do you prefer a beautiful and ignorant girl or an ugly and intelligent girl?
23 Jul 12
I think everyone's expectations matter according to the way they make self-criticism. Depending on the value that is considered one usually looks for a person at least as valuable. I say this would be permissible only materialism. A person is considered beautiful and intelligent will seek a partner to promise the same way. When you disregard your requirements are less. Looks matter in relation to, think about you. The same intelligence. Maybe money. To me this money is not available. But others do. Usually the right person is a person worth investing mind. That means to take something positive from each feature. Not necessarily as a potential partner to be the most beautiful in the world if he compensates with other qualities. But usually when this analysis is to follow is not major flaws. If a person is mediocre in almost all areas, except for 1, 2 that excel well enough. More difficult is when some key areas where deficiencies are revealed unbearable. There are not usually at all compromise.
6 Mar 07
i think that's not just up to me to choose. beautiful and intelligent girls are attracted by beautiful and intelligent boys. or rich boys. and, so far, i havn't seen a really beautiful and really intelligent girl. i'm not saying that there ain't such thing. and, anyway, it matters most the emotional stability (meaning, a girl that wants a relantionship based on love, respect, not on how many money is the boy disposed to spend with her).
• United States
6 Mar 07
So, you want to have your cake and eat it too then? Beauty is only skin deep but ugly is to the bone! I'd rather be with someone who has a beautiful heart than someone who is easy on the eyes... I mean we can only stare at one another so long before becoming extremely bored.... I would definitely find myself more attracted to an intelligent person though, regardless of their appearance.