Are you loved enough?

@makingpots (11928)
United States
September 15, 2008 11:49am CST
Do you feel that your significant other loves you as much as you need or want to be loved? Do you feel that they love you as much as they can? Are feelings like this normal?
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@cupid74 (11397)
• Pakistan
16 Sep 08
Ha ha ha ha i dont know what to comment on this Discussion every one might have differnt yardstick to MEASURE THE AMOUNT OF LOVE. and the way of expressing love, care and feelings might be differnt for differnt people And in Last, do u really think that Human can be pleased?? I think Its Normal and thats what u need and want, and i am sure u must agree that level of love, feeling , sentiment increasea and decrease based on time, occasion, situation. Take care
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
16 Sep 08
You always help me think about things, cupid! I do think Human can be pleased. (but not from outside sources.... thats another discussion). Yes, love and feelings change and it's important to stay as attuned to your partner as you are to yourself.
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@cupid74 (11397)
• Pakistan
18 Sep 08
Hi Dear thanks for liking it and agreeing somewhat and sure i do agree Human can be pleased, but u r right it can be only by inside by having Contentment or Attachment with Allah/God, thats what is called TRUE LOVE. Take care
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@zandi458 (27954)
• Malaysia
16 Sep 08
After nearing half a decade of togetherness I think the meaning of 'love' has expired but I care less of it as I know the bond is strong as ever. But would not take it for granted though I have to rekindle it once in a while to get it moving otherwise he would eye for someone fresh which might leave me old and alone...LOL
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
16 Sep 08
Lol I imagine you would never be alone, zandi.
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@sedel1027 (17868)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I feel loved enough, i don't always feel like I get enough attention or time though.
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
16 Sep 08
That's great you feel loved. I can relate to your response.
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@joy4you (641)
• India
15 Sep 08
I think in my case my significant other would like to love me as much as I do her if not more but can't because of some past issues. All emotions are normal, after all we are all human beings.
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
16 Sep 08
you are so right.
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@bamakelly (5194)
• United States
15 Sep 08
You know there might have been a point in my life where I pondered over this question out of insecurity. I grew out of that just a little bit. As I grew older and had a family of my own I found out about unconditional love. I do know my husband loves me and so does my son. There are some things that you just know. I don't feel that you need to worry so much about how much you are loved. Look inside yourself and give your own self the love you deserve. Sometimes the love and acceptance must come from you to get the security that you need. I think also that it is probably normal to feel this way from time to time as humans. We all need acceptance no matter what. Have a great day!
@makingpots (11928)
• United States
16 Sep 08
What an excellent response, bamakelly.
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@bamakelly (5194)
• United States
14 Jan 09
Thanks for awarding me with the best response. I really do feel this way about life and love. Take care.