Do you care if someone isn't going to vote?

@Sheepie (3112)
United States
November 1, 2008 10:58pm CST
My mom does not vote, nor has she ever. She doesn't know the first thing about politics. I don't think she even knows who Sarah Palin is. Or which ones are the Democrats. People beg her to vote, but I find that really absurd. They don't tell her who to vote for, they just tell her to vote. I don't get it. She has no idea what she wants! Is someone going there and just picking any old thing randomly really better than not voting at all?
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@schulzie (4061)
• United States
2 Nov 08
Well, I think that we are very lucky to live in a country where we have the right to vote if we want to. But if a person is not informed they should not vote if they have no idea about who they are voting for. I mean, I bet there are some that do vote and do the eenie meenie minie moe method. That is rather scary. It used to bother me when my friends and family would say that they have never voted, but once I sat there and thought about those who really do vote and don't know who the politician is and what they oppose or support, etc. and they just like the sound of the person's name, etc. That really made me think twice about that. But if you don't vote it is hard to complain about who is in office, etc. I mean, if you didn't vote then how can you really comment that much about it? If you care enough, then go vote and make a difference. But if you don't then, you don't. It is up to everyone to make that decision for themselves in the long run. Have a nice day and happy myLotting!!!
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• Canada
2 Nov 08
I would like to take each & everyone of you with me, when I make my monthly trek to the "veterans hospital," and have you listen to their war stories! There aren't many of them left with agile minds (they do appreciate the visit) but when you listen to what "freedoms" they gave us....I think each & everyone of us has the obligation to apprise ourselves of each candidates platform & exercise the rights & freedoms these wonderful folks gave us! Complacency does not give us the right to complain! Together folks can make a difference! My father fought in the last world war, so I guess I am more sensitive to this issue. Thanks for hearing my side of the story...and please remember, the United States is the most powerful country in the world, so you are controlling the rest of our lives, too! Cheers...& Happy Sunday, from BC, Canada!
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@schulzie (4061)
• United States
2 Nov 08
My father fought as a Marine in World War II when he was 17 years old and also in Korea. He was POW and forced to eat all sorts of nasty stuff and was tortured severely. He could not walk for about 7 years. So, yes I understand exactly where you are coming from on that. I have ancestors all the way to the Revolutionary War - Majors, etc. that fought for this country's freedom. I have always had and always will have the utmost respect for all of our soldiers. I have never missed one election in all the years I have voted since I turned 18 and I feel it is important to vote at each election. However, many of my friends do not vote and I try to talk to them about it but they are never interested in the conversation. I try to avoid discussing politics with them because it never sways them one way or the other. But as for me and for my children - they will be informed citizens and will vote when they are old enough.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
2 Nov 08
It really doesn't bother me. I have always heard that only the electoral votes count anyway.
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• United States
2 Nov 08
and do you know where electoral votes come from? I would paste a link, but Im not allowed to copy and paste at this site. You should resaerch that, it would only take a couple of minutes. =)
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@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
3 Nov 08
True, but the electoral votes are based on what you vote for. They really complicate things though.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
3 Nov 08
I think if ppl have no idea of the issues than no, they shouldn't waste their time. Afterall, voting is more than filling a little bubble. [b]~~MY OWN PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF**[/b]
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@anetteh (3590)
• Sweden
2 Nov 08
Well, hi Sheepie, I guess some people do not care about what happen in the enviroment they live in. However I think it is our obligation to do so. And that means have the knowledge about the political stuff that affect our lifes. We are the people making the society and the gouvernment so therefore we have to make shore the right people are in lead and make our life easy to live. The once who do not vote, should not keep their voice heard, and not complaining about stuff our leaders do or not do. My daughter were voting for the first time for four years ago, and I told her to vote, I said, I do not care where you put your vote, as long as you vote. that is how I feel about this.
@Arkie69 (2156)
• United States
2 Nov 08
People sure did a vine job picking the right people in 2000 and 2004 didn't they. Now they are going to do it again. The ones that don't have anything to do with picking all the stupid jerks in Washington are the only ones that have a right to gripe. If you voted for George Bush and co you have no right to gripe. You gave him your permission to rip you off and he has done a real good job of that. Before anyone starts putting anyone down for not voting they need to take a serious look at how well they have been doing by voting. They just haven't shown me very much.
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@wiccania (3360)
• United States
2 Nov 08
I'd rather the people who vote actually know something about the candidates and why they're voting for them. I do feel that people who don't vote (but have the right to) have no right to complain about the politicians though. True story, I knew someone during the Bush/Gore election who went on and on about how she was going to vote for Bush and everyone else should. So a co-worker (she worked with me) and I questioned her about why we should vote for Bush. She never said anything about his views, politics or anything like that. She just said "He's the Republican candidate." Finally we got to the heart of the matter... "Why are you voting for Bush?" "Because my parents are voting for Bush." Um, no. That's not why you vote for a candidate. If that's your method for making a decision, please feel free to avoid the voting booth on election day.
@Arkie69 (2156)
• United States
2 Nov 08
When I look back at 2000 and 2004 I don't know if people should have the right to vote or not. The voters sure screwed those two up real good didn't they.
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@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
2 Nov 08
maybe yu can give her the basic stuff. Like what this politicien said to improve and what are their values. Even I don't follow the politics but when it comes into voting, I would inform myself. Unless she doesn't care much who wins. :P
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@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
3 Nov 08
Well, it's too late for her to register anyway, but if I did inform her, she'd get confused, or worse, want to go for Mccain! xD
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@AmbiePam (85660)
• United States
2 Nov 08
I wish people voted. Women worked hard to be able to vote, black people worked hard to be able to vote, and I am lucky enough to live in a free country where my vote counts. I was actually shocked when a girl I grew up with told me she had never voted. I was excited the first time I got to vote! Our vote does matter, I don't care what anyone says. Although it isn't the worst thing in the world to not vote, I don't understand not doing it. Even if the person in question was not voting for my candidate, I would hope they would vote. But you care, so that is something! Even if your mom really doesn't care right now.
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• Canada
2 Nov 08
Thank you, AmbiePam, I echo your sentiments! We can all make a difference, if we try....even I, tho not from the U.S. spend a lot of time researching the U.S. candidates, because they are the World Leaders....and affects the entire world! Your economy crashes, and so does the rest of the world! That wouldn't happen if my country, Canada went into a recession! As I posted earlier, having a father that was in the war, and visiting veterans hospitals gives me a greater appreciation of the rights & priviledges we have! Cheers!
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@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
2 Nov 08
I wish more people took advantage of their right to vote. But it is also their right not to. That is what makes the US great. Choice. If she isn't informed on political issues it would seem pointless for her to vote.
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@fwidman (11514)
• United States
2 Nov 08
While everyone should vote if they can, they also have the right to not vote. If she doesn't wish to vote, that is up to her She may be better off than those who care deeply about politics and worry themselves over it Maybe that's what I should do, just randomly pick any old thing
@Arkie69 (2156)
• United States
2 Nov 08
Voting just doesn't make good sense to me. I have never voted and never will. Who ever gets in office will rip you off sooner or later and If you voted for them then you gave them your permission to do it. If you help get some jerk in office and then they crook you then you have no right to even complain. A'' any of them are going to do is make4 a bunch of promises they have no intention in keeping. All they are after is all the under the table cash they can rake off. The people in Washington from the President on down are under the control of big business. What we need or what we say doesn't mean anything to them. They couldn't care less about the people.
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• United States
2 Nov 08
Then go vote for yourself, or write in the name of someone who wont "rip you off". If everyone who is fed up did that instead of giving up, things would change...the reason they are messed up is because too many folk have done just as you, and dont vote. There are some that care about "the people"...I do =)
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@Arkie69 (2156)
• United States
2 Nov 08
I don't know of anyone that wouldn't rip us off if you did write them in. They are all alike. Down here on a city or county election voting is fine if you really pay attention but not on a state or federal level. Obama and McCain both know there is no way they will be able to do what they say they will. Especially Obama. In this election people are so screwed up by now they don't know who to vote for. There is no way you will get the truth from the news media. At least not enough truth to cast an informed vote. Our voting system is so screwed up it is worse than useless.
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@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
2 Nov 08
I think that you should just vote for who you agree with on the issues, because then at least you have the biggest chance of seeing what you want happen. Nobody can eliminate taxes or solve all of our problems, but we have to do something.
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@lilcee (2703)
• United States
2 Nov 08
Hi Sheepie. One of the freedoms we have is to be able to vote who we want to. But we also have the freedom of not voting if we choose. It would be good if she could look at all the issues and candidates and vote but I'm not going to judge her for not doing it. I remember my Mom never voted. I didn't vote either until I got married. Everyone has their own thoughts about it. That's what I like about living in the USA, we have the freedom to vote or not to vote. There will probably be a lot of people voting who have no idea what they are voting for. They just do it because they are told to.
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@fgaloma (163)
• Philippines
2 Nov 08
no, my father does not vote too. he always said he'll be wasting his time for voting, hehehe. but i do vote in during election, but i guess voting is not that important nowadays.
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• United States
3 Nov 08
Understanding why whoever you are voting for is really important! Just picking someone randomly is absurd. You won't even know what that candidate is going to do to improve our country. You yourself should find out information about the candidates and then pick who you think will do the best job of running as president. Some topics you should check for is the economy and the wars going on.
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• United States
3 Nov 08
Wow, I think that if you dont know one from the other, and have no opinion on any of it, then you shouldnt vote at all. There are people out there who really care what is going on, and who actually research both sides to make a meaningful vote. If everyone just goes into the booth knowing nothing about politics then our country is going to get worse. I mean things are bad now, but history usually repeats itself, so if we pay attention then maybe we can learn fromt eh past to protect our future. If someone doesnt want to vote then its their decision and no one should tell them different. That's the joy of living in America, the option to choose!
@mehale (2200)
• United States
3 Nov 08
While I have to say that an uneducated vote is just as bad as not voting at all, I also should point out that it is our civic duty - and an honor as well, especially for women - to vote. We should all educate ourselves about the issues facing our nation and the candidates that are running for office. And we should also carry that one step further and vote for the candidate that we can most relate to or agree with on the major issues. That is the only way that we can begin to help our nation get back on track and head in the right direction. When it comes to elections and voting, we cannot expect things to get better if we do not arm ourselves with the available information, make an educated decision, and vote for the candidate that we feel will lead our nation in the right direction. Sorry, I will get off my soap box now....LOL
@ladybug565 (2216)
• United States
5 Nov 08
I dont care if anyone votes or not. I know a few people who arent voting. that is thier right and I respect that. I feel if you dont know who you want to vote for and you dont know the issues it is better not to vote.
• United States
2 Nov 08
Im ok with your mom not voting because personally I think you should be an informed voter. If she does not even have the party lines in check how is she even going to make an informed decision like that. I also get excited because I can vote for our governor and local representatives because these are the people I see on a closer level and can really listen to me.
• United States
2 Nov 08
im ok with people encouraging her to vote because maybe one day she will feel compelled to understand how it affects her life. How easy she can get involved and the people there to help her in her own community. I did not get interested in history or politics until I graduated high school. Still, i do think there is an oppression in not being informed and I have to wonder why Republicans take such little effort getting younger voters involved in the vote.
@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
5 Nov 08
I think that people who really care for her should tell her to 1 Not to tell people she is not voting. 2 TO vote when she is ready and if that is never well to bad for other people. Do people vote randomly? I hope not but it falls right along the law of probability, I am sure some will.
@crazydaisy (3896)
• Canada
5 Nov 08
Yes I understand your mother nobody took time to explain anything about it.I was raise in a big family and when it came to voting we went and vote but I just vote for what my dad said I did't know anything about it.In 1994 I was ask about voting I did't know anything about it.but now I do know allot more. cd .
• United States
3 Nov 08
Honestly? I am not a big believer in the democratic system that this country uses to elect a president. Consider that the majority vote doesn't even support the decision of the electoral college. It's supposed to influence them and in almost every case in does, but not in every case. Further more, I am not a big believer in either candidate and, being so uninformed, I don't know that I could vote with any level of real qualification. Sure, not voting will have an effect too, and I know that if enough people don't vote, it could affect the outcome of the process, but I just really don't care. I don't mean to sound crass, I just don't believe that our political system works anymore and until I see someone rise up and really take the reigns of this country and actually effect a change, I am not sure that it ever will.