i don't like guys who plays games how about you ?

United States
December 6, 2008 7:20am CST
ok i don't like guys who play games with females. they get playing with thier emotions and stuff. get them to do stuipd things. i have a neice and this dude is doing just that with her. he even got her to cut herself on the web cam.telling her let see how deep can you go. my sister been telling me how this dude calms not to be on the web cam when she is. they had cought him in so many lies. guys like this make us real men look bad. and i would like to get a hold of him just once.. so are you a so call man plays with female emotions and head games? and do these so call guys makes you upset ?
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@suzzy3 (8357)
6 Dec 08
What does she see in him ,i would be tempted to have a word with this sicko and send him packing out of sight of your niece of course.It is some type of control thing don't you think lets see what happens when he comes up against a real man,I feel so sorry for your niece she probably does not like it either but is having trouble getting away from him or admitting she is wrong,good luck to you.x
• United States
6 Dec 08
yeah if i see him, he will have to go up against me.. and a few other people. thanks
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@sharra1 (6342)
• Australia
7 Dec 08
Yes I think it is some sort of control thing and it sounds dangerous. Cutting is very dangerous and who knows where it will go next. He needs to be stopped. I do not know how old the niece is but I would be tempted to report the guy for abuse.
@ganderlot (352)
• United States
6 Dec 08
That's pretty sick. I hope your niece has dumped the guy he sounds pretty creepy. I have met guys like that they definitely have control issues and unfortunately a lot of women have a hard time standing up to guys like that. There are some great guys who are confident enough with themselves to not have to control women. Regards
• United States
6 Dec 08
thanks. me too i hope she dump this fool. i am so wanting to send this dude a message and let him know he don't want to meet me in person i might jack him up.. this is where some guys might get mad at me, oh well. some guys will take a female who has emotions issues and say and do the right things to them, and treat them like this. or make them feel worst about themself just to keep in control of them,
• Philippines
7 Dec 08
your niece really should dump that guy. I also have this friend, he has 2 girlfriends at the same time. I've always been telling him to stop seeing the other girl. I just don't get it though, it's OK with him if he sees both those girls but he gets mad when he learns that the other girlfriend keeps on meeting her ex.
@rajeshank (253)
• India
18 Dec 08
same here me to hate the guys who play game with females...i use to avoid those kind of guys from my list of friends. because i respect female i don't like people hurting there feelings and emotions thats really one of great crime upto me..i hate those guys..kick them out of my site..:)
@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
10 Dec 08
Yes of course, you should tell your niece to give up this guy and find a better one.. Godspeed...
@mariposaman (2967)
• Canada
7 Dec 08
Same old story. The women like the bad boys. They especially like the attention at the beginning until he shows his really mean and jealous side, by then it is too late and she is under his control. Women say they want a nice guy and then go out with the bad boys. Some of them like the married men too. Women say they want nice guys but gravitate to the bad boys. Like Judge Joe Brown said on TV on one of his programs if you want to see the attractive women in town just go down to the jail on visiting day. It does not seem fair or logical but that seems to be the way it is.
@callarse1 (4791)
• United States
7 Dec 08
Hello! How are you doing? Yes, men like that are really bad. Have you talked to your neice before? It's important because she need to drop him pronto. Lying and cheating is not the way to go. It is upsetting and it's time for her to move on, don't you think? Have a nice day. Pablo
@sid556 (31000)
• United States
7 Dec 08
They seem to prey on insecure or very young girls who for whatever reason will look up to them. I hope your niece catches on. It is tough as a parent or any outsider who can clearly see what is going on. Love is truly blind. If you try to pull them apart, I know for sure, that she will cling even tighter to him. The best thing to do is just pray and be there for her when she figures it out. I actually discovered with my girls that if I am very polite to the guys and don't offer my opinion unless asked and when asked for advice, I give a brief opinion and tell them that decisions of the heart are theirs alone....they tend to end these sorts of relationships much quicker. They also get tougher and smarter with each mistake. Best of luck to you all on this. I know how hard it is to watch someone you love make poor choices.
@maean_19 (4661)
• Philippines
7 Dec 08
Oh! There are just too many guys like that. Playing games and made fun of girls. But I would never ever allowed them to do that to me. Girls can go equal with guys and even overpass them.
• China
7 Dec 08
hello syakee525 yeah,i hate guys playing game with females,i also dislike the petty girls playing games with their boyfriends,though especialy playing games with theris lover.that is bad. they seems happey to hurt people while they are having fun,that is really bad. whever in real life or online...i do not think people shall do this having fun. right? of course would upste if met someone do this for me or for my friends.... yes....hate this...
@sharra1 (6342)
• Australia
7 Dec 08
I would be very worried about that. You are talking about control freaks and they are dangerous. I have not used a web cam since I had a bad experience with a control freak and I will never use one again. I do not know how old your niece is but I would be very concerned about the hold this man has over her that he can make her cut herself. What will he do next. I think you need to find out who it is and what is going on. They are very secretive about it. I know that I was as well and you never tell anyone about these guys but you need to let her know that he is dangerous. It is possible that your niece is submissive by nature and that makes her vulnerable to people who can manipulate others. There are people who are safe for submissives but they are not control freaks and they do not hide.
• United States
7 Dec 08
At first I thought this was just for guys to answer but I seem some ladies have answered. I think your neice is a lucky girl to have you to look out for her. I think this guy needs to be tought a lesson. Men that have control issues like that are nuts. I am feeling like your neice may have some self-esteem issues and needs some guideance. I Love Real Men and I see there are some that have responded to your discussion. My hats off to all the Real Men!!!!!
@joystick7 (730)
• India
6 Dec 08
I respect girls a lot and never think of playing games with them... I think the guy in your topic is a sick insane guy and hope your neice gets a way out of him...
• United States
6 Dec 08
Hey syankee. Thank God I'm not one of those guys or the females that are victims of men like that. I don't like to see women in situations like that either. It stinks and it makes my skin crawl. Some women that finally gets away from a man like that actually have a hard time trusting another man, and they think that all men are like that. They may be prince charming at first, and then after a while or so, godzilla breaks out the cage.