person loves them back who are we to stop and judge them?
@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
I stand neutral on this things. The church may say they are immoral but for me we cannot enforce a gay man from having a normal relationship with a woman if he cannot find happiness in it. For me for as long as they do not harass other people to love them and the partners they find is loving them back also why not. It doesn't bother me in any way at all anymore. I guess it is pretty acceptable in our culture already that they exist. We should not marginalize them as being bad as they also contribute to our society somehow and they do not bother us for as long as they are allowed to do what they want and they are not a nuisance to our society.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
11 Sep 08
What, exactly, makes it "morally wrong"?
What do you mean "what is there to benefit"? What is there to benefit from any relationship? What does a hetero couple benefit? Why bother with love, marriage or companionship at all?
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@callcenterchick (94)
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11 Sep 08
for me when i did saw my sister fall in love with my best friend who is the same gender... first for me i disagree.. but my best friend loves my sister very much and treated her with respect not like any other man.. Well when i asked my sister do you think its worthed to be with that relationship what she told me is that she understand how i feel and accept me... and she is beside me all the time...
when i saw her face happy i did not disagree anymore...
its not really the gender???
its how they feel for each other and how they compliment it.
were just people who is created by god who has free will to fall in love...
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@jeiyah_12 (1041)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
yes It's definitely true,why stop them if they feel that way...
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
11 Sep 08
My dear, being homosexual is not easy, and people who are homosexual cannot help who they are. It is in their genes. You might think that it is morally wrong, but who are you to judge? Who is anyone here to judge? I have friends and family who are homosexual, and I have no problem with it. What I have a problem with is people who fake being homosexual and people who have homophobia. It is not right. Homosexuality is genetic, if you are really gay or really a lesbian, then that is something that cannot be helped. jeiyah_12, if you hate people because they are gay or a lesbian, then you need to keep that hate to yourself because there is enough hate in this world as it is.
@farukh445 (206)
• India
11 Sep 08
Hello,
I'm totally against man-man and girl- girl relationships. I don't understand how it develops in them but it is totally shocking but if you see the history it was there since Egyptians ruled the Egypt. It was there among them. What I would say about this relationships is that they are completely shameful and completely against nature. This kind of activities only happen among men and women who are against opposite sexes or else they hate their opposite sexes so much. Whatever could be the reason but I really condemn this kind of activities and it should not be encouraged. I'm aware of some of the countries who legalized these marriages. I'm completely against it and it is all evil acts....
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@farukh445 (206)
• India
12 Sep 08
dear wickitty,
I really appreciate for the effort that you've put in in order to explain me as well as to educate me. Thank you very much. Now we have to understand that we have everything in this nature such as good and bad. Now that we are Human being and are said to be the highly thinkable animal among all animals we would not compare ourselves with animals. We are far more than them. We understands things that they don't. So it doesn't mean what they do we have to do. To explain things talking about animals I think is not good. But we do have to accept the fact that it is really there in nature but we as a human being should understand and behave like human beings that would be good for you and me and for everyone. Imagine the world of "Homosexuals" does it look good? Moreover how do they reproduce if there were "homosexuals". Now pl. don't tell me in future there would be some technology with which homosexuals give birth. Whatever I did a mistake I accept it. I apologies to each and everyone to whoever I hurt.
I believe people around me are intelligent and they can decide for themselves what is correct and what is not.
Thank u very much
Bye
sorry if I hurt you in any ways....
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@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
11 Sep 08
Its not natural to begin with.
Man was made for woman and vice versa.
This kind of thing is based on the animal nature and a false sense of freedom.
I personally believe that anyone can do it provided they give in to themselves deeply enough.
It never ends well, by the way, it doesn't last long enough to.
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@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
in this situation we have to understand them for it is not easy for them to get a real love that they wanted to be becasue of some reasons that a real man or a real woman will find the best for them. and the gays or lesbians are the one will be affexted for they are longing love to their partner. most of the news that i read about the gay's partner is that they are only using the gays for money purposes and they are not dealing with love.
@jeiyah_12 (1041)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
yeah, It is sad to know about it, they use gays for money's sake. I have friends who are member of the third gender and they talk a lot about that kind of relationship, I somehow understand their point and I pity them for feeling and experiencing that kind of discrimination...
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@sasheikh (69)
• India
11 Sep 08
What would happen if you mix a glass of water in some more water,what would happen If you mix some salt with more salt? nothing happens and now if you mix a little salt in the glass of water the solution will be called as salty this happens when two differentnatures meet.
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@ClassyCat (1214)
• United States
11 Sep 08
I try my best to be objective, and not judge where this subject is concerned. Some say that people BELIEVE it is wrong - - but "if" you read the Bible, and you believe what it says - - it is not a practice that is right, and therefore "is" considered immoral.
You can read about it in the New Testament {the book of Romans chapter 1 - starting about verse 18} which deals with both homosexuality and evolution as a chice of belief. We can believe what is there, or not. It is our choice.
I have a friend and a relative who are gay, and I love them both. It is there choice, and I can live with that. My relative thinks she was born that way, but God wouldn't create something that He was against. He loves us.
And too - I'm reminded, that in the beginning, God created Adam and Eve - NOT Adam and Steve. 'nuff said
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@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
I think that love is really very hard to understand. For me as long as they really love each other then it is ok. I don't have the right to tell them who they should love and besides all of us wants to be happy and who am I to deny it from them? I don't see anything wrong with it as long as they don't hurt others.
@jeiyah_12 (1041)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
I agree with you friend! They deserve to be happy, all people deserve to! Their sexuality is a not reason to discriminate them, they are human too who love, hurt care and cry...
@nujoomva (111)
• India
11 Sep 08
hii sister,not seen anyone till now,and also i really dont wish to think abut that situation.god its really crazy,you there is an untold universal law and i strongly beleive in it."only a man and a women can create a new life".a new life means a new family ,create sign that his childrens.only a man and a women can make a better complete family.not a man-man or girl-girl...
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@janjalanex (86)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
You can not just cast the first stone when these things happen. I mean who is really absolutely perfect here!! How sure are you when people say that gay marriages are wrong? Your Bible said so?Your local Pastor, priest? Many things written in the bible were made up by men, many pastors and priests corrupt minors. They say it was God's voice? Well have you really heard God talk to you in a clear audible voice that this thing is wrong? Before we condemn other people look at our selves first in the mirror. We'll really be surprised with what we see! I'm sure!
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@mlhuff12 (797)
• United States
13 Sep 08
I don't see anything wrong with it. Who are we to deny love to a certain group of people. Imagine living your life not being able to love and receive love. If you have this kind of love you must know it is great. And wouldn't want to take that away from anybody, or the chance of having it. If you say it is morally wrong because of what the bible says. That means that it is a sin. However in god's eyes all sins are equal, whether you believe that is up to you. So this is no different than having a bad thought in your head or lying.
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@Luckyking (9)
• China
12 Sep 08
nowadays,homosexuality has been recognized in some country.it prove that homosexuality has be recognized by more and more people.i think that people who choose man-man or girl-girl relationship must have their reason ,like man likes girl ,some are beauty,some are loveliness ,they admire each other .in other words ,there is no need for loving a person ,just need they like each other
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