How do you feed a hard to feed child?

@yuna15 (2688)
September 19, 2008 2:52pm CST
I have a 3-year old toddler who is so hard to feed. She is so picky. Sometimes I have to spank her to get her to eat. But after I do that I would feel guilty. I have to do all sorts of things to make her eat. I just tried to play and talk to her sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. To all parents there, do you have a child who is hard to feed? What do you do make them eat more (especially vegetables)?