Prayers Needed

United States
November 8, 2008 9:16am CST
I am a firm believer in prayer. Many times I have prayed for help with matters that are beyond my control. Today is one of them. My ex-husband and father of my 4 children has been hospitalized. Last night he was transferred from our local hospital to one that is 2 hours away. They didn't believe he would even survive the trip. He did. He is now on a ventilator and is in critical condition. All of my children, his sister and mother visited with him last night before they transferred him to the other hospital. My children are beside themselves. I have become the pillar for them and for his sister and mother too. I have been weakened by some very difficult matters that have happened in our family within the past 2 weeks. Truthfully, I don't know how much more I can take. I am breathing, crying, and praying. Your prayers for my family and my ex-husband would be greatly appreciated. His fate is in the Lord's hands now. Thank you.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
Sad to hear that from you. do not lose hope elusivebutterfly. god is always there to guide us. he will never leave us especially when we are down. just continue make your fate with God more stronger and for sure everything will be alright. I will be one of the members who will pray for your family. Please be strong. There are lots of people here who are concern to you. How is the condition of your ex -husband?
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• United States
8 Nov 08
Thank you. I can only hope that he will come through this. He has battled with cancer for so long now.
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
do not just lose hope, everything will be alright, your mylot family is here for you. w are all here for you, so hold on. have a fate in him.
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• United States
8 Nov 08
Thank you.
@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
8 Nov 08
So sorry to hear the news about your children's father. Just remember that you will not be given more than you can handle. We might think we can not take any more then we realize how strong we really are in those tough times. Prayers go out to your ex-husband and to all the family.
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• United States
8 Nov 08
Thank you tyc. I know that we are not given more than we can handle. But, my knees are buckling. But, I know I can survive if I have to.
@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
8 Nov 08
Just take care of yourself during this time. Your children need you so much right now no matter what their age is.
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• United States
9 Nov 08
I am sorry to hear about this I do hope everything will be ok and I will keep you,him and the kids in my prayers. God hears us in the worst of situations and he will take care of what belongs to him. Believe that god will see this through and he will comfort you at this time of need. God bless you and your family.
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• China
9 Nov 08
I am sorry to hear that. I will give my prayer to your husband and all your family. Hope he will get through all the suffer and your family will be all right. Waiting for your good news. Be strong.
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@ray770 (4)
• United States
9 Nov 08
I will pray for you and your family. I too am a firm believer in prayer. I know at timws i could not have made it with God's help. God tell's us he will not put more on us than we can handle. Just hang in there and know that others are praying for you and your family.
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• Brazil
9 Nov 08
dont worry man, everithing gonna be ok, when we need go, then we go but u husband are live, when some one live for this type of acident is because arent the time.. just wait and show to him you are waiting for him recuperation, give him a motive to back and have SURE everithing gonna be all right ^~ Be Happy !
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
9 Nov 08
I will keep your husband in my prayers. I hope things get better blessings.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
9 Nov 08
I am so sorry to hear this. I have said a prayer for you, your children, your ex-husband and his family. May God bless you all.
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
9 Nov 08
Hello dear friend. I am sorry to hear that the current health situation of your ex-husband is not so good, but I do wish him all the best with prayers of us mylotters and all of your friends. Let's pray for miracles to show up! Bless him and take care, friend.
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@elemental69 (1561)
• Ireland
8 Nov 08
I am so sorry to hear of your troubles. I will surely keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
You can count on my prayer...Just hold on dear and don't loose faith on him...
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@Lexus656 (672)
• United States
9 Nov 08
I will definitely keep you and your family in my parayers. Have you talked to him about his relationship with jesus? Even if he can't talk back to you or he is in a coma he can still hear you and may need to know the lord and savior. Don't blame go if it doesn't work out the way that you want it to becuase it may not be in his plan. I hope that it is okay and they he becomes healthy and can continue to be able to spend time with his children!
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@Genevie (140)
• United States
9 Nov 08
God said that there wouldn't be anymore put on us than we were able to bear. Faith does come by hearing the word of God. You got my prayers! God Bless you!
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@iamfine (740)
• China
9 Nov 08
Hi, I am really sorry for what happen to you, but I hope everything will be fine one your and your family, include your ex-husband. May god bless you.
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 Nov 08
Of course I will pray for you, your family and your ex husband and his family. I am so very sorry to hear about your troubles. I am also a strong believer of prayer. I have also come to mylot and asked for prayer. It helps so much knowing that others are praying for you. Take care and May God Bless You All.
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
8 Nov 08
Take a deep breath and be strong!! Your kids need you now. Our prayers are with you and all of your family. I really hope things go well. If you need to talk, I am on messenger, or you can send me a message. Sometimes it helps to talk with someone that is not involved in it all. I will be thinking of you all day, let us know how things go.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
8 Nov 08
Oh Elusive I am so sory to read this and of course you are all in my Thoughts please let me know how things are going, I wish I could be there to be a strong Shoulder for you and help you Big Hugs to you
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@KarenO52 (2950)
• United States
8 Nov 08
I'm so sorry to hear about your rough times. I will certainly add you to my prayers. Though you feel weakened right now, I can tell you are strong and will get through this, with the help of God, and your friends here praying for you.
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@jackiew (915)
• Canada
8 Nov 08
I can see times are not good for you now.My prayers are with you and your family.I sincerely hope your ex-husband comes through all this.
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@chislady (28)
• United States
8 Nov 08
Girl can you feel the love, the heart feelings? Can you feel the prayers that have gone up to God for you and yours, that gently caress your wounded heart, and mind? Yes, God knows and is working right now. Give yourself moments to be still, to feel the warmth and love of God. Lend your ear to His sweet voice saying to you, "I am still in control, I know and will accomplish my will." "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, (His will be done) neither are your ways my ways (worry not)", Isaiah 55:8. "For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and love, and of a sound mind." 2 Tim 1:7. God bliss you and yours, you are in my prayers.