Girl Advice

United States
December 29, 2008 10:51pm CST
ok well there's this girl I really like. we talk every day. She texts me every morning saying something like" I hope you have a great day" that I make her smile. and she likes it when I talk talk to her on the phone when shes laying in bed about to go to sleep. she calls it tucking her in. I was asleep one night and I get a text when i wake up that she was sad I couldn't tuck her in but she hopes I slept well and I have a great day tomorrow. were going to hang out tomorrow. right now were just friends but i want to go to the next step and im not sure how she feels. I get a hunch that she likes me too. I haven't asked out a girl in a long time. so I was thinking of doing this. Surprising her at her work with some flowers, a card that explains how I feel in a poem and a build it your self teddy bear( you can get them made at the mall to what ever you want or like) and then after she sees everything and reads the card tell her how I feel but in words. and I want to do this next Wednesday. what do you guys and gals think. any suggestions also??
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@zhangfzoe (432)
• China
30 Dec 08
You can give her the tip that you like her. Invite her to have lunch or dinner together. If you get the right chance, you can speak it out. I guess she likes you. Have a try and good luck!
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• United States
30 Dec 08
Just in case she's not ready for so much so soon, why not lighten up a little? A single rose would be enchanting and, if she is responsive, the teddybear would be a great second-date gift. If you come on too strong, she might be frightened away. Besides, stringing out the tokens of caring over a period of time is much easier to handle. Good luck!
• Australia
30 Dec 08
I think you just need to ask her out. From what you say, there is interest on both sides so just do it. Don't be afraid to and remember that nothing ventured is nothing gained. The worst thing she can do is turn you down, but how will you know if she isn't the one if you don't take the risk?
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• United States
30 Dec 08
Yeah she likes you more then a friendly type of way if she's saying things like how she likes it when you tuck in the bed on the phone..hehe.. If you are not sure what type of gift to give her just find out what her favorite restaurant is and take her out to eat .And if you still don't think that's not enough find out other things she likes and take it from there.Another sweet and romantic personal gift is to make her a mixed music CD with with songs that tell her how you feel about her ( make sure it's bands you and her both like though). But if your still not sure if she likes you or not just say " What would you say if I asked you for a kiss?" .. That's a good icebreaker!Good Luck!
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@kerri1981 (133)
• United States
5 Jan 09
I think the way she's acting she really does like you so should so do the flowers and card good luck maybe throw some candy in with it
@shell94 (990)
• Canada
5 Jan 09
Thats an awesome thought that you have for her. I think it would be very sweet if that were me. She must have some feelings for you to be telling and texting those things to you. Most women are not like that, not unless they want to further the relationship. I hope all goes well for you!!! I would love to know how things turn out! Cheers, Shell
• Philippines
31 Dec 08
It sounds like she really likes you too. Ask her out. Good luck! ^_^
• United States
31 Dec 08
Yeah, just ask her out. You have nothing to lose really. People seem to think you can't be friends or it'll be awkward after wards if things don't work out. That is not true...it's only awkward for a few months after wards =]. But go for it dude
@katrhina23 (1282)
• United States
31 Dec 08
her messages show that she likes you. i think just go on with your plans and let's see what's gonna happen after that.. good luck..
• United States
31 Dec 08
She likes you more then just a friend!! I think you have a great idea!! Im sure she feels the same way....How sweet of you, too bad there are not more guys like you out there!!! Good luck, let us know what happens!!! Shihtzumama
@sixclix (677)
• Philippines
30 Dec 08
Take her to a horror movie so she'll cling to you. That way, after the movie or while watching the movie, it would be easier for you to tell her how you feel since both of you have already been cuddling. That's why I love horror movies. Goodluck and happy new year.
@healer (1783)
• India
30 Dec 08
According to what you said it seems that she takes you more than a friend. But my friend don't be too fast to jump into higher level, try to be more close and care her a lot. I think your idea of visiting her with flowers in front of her friends will be amazing because girls like to be loved or being a center of attraction. Make her blush in front of her friends but she will like it as its quite sweet and romantic. girls like gifts and flowers and praise her saying that you are smart and adoring..etc. Wishing you good luck and a very happy new year.
@babyania (161)
• Philippines
30 Dec 08
i think she likes you and what you're planning to do is sweet. i'm sure she'll love it.
@kixsh101 (743)
• Philippines
30 Dec 08
SHE is giving you hints that she really LIKES you! She won't be wasting time texting you early in the morning daily if it is just nothing. So go to the next level. Asking her out would be a great idea. so Goodluck pal!
• India
30 Dec 08
hey man... al the best for dat. n see as u told she responds very wel to each n evrythgn u tell her.so even she may b interested also .i tell u 1thgn dat in life alwyz speak the truth n b frank with her.den only ur life wil be perfect. let me know about dis. yes dnt worry . the outcome will b positive ,,,,,,, regards
• China
30 Dec 08
From my point of view and the facts you just listed, i guess she's probably feel the same way about you too, isn't that great, love a person who can also love you back, i think you just follow the normal procedure is ok, ask her out for a dinner, then a movie, it'll be work! wish you a good luck.
@swtpareek (651)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Hey I think that's a pretty cute of telling her your feelings! She will like it surely.. By what you have said about her seems like she likes you too. But girls are always shy in expressing their feeling and would always want the guy to make the first move... So go ahead! Good luck to you!! :)