What would you do after three consecutive heartbreaks?

Nigeria
December 29, 2008 4:34pm CST
I have a friend who's heart has been broken three consecutive times. she has concluded not to fall in love again. what would you do if you were her?
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@lynnemg (4539)
• United States
29 Dec 08
After going through having my heart broken many times, I once thought that I would never want to even chance it again. Then, I got to thinking, what would be worse, having my heart broken again (which I had already been through) or being lonely for the rest of my life? I decided that since I had already been through a broken heart (multiple times) that if my heart was broken again, it was nothing I couldn't live through, but being lonely for the rest f my life would be misery. I made the choice to try again always knowing that if it didn't work out, it was for a reason, and my heart ache couldn't be any worse than it was the previous times. As a matter of fact, it would be easier to get through because I had already experienced it. My advice to your friend is not to give up on love. The right person will come into their life when they least expect it, but, if they quit trying, they could miss out on complete happiness.
• Nigeria
29 Dec 08
This is exactly what i told her. thanks
@rsa101 (13336)
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
Well for now I think that is a good choice not to fall in love. But don't make it a lifelong promise to yourself because eventually you might fall in love again. what I would do is to first move on with her life and try to appreciate herself rather than try to look for another love outside. It may be that she has not love hersel;f that much that is why people tend to go away from her because she is giving all of her to her relationship. I guess when entering into a romantic relationship you should spare some for yourself because loving relationship is not all giving nor all receiving it is a shared loving and giving to one another.
@mikkymyde (184)
• Nigeria
30 Jan 09
i'll take a break then live for every moment...
@Gesusdid (1683)
• United States
30 Dec 08
if i was in her shoes, ill pack up and leave for another city , like to me you need a new begining , cause there is that someone for everyone , in her case she thought that someone was there , but isnt...id suggest a vaciton or move entirely to another state to start a new