Teetotal = Wasted, Drunk. Wrong!

@SaintAnne (5453)
United States
December 23, 2008 10:39am CST
I've always thought that teetotal meant someone had way too much to drink. And last night, I looked it up for some reason and was enlightened. It means the opposite. Someone abstaining from drinking alcohol (teetotal, teetotaler). So I guess I must have confused some people in the past about me using that term. When I was way younger, I did this written project about the bane and boon of hydroelectricity in small cities. I thought I rocked it and then I started getting confused and worried that I got those two mixed up after I already submitted the paper. Then I would have definitely confused my teacher as I would have categorized all the good things as BANE and all the bad things as BOON. Thankfully, I got them right. So have you ever used a word you thought was right but ended up the opposite of what it really means?
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
23 Dec 08
Never, just as I am serious about being a teetotaller, I am also serious about the use of a dictionary. So that is what you thought of me, eh? Well, now what do you think. Oh, never mind.... Say! Do you know it is almost Christmas! Where did the time go?
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
24 Dec 08
You are right. It is an awful word and doesn't have anything to do with "tea" either. But I don't know of any other word for it. Hah!
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• Dayton, Ohio
25 Dec 08
Actually drannhh I think the word you would be looking for is "non-drinker". I am a non-drinker I also do not mind being called a teetotaler.
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@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
24 Dec 08
Talk about serious use of dictionary! I once got a huge unabridged Webster's Dictionary and a Webster's New World Dictionary and Thesaurus because I asked for them. I guess I wasn't really putting them to good use. Funny how you mentioned that it doesn't even have anything to do with tea, drannhh, as I was reading this and it did associate tea with the word I've misused. http://www.worldwidewords.org/qa/qa-tee1.htm Ziggy, I had something to add for you but now I've completely forgotten it.
• United States
24 Dec 08
I always thought a teetotaler was someone who sneaked a nip every now and then. I was surprised when I found out it means to completely abstain... hence the word 'total' in there I guess. I remember when I was taking courses in Scientology, LRH had 'study tech' that was rigorously implemented in the courseroom. He was very big on not going past a word that you did not fully understand. And when you looked up a word it was 'suggested' that you use it in a few sentences to ensure you got it. I hated it when the supervisor was sitting there with me when I was looking up a word because I would have to make up some sentences and say them out loud. I was always embarrassed that I was going to use the word wrong and demonstrate my ignorance, hehehe. Once I used the word cacophony in a conversation with my sister. The thing is, I had only ever seen it in print, I had never heard it spoken, nor had I ever looked it up, I just got the gist of what it meant from the context of the sentences I had ever seen it in. So anyway, my little sister ended up correcting my pronunciation of the word. I'm sure glad I no longer think I have to be perfect!!!!
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@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
24 Dec 08
You had me look up how to pronounce cacophony as you made me doubt myself but I can say I have been saying it right. Not that I've used it in so many day-to-day conversations. Once, I kept pronouncing the second "i" of indigent as a long "i". Finally, one of the volunteer coordinators told me how to say it right. This is why I like it when people tell me right away when I am doing or saying something wrong because then I flash back to how many hours I've been saying that word in front of a number of people and I feel "fatuous" as Shiloh up there just taught me.
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@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
24 Dec 08
Hope you are having a wonderful Christmas season, Ziggy. May the cacophony of laughter always fill your house!
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@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
25 Dec 08
I work from 11 am to 7 pm today, Ziggy but it won't be so bad since it'll be a relaxing one at work as well. We'll have lots of food there but we just can't mention the event. Then when I'm off, we do our relaxing and laughing and eating at home. Hope you are enjoying the holidays!!!
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
26 Dec 08
Till a few years ago , i confused the meaning word spendthrift. instead of taking it as one who is extravagant and wastefule with money i misunderstood it for one who is stingy. I really wonder what made me understand that word in that way.
@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
29 Dec 08
Dude! I still think spendthrift is stingy until I read your post. Doh! Thanks, Alokn!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
26 Dec 08
I have had serious problem with pronunciation of teetotaler. Always was kind of confused as to the spelling and the subsequent pronunciation. Even now I am very careful with it. Coming to the confusion, I am sure I have been there on several occasions. Just right now my memory is failing This reminds me of my friend who once had written, I have an unfamiliar wife, taking that UNFAMILIAR means congenial and gentle. I still remember the laugh that we had! Good old memories...
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@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
29 Dec 08
I sure hope his wife did not read what your friend once wrote, mimpi. Thanks for giving me a laugh. I always am self-conscious when it comes to my accent and my pronunciation. Thanks, mou.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
26 Dec 08
I do it all the time with foreign words in Arabic, Before this I would get mixed up with Hindi and in the Philippines I would get mixed up with Tagalog as well. Thankfully I don't seem to trip up with English that often though, so I guess it kinda balances out! English can be a tough language when it comes to similar words and their usage. Word usage like practice versus practise etc can get confusing for many of us at times. Boon and bane are at opposite ends of the spectrum so I'm glad you worked it out in the end!
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@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
29 Dec 08
Got an A on that paper. Woohoo!!! Salamat po.
@FikiFiki (101)
• United States
23 Dec 08
Hmmm, the words "Quips" & "Qualms" comes to mind...not the exact opposite meaning...but i was using "Quips" when what I really meant to say was "Qualms"...Exhibit A: I absolutely have no "QUIPS" about using the Thesaurus when I run across unfamiliar words.
@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
24 Dec 08
Exhibit B: I have no "QUIPS" about telling people I know they're being sassy with their responses. Q does not even look like a real letter. It almost looks like a weird symbol to me. But that's another topic.
@FikiFiki (101)
• United States
29 Dec 08
Sassy's one of my favorite words..Don't get all sassy on me Missy...hehe!
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@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
29 Dec 08
Missy Sassy is actually licking my left hand as I am typing this.
@shiloh_222 (5479)
• Philippines
23 Dec 08
hi there.. i know the meaning of this word... what is ridiculous is the word fatuous... i thought it means something fatty or fat..cr chubby.. wahh.. it meant..stupid... just how apt.. hahhaha..this can make u really feel stupid because it means stupid...sheesh...
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@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
24 Dec 08
Nice one, shiloh. Thank you for giving me another word to call someone when they mess with me. You made me smile with the appropriateness of such a word indeed. Thanks!
@glords (2614)
• United States
24 Dec 08
Yes, I'm sure this must have happened to me several times in life, though I've conveniently blocked them all from my memory.
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@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
24 Dec 08
Don't you just like it when we can conveniently block them from our memory? But such is the bane of my life, my brain does not help me block them. Hope you're having a wonderful holiday season, glords.