Are Women more prone to depression?

@kiran8 (15348)
Mangalore, India
February 22, 2009 3:45am CST
When people are depressed they usually find themselves thinking very negative thoughts about themselves and the world in general. Accordingly , there have been numerous studies conducted which show that Women have a greater chance of becoming depressed than men. I feel that it may not be all true, because the men had the upper hand in the olden days and naturally women had more reasons to get depressed. Friends what do you all think about this? Does the enviornment and social standing contribute ? Even if it is a fact that Women are more prone to depressions, do you think that there are measures that can help them come out of it? if so please share your own thoughts about this ..
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
23 Feb 09
I believe that your question is intended for women folk here, who can respond in first hand manner. I think anyone can feel depression, irrespective of gender. I feel that those who are working women, always remain very busy to think about depression. One reaches the state of depression, when one have plenty of spare time to think and his/her thinking turns negative. If one remains involved in one job or the other, he/she does not get time to think about trivial matters. Depression is also related to one's tolerance powers and determination to 'adjust' under adverse circumstances. I think heredity factors also plays a role in depression. The simple formula for those, who go into depression, would be 'to remain busy' and 'keep interacting with friends/relatives', I mean they should not confine themselves to their places of stay.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
23 Feb 09
Excellent analysis ! I was actually reading a report published by an Indian psychiatrist regarding depression. And according his findings, women were more prone to depressions. He was probably talking about Indian women. He has given many reasons like harmonal imbalance etc;for this including the social background and in many cases complete dependence of the woman on others(father/husband). I am sure things are different now, that women are far more independent financially and have more self confidence and are treated with more respect ..
@France7 (385)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
Hi there Kiran. I am not just sure about this because men and women around me are the same when it comes to becoming depressed. Probably, the only difference is that women tend to be more expressive about their feelings. When they feel depressed, they talk about their feelings to other people whereas guys prefer to solve their cause of depression alone. Again, I am just talking about those people around me. Cheers!
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
23 Feb 09
Hi France, thanks for your views! I am glad that most people feel this way , that women are not particularly more prone for depressions...when you say people around you it does reflect society
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
26 Jul 10
That is very true France . We all go through such feelings and adopt different methods to cope with them.It would indeed be depressing to see a society where women are constantly going through a state of depression
@France7 (385)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
Absolutely kiran! I can't imagine staying in a society where women are easily depressed. Otherwise, they would be creating a next generation of depressed people.:)
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
23 Feb 09
It has been medically proved that hormones have a role in the depression of women and it was not the ancient oppression of women really.Those poor things would not have been given time or freedom to even get depressed I guess , because they too would have had this bout of internal frustration and despair , which were toned down by their sturdy resignation and philosophical attitude to their lot in life. In modern times, we still hear of depression in women and they are not oppressed in any way as you rightly pointed out.Once again they would have their own causes but hormones play a very big part in this[especially in women above their forties].Regarding measures, it would be better to see a doctor if the symptoms are very severe.On the other hand, irritability , tension, sadness, brooding all are indications of premenopausal syndrome and hormonal imbalance.I read about this in a pamplet given by a gyn.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
23 Feb 09
Hi kalav, thanks a lot for your views! as you have observed , may be harmonal changes at a later stage does make them prone to depression, this again combined with other factors i would say ? According to a psychological study , prolonged case of depression can lead to Schezophrenia , which is a far more serious condition..
• India
23 Feb 09
I don't think women are more prone to depression. Also agree that it may be related with suppressed thoughts and acts, and to some extent, the biological cycle. On the otherhand, I feel that women are more likely to talk about their woes, thereby less likely to get depressed. The remedies has to be case specific.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
23 Feb 09
Thanks for your response ! I think things have changed for the better now, with women having far more freedom ..
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
22 Feb 09
Depends on the woman I guess. I know some have gotten post partum depression. I thankfully did not suffer from that after having my children. Even so most women know themselves well enough and can get the appropriate help. So it doesn't have to be a permanent situation.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
23 Feb 09
Yes i agree ! Depression cannot be permanent , that is if proper care is given - otherwise it can lead to schezophrenia , this according to medical investigations.Of course that is an extreme situation
• United Arab Emirates
22 Feb 09
I think this a good discussion as yes women do, 70% women are prone to depression. Women are soft hearted, emotional and believe what they are being told easily. So they fall in to the trap and when they find out the truth, they feel cheated & go into depression. But I have read a nice story which I would like to share here. One man had a girlfriend outside. One day he told his wife I want to give divorce to you & get married to that girl. The wife was really wise, she didn't show any signs of depressions or anger, she just said," I lived in this house for so long so let me spend 3 more days here. Then I'll leave." He said ok. She stayed there, on the last day she cleaned & cooked prawns. And all the waste of the prawns she put it inside the curtain rods. Then she left and her husband & his new wife started staying in that house. After few days bad smell started coming, it was immpossible to stay in that house. They tried to find where the smell is coming from but they couldn't. In the end they had to leave the house.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
22 Feb 09
Then what happened? i mean did the story end there? Did the husband and wife get together? and what about depression? who got depressed here? I feel that women have come a long way now and are able to tackle many issues in a more mature manner because of the independence they have with their lives now unlike earlier days when they were dependent on their men all their lives
• India
22 Feb 09
Hi Madam.. How are you??? I think we can differentiate that according to soft character persons and hard character persons... Recently i got depression much from a women whom i respect the most. When my expectations failed, i got much depression & being a women she strongly disagree with certain things during our argument. I think i am the one who got much depressions. Actually i love her much, respect her.. but i was so depressed when she failed to do my expectations & said some definitions for that. Honestly, she was correct in her way what she said.. but being so dear to me, i cannot digest the reply what she gave to me also destroying my expectations. Naturally, i am very soft character person to my dear peoples where on the other hand, i am ferocious during my wrestling days.. I think we can classify by soft characterized people & hard characterized people. The incident which affects a lot for the soft characterized people will never affect anything on hard characterized people. So we can feel that depressions vary here..
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
22 Feb 09
Thanks a lot Rahul I am good and i hope the same is the case with you! You are right in a way, i agree that it depends upon the inner strength of a person regardless of whether it is a man or a woman. But things are a lot different now, with people especially women having more equality and self respect..
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
8 Oct 10
Well most time i face it, at least cost, move away. As we are humans, and our brain can handle only maximum extent, and above it..is to set it free.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
9 Oct 10
Hi besthope, thanks a lot for the response There is a lot of wisdom in what you say, we need to develop a more positive attitude regarding stress management - all the best and have a great evening