What is the trait of your bf/gf, husband/wife that makes you love him/her more?

@annierose (19521)
Philippines
February 13, 2009 2:54pm CST
Happy Valentines Day to all. I just want to know what traits that you bf/gf, husband/wife has that makes you love him more? I think it is a good thing for it to share so that it can give everyone an idea of what trait to have in order for their sweethearts to love them more As for me, the trait of my boyfriend that makes me love him more is the way he exerts an effort to chat with me always.The way he always finds time to be with me even just online. He has a very busy time working in America but despite his schedules and everyday meetings, he still finds time to chat with me even for little hours just to check if I am ok.And then he will ask what I did for the day. He also reports to me what he did or his plan for the next day. Sometimes, he calls me on the phone just to tell me that he loves me.I find him so sweet. And I can say that I am so lucky and blessed to have a boyfriend like him.
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@k1tten (2318)
• United States
14 Feb 09
I love my partner's quirky sense of humor. She likes to tease and sometimes taunt but she never leaves anyone out. She teases me more because it's her way of showing affection. I love how she cuddles me and tickles me to make me happy.
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
hi k1tten, I think your partner is enjoyable to be with. I remembered by your post how my boyfriend makes me laugh even we are in a long distance relationship. Whenever he will see on my webcam having a serious face, he will make face on his cam and do some gestures just to make me smile. He is so funny because sometimes he is almost like a child on what he is doing.
@Pleiades (846)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Well, Happy Valentine's Day to you! My boyfriend...well, let's just say we're in the "discovery" stages of our relationship, even though we've known each other for six years. But, there's got to have been something he's said or done that makes my heart skip beats and dream of him, right? Before I met him in real life, I guess what I found lovely about him was the fact that even though he was in Iraq and I on the other side of the world from him, he would take the time to write or call me to let me know how he's doing. I liked that. Granted, that eventually dwindled but whenever I did get something, I was on fire. Now, he's on his leave and instead of spending it with his family, he's spending all of it with me. That's a big plus in my book! So, now that we've had a week together thus far, I've got to say there's lots of things he says and does that I find so irresitable. I love his bright blue eyes, red hair, his kissable looking lips, childish nature...but out of all of that, I love the way how he'll come in to see me, even just for a moment...to let me know how he's doing. *Pleiades
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
I can say that my boyfriend and yours has similarities, Pleiades. Just knowing that they have time for us make us really feel special and important for them
• United States
13 Feb 09
My boyfriend is also very good to me. I love how he has never ever raised his voice to me in the two years we have been together, so by him not getting angry and upset, it encourages me to not get upset at small things either, so we have never had a real fight, just good conversations that solve "problems." I like how he also makes sacrifices for me, and I do the same for him as well. I love how we plan together too, I love knowing when I will see him next (he lives in Sweden), and everything else that we plan to do in the future. He is a great guy and I am very fortunate to have him in my life!
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
I can see that you are so lucky with your bf sugarplum9084. ..A good relationship is always give and take.Thanks for sharing
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
14 Feb 09
Hello annierose! I can't say that my husband is almost perfect but I love everything about my husband. Like the first respondent, my husband never raises his voice to me even sometimes, I trigger him to do. He always makes me happy. Like you, we also talk everyday on the phone, except of course when he's working at the school.
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• United States
14 Feb 09
yes, he is a teacher too..hhehehe..can you see the compatibility?
@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
hi aisa, Well, he is a very patient and loving person as it is reflected by your post. Is he also a teacher?
@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
Well, Yes.. I can see that you are really compatible with each other..I can say that teachers are really patient.. Well, as for me as a beginner teacher, I must learn how to be patient as well
@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
13 Feb 09
My fiance is very ambitious and a hard worker, I love that about him. He always wants to improve and move up in his career and could never just stay at a go nowhere job just because it pays the bills. Money isn't really important to me but ambition really is, I couldn't be with a lazy person. I love that he's the sort of person who always tries to excel and be the best he can no matter what he's doing.
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
hi jesssp, So I can say that you will have a good future with your fiance because he is a responsible man. Hoping he will always stay that way. You are lucky with your man
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
14 Feb 09
Hi, Trustworhiness,caring,sacrifice.... =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
Thanks for sharing forslahiri. But how does your dear one showed it to you?
• India
18 Feb 09
Hi, Thro' an invisible wavelength...& I have a receiver Deep in my heart....
@rusty2rusty (6751)
• Defiance, Ohio
14 Feb 09
I would like to say when he does something out of the blue. But that is so far and in between that it makes it hard to sometimes hold on to.
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
I understand what you feel since my boyfriend is also so far from me. we just have to be patient and believes in the relationship. Thanks for sharing rusty2rusty
• United States
14 Feb 09
My is pretty loving and loves unconditionally. I feel like she finds it hard to not love someone or something for their little quirks or their imperfections. I feel like she actually loves something more when it's flawed or imperfect.
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
You are so lucky that she loves you so much. Take good care of her because girl's like here sometimes is hard to find
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
I love my husband more because he always assure me and made his way to prove that he love me every single day. Love easily fades if it is not true. But if it is, then you will never get tired telling and doing things for the person you love to know about it. And that is what my husband continuously doing.
@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
hi izathewzia, I agree with you that true love never gets tired. It is patient. Congratulations for having a wonderful husband
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
14 Feb 09
When he calls me up on the phone to check on me and the kids. His voice is so sexy and sweet.. I love him as he is of being a mysterious person.. He likes to surprise me. I love when he gets dressed up.. I love to see him in his work clothes as well.. This is where he is most sexy!
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
Women really loves surprises..I am like that too.Thanks for sharing cream97
@dodo19 (47133)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
14 Feb 09
There is just so much that I love about him, but I think that the main thing that I love about him is that he's really the first person, who is always there to listen, to care, ... just be there for me, no matter what. Sure, I could say the same for my parents, but it's really not the same thing. I feel that my fiance is there for me a lot more than my parents have been. It's just a feeling that I have.
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
I understand what you posted here dodo19. Sometimes, I have feeling same with you regarding my boyfriend also
@ulalume (713)
• United States
14 Feb 09
My girlfriend has significantly higher magicka levels than most females and myself. Her mage like powers include casting hypnotical spells, which she must use on me excessively because I am always craving to see her. Aside from that nerd exploit, just about everything. I dont know, we're best friends as well as lovers. Not the kind you read about or hear about either, its just reality. We like doing everything together, and are happy about it too! Its pretty great.
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
hi ulalume, I think you are very much compatible with each other. Thanks for sharing..Happy Valentines
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
i guess i love hubby for being who he is whenever he's with me or without me. I love him for being there for me, for giving me a wonderful son. I love him not just because he loves me so much but because he is the person my heart had chosen to be my life time partner.
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
hi yshaleigh, Your post here makes me feel that you two both love each other very much, that till of both you grow old, nothing will change
• Philippines
18 Feb 09
thank you for a nice comment to our relationship... we love each other so much...
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
my husband sees to it that he calls me every night after a long hours of his study time and before he goes to sleep.. he always mentions how much he loves me and our baby. i could not ask for more,,,
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
Your husband is very much loving to you and your baby.So I can say that some people has the reason to be envy because I can see to it that you are a happy family.
@ehlana88 (330)
• United States
13 Feb 09
My boyfriend can't lie to me. He has this strange urge to tell me everything. To just spill his guts as soon as he sees me and its been that way since day one. He's so adorable with it. Bouncing up and down like a puppy want a cookie.
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@annierose (19521)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
so good that he is truthful to you ehlana88