Oh that's so sexy

@p1kef1sh (45640)
February 6, 2009 2:52pm CST
Is it? What is? Is it really sexy? What does sexy mean? What does it for you? I don't mean clothes ripping let's get down and dirty. But what sense provoking experience truly arouses your passions such that you find yourself tingling and just thinking.... "Maybe. If everything was just right."
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@bellaofchaos (11550)
• United States
6 Feb 09
ok here I go trying to explain the method of my madness. LOL!!By ther way Hi pikey my luv. I go by several things some of them are sight, smell, touch.. you know ... A guy can have the pants and the shirt that fit just right and then Drakar Noir (I'm so turned on by that, attacking type turn on. giggles). Say if the guy that I'm interested in is wearing a nice silk dress shirt with a pair of tight black jean with longish hair and has the cologne mentioned and comes up behind me and puts his arms around me and hugs or holds me close then lowers he face to my throat and nibbles on it and my ear and ok I'll stop there this is just a little bit of things that can arouse my passions. What is truly sexy is a guy that is not afraid of pleasuring his partner and being attentive to her as well as knowing what he want and being able to effectively acheive and communicate both.
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@p1kef1sh (45640)
6 Feb 09
I do so believe that if you are to experience the depths of real passion yourself Bella; then care needs to be given to exciting and delighting your partner. Watching her cry with pleasure is just so..............sexy.
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• United States
7 Feb 09
Indeed it is my dear friend. :)
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• Canada
9 Feb 09
*Annie hugs P1key and Bella* Bella, sounds just perfect to me. P1key, you got it, baby. ((((HUGS))))
@littleowl (7157)
6 Feb 09
Hi p1ke, have never really thought of thie meaning of this word to me, and being frank and ernest I think I have forgotten what it would mean to me!! LOL hugs littleowl
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@p1kef1sh (45640)
6 Feb 09
Oh no LoLo. There must be something that gets you excited a feeling soft and gooey!
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@p1kef1sh (45640)
6 Feb 09
XXXX there's some kisses for starters. XXXX
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@p1kef1sh (45640)
7 Feb 09
Littleowl is a lady Scoop. She doesn't want two old rogues like you and me messing up her day. LOL.
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@sweetie1026 (1723)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
A guy who loves children and who knows how to cook. I am not sure if this is what you meant but i find guys who does love children and loves to cook more appealing.
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• Philippines
6 Feb 09
Or maybe snuggled up in a couch drinking hot coffee and chocolate while watching an old favorite movie or just listening to sweet music then anything can happen.....
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@p1kef1sh (45640)
6 Feb 09
Those sound lovely and in their way quite magical Sweetie. Food is such an aphrodisiac. Feeding each other brings you close. Licking gravy or sauce from one anothers fingers.....just a short attention to their lips......... so sexy.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
6 Feb 09
Subtlety in all things (clothes, make up, expression, gesture, voice) is sexy. An aura of mystery, danger, unattainability.........it's the challenge, the invitation to pursue, that sets off our pheromones and makes the object of our newly developed desire appear sexy in the truest sense of the word. Not the cheap, hang it all out for the world to see and goggle at kind of sexy, which frankly, I don't find sexy at all, just sad.
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@p1kef1sh (45640)
6 Feb 09
So true Sparky. I love the slow burning fuse knowing that just one pinch can put it out. But if I wait, then an explosion will come just as sure as anything.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
6 Feb 09
Yep. The old art of romance and seduction. Yin and Yang......... And contrary to popular belief, it the him that provides the romance and the her that practices the seduction! LOL
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@krajibg (11940)
• Guwahati, India
6 Feb 09
'Sexy'- is it so? Yes, this is a word that covers half of the Sahara. I mean from libido and sexuality to true pure appreciation either of a person or an object. just like if I say wow!! how sexy is is your way of starting a discussion, I bet there is not any implicit hint towards asexuality. To say anything 'sexy' is a vogue these days I dare say. What is your opinion?
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@p1kef1sh (45640)
6 Feb 09
I'm all for it. For me it's a feeling, a sensation that leads to a warmth and yearning inside.
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@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
6 Feb 09
Long hair on men, I love to see a man with nice clean long hair, I have always liked men with long hair maybe it is the primitive in me I don't know, I used to always say when a someone doesn't have long hair it is like a picture without a frame..
@p1kef1sh (45640)
6 Feb 09
LOL. I've never really understood this desire for me to shave their heads. Maybe they've all got nits!! Long(ish) hair is fine.
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• Canada
6 Feb 09
Wonderful discussion topic, p1key. Brilliant! Well, let's see......... If I was getting a massage, by someone who smelled wonderful, the setting was serene in some way, I was naked under my towel, lying there....waiting a little, and they were succeeding in relaxing me with their strokes on my body, my skin........ooooo, P1key, now you got me all hot and bothered. What are you going to do with me now, eh?
@p1kef1sh (45640)
6 Feb 09
Just let those fingers gently brush your skin Annie. Tracing the contours of your body whilst gentle kisses, almost breaths, glance off your prone body before slowly worming their way, probing deep..............
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• Canada
6 Feb 09
OOOOOO, yes, keep going, keep going, I like it, yeah.... *Annie gently urges the hand to tickle near and around but avoiding her special places* Yes, that's it, mmmmmmm, just lovely ..... *Annie starts breathing heavier*
• Canada
6 Feb 09
How about you drizzle some liquid chocolate on me somewhere, then lick it off. That would be just scrumtious, don't you think?
• Netherlands
9 Feb 09
Everything about Hubby is sexy from his dark piercing brown eyes to the way that he takes care of me so well when I am sick to buying me a bouquet of flowers for no reason to the way he tells me "I love you"...and he has been this sexy and more for the last 26 years that we have been married...we just celebrated 26 years 2 days ago! ;)
• Netherlands
9 Feb 09
OH!! I almost forgot, I think the Most Sexy Thing I've Ever seen is YOU in the black bra and underwear! Nothing can beat that! ;)
@p1kef1sh (45640)
9 Feb 09
Congratulations. We aren't too far behind and will chalk up 23 years this year. Now that bra was quite something. I'm quite surprised that I haven't had folk on the phone wanting to employ me as a lingerie model!! LOL.
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• Netherlands
9 Feb 09
Thanks for the Congrats and Congratulations to you and your honey too this year! The reason you have not had your phone ringing off of the hook for you to be a lingerie model is because I have now officially named myself as your agent and any offers will have to go directly through me...don't worry though, I am going to get you the best offers available. You see, I know a good thing when I see it and I also want to make a good 20% or more commission! ;)
@sharra1 (6342)
• Australia
7 Feb 09
Oh that is a tough one as I never think about what is sexy or not. I either am attracted to someone or not but I do not think in terms of sexy. I once asked a male friend of mine what it meant as I had no idea. He says it is the way a person feels in side and it shows in the way they move and look etc. As to provoking passions then I would think more in terms of romantic and thoughtful rather than sexy as such. Focusing on me and doing things for me, like cooking me a nice meal and just paying me special attention. Then there is the dominance side of things that is quite sexy as long as it is what he is and not someone trying to act that way. There is a big difference there and I have met both kinds.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
7 Feb 09
I think that it is how you feel about someone or even a situation. I can make the most mundane things feel sexy to me. Of course that's on a fantasy level. The idea of making love to the greengrocer on a bed of carrots isn't really something that I'd want to do! Dominance - or control? As you know that's one of my interests. However, for me it's about surrender, a tone of voice, a look, a demand. Now you've got me all hot and bothered. How's Lash? Haven't seen him for a while.
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• United States
7 Feb 09
Sometimes, you have this need and of course you have to act on it! For me (as a woman) it usually doesn't last long enough for the romantic stuff (like I even remember!) , so I take a deep breath and jump on in! Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
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@p1kef1sh (45640)
7 Feb 09
When you're my age; if she jumps on it and it work you give thanks for a minor miracle!!
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@jbrooks0127 (2326)
• United States
7 Feb 09
Sexy is truly in the mind of the beholder. What one person finds sexy another will not. We normally associate sexy with looks but is it really? When you stop and think of all the Hollywood actresses, as an example, that are considered hot or sexy you find that many may not turn you on at all. So what is it that makes us take notice? That is of course your question. It is a very difficult thing to answer because it is different for every person. I find that intelligence in a woman makes her far more alluring to me than what she looks like. Oh I appreciate good looks as much as any man but when it comes to finding that one that really turns me on it is almost unquantifiable. It may be the color of her hair, style of her hair, high cheek bone structure, a sultry look that just melts you. But upon meeting her what really gets my attention is her presence. The total person. Great personality, easy to talk with, and of course she must be able to put a sentence together. For me I find that there are some women that are considered very hot that I find there is something not quite right. As I said it is all in the mind of the beholder.
@sharra1 (6342)
• Australia
7 Feb 09
I agree, it is in the eye of the beholder and it is not about looks as such. If a person feels sexy and can express that sexiness to the world then they are sexy. I have seen plenty of pretty women and good looking men who are not sexy. I know what you mean by presence and when you first meet someone you are either attracted or not, there is something people give off which you can connect to. Some people call it chemistry but it is in the whole person.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
7 Feb 09
I agree. We all find different things sexy. Many men like sexy lingerie - personally I don't. All that I see is obstacles. But a woman in a button through summer dress.......... I need a cold shower!!! LOL.
@sharra1 (6342)
• Australia
8 Feb 09
lol lingerie is an obstacle. Now if she was wearing nothing but the button through summer dress then that would be very sexy indeed.
@guybrush (4661)
• Australia
10 Feb 09
They say the definition of 'sexy' is a man in the kitchen ... COOKING. I'd rather have one of those than one in the bedroom doing anything else. Or maybe not. In my experience, a cooking man leaves so much mess you might as well have cooked yourself in the first place ...
@guybrush (4661)
• Australia
10 Feb 09
Hahahahaha - what a visual! That woman was taking gratitude to a new level - my husband would be lucky to get a muttered 'thanks'. Not sure that I'd fancy rumpy-pumpy amongst the potato peelings and congealed gravy ... though now that you mention it ...
@mtdewgurl74 (18118)
• United States
9 Feb 09
That's hard to define because what is sexy to one person isn't necessarily sexy to another. But sexy is anything that makes a person go oh la la..and and in most cases turns them on. Sexy to me a man who over looks a woman size and isn't afraid to talk to her or be seen with her. that is sexy. makes my heart all gushy..lol
@p1kef1sh (45640)
10 Feb 09
If all a man can see is the size of a woman then he isn't seeing her at all Becky. It's who she is, how she thinks and feels and what her heart says about her that really counts. Some of the sexiest women are "comfortably built".
@mtdewgurl74 (18118)
• United States
10 Feb 09
See i knew you always where a sexy man..inside and out.The boss is a lucky lady indeed.
• United States
7 Feb 09
I have no girlfriend, but one of my very close friend, I find her sexy when she weres blue or yellow top and has her curly hairs open and she faces to the sky, this whole picture infront of my eyes looks really very sexy, and sometimes I do get a feeling if she would be my girlfriend.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
7 Feb 09
Maybe if you attend to her needs she will become your girlfriend. Good luck.
@guybrush (4661)
• Australia
10 Feb 09
She has her curly hairs open? Wow.
• United States
7 Feb 09
Hmmmmm.....I haven't really looked lately, but in the past I usually look at their eyes and their self confidence (probably because I have none!). But it can be something really strange, like the night I picked up a guy in the bar just because I could, or seeing a hint of chest hair peeking out from the open V of my boyfriend's shirt (before we hooked up)... I know I'm such a geek!
@scorpio19 (1363)
7 Feb 09
Hi p1kef1sh, You know what I find truely sexy in a man when he's clean shaven, I don't know what it is about a look of a male when he had a close shave and I don't mean any male, my male I think it's so so sexy but it doesn't make me want to rip his clothes off just think god your sexy! how about you what makes you think "Oh that's so sexy?"
@p1kef1sh (45640)
7 Feb 09
Clean shaven all over Scorpio? Now that could be fun! LOL. I've just shaved.................... I can dream.
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@Opal26 (17690)
• United States
7 Feb 09
Hey p1ke! I wish I knew what sexy was! I'm not sure I can remember anymore! I think that I need a refresher course in what it means! Am I getting too old to know or has it changed somehow in its meaning? I used to think that I knew! Now I'm just not so sure! I still think having a nice romantic meal by candlelight with the one you love is the utmost in "sexy". Am I wrong? Too way off? Please tell me?
@Rosekitty (19441)
• San Marcos, Texas
7 Feb 09
Sexy is anything you want...
@p1kef1sh (45640)
7 Feb 09
You're not too old that's for sure. It's a situation, a look a feeling of gooeyness inside. Meals are good, for me though it can be something much more mundane such as a tone of voice even. What does your BF do to you that makes you think: "Yes. That's got me going."
@GreenMoo (11842)
12 Feb 09
Antonio Bandeiras in Desperado. That's tingling. I'm not sure I've spelt his name right, but that would be the least of my worries 'if everything was just right'. I wouldn't be thinking of writing to him.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
12 Feb 09
LOL. I can imagine that you wouldn't be wanting to write to him. I'm sure that you could think of something much more useful for his pencil!
• United States
10 Feb 09
light caresses. Spontaneity. Intrigue. That is some of what does it for me. Things that are oversexulized are actually a turn off to me.
@p1kef1sh (45640)
10 Feb 09
I agree. Sometimes it's just a feeling.
• India
9 Feb 09
Hehehe... sexy is the most commonly used, most meaningless word in the world today. I checked the dictionary, which told me that it simply means "attractive" or "sexually appealing." LOL!! Cheers and happy Mylotting
@p1kef1sh (45640)
9 Feb 09
OK Sexy!! LOL.
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
7 Feb 09
Many men use the word "sexy" to admire some women.I don't like the word.To me it's a vulgar expression to admire a woman.The word "charming" can be used instead of "sexy".
@p1kef1sh (45640)
7 Feb 09
I take your point. Charming can also be a sarcastic word so you would have to be careful how it is used. However, if a woman is pretty and feminine, well versed in femininely matters then she can certainly be charming.