Did you get married to your best friend?

@rajfoe (354)
India
February 28, 2009 8:11am CST
Hi friends did anyone of you got married to your best friends. There are many people in the world who have got married to their best friends. So are you one among them. Do let me know. Thankyou Happy mylotting.
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16 responses
• United States
1 Mar 09
yeah in a way i did.. i consider my hubby to be one of my best friends and we have always been like that from the very beginning.. been together over 10 years so its obviously working out good for us
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@baileycows (3669)
• United States
28 Feb 09
No, but sometimes I wish I had because it would have made my life a whole lot easier. Don't get me wrong I love my husband more than anything, but.....I don't think he ever really loved me back. I know that my best friend loves me.
@kquiming (2999)
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
that's sad to hear. just want to let u know i admire people like you, who love others anyway without getting any love in return.
@rajfoe (354)
• India
1 Mar 09
Oh is that so. Very sad to hear that. But oneday/the other your husband will love you surely. May God bless you. Thanks for your reply.
@kquiming (2999)
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
im not married yet, but if i ever get married, i want my husband to be my best friend at the same time. i want the flame and the friendship, they go hand in hand, but time will come when we're both 50 years old, it's more likely for the flame to die by then, and friendship will be the only thing that remains to hold on to, to keep us happy together.
@rajfoe (354)
• India
1 Mar 09
Exactly friend we would like our dear ones to be a friend where we can share our feelings, joy, sorrow and pain. Its because friends only understand us provided they are good friends.
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
18 Jul 10
Well i have married my wife, who was my best friend and also my best friend now! lucky about it!!
@ralphido (843)
• India
27 Apr 09
well..i don't know about gals but guys wouldn't marry their best friends just because of the fact that they wouldn't have a beautiful and attractive gal as just their best friend and nothing more.. guys would try to make it work with beautiful gals..we would rather have a girl friend than a best friend.. only the gals who are not our type or not so attractive may have a chance of making friends with guys.. what do you say...
@jlamela (4909)
• Philippines
27 Apr 09
Hopefully I can marry my best friend too, so that there's no huge adjustment on my part because I already know him better.
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
My husband and I were friends before we became lovers. When we became lovers, we became the best of friends. Now that we are married, we still remain to be the best of friends and we hope to stay bestfriends till the last days of our life.
@rocketj1 (6960)
• United States
4 Mar 09
We were friends before we got married. In other words, we just love to be together and shared everything. But we were really not best friends. But.... now after almost 19 years of marriage, I can truly say he is my best friend. In fact sometimes it overwhelms me and I will say to him "You are my very best friend, baby!"....Awww! Doesn't that just make you sick?haahaa
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
Oh sounds interesting! well that was a long time ago in life it was nearly tried to happend to got married into my bestfriend but so sad that he make a leftturn and look for another woman before we got decided to marry each other. And that was so terrible for me because that boy was i really love. So when that nightmare happened I begun to dislike boys and I hate to be inlove again for a long time. But today after os many decades in my life I am now happily married to a good man! very thankful to God He gave this man I love now. we have three kids.
@beency (15)
• China
3 Mar 09
i have not get married now.lots of my friends would like to find boyfirend or girlfriend among their friends or classmates.it can be hard to say whether they become friends fist and then lovers or reverse.i am in the same situation,hahahh
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
2 Mar 09
I'm still very much single.. lol =D I think it's always the best thing to be marrying one's best fren as they would have really known and undertstand u during the years they have known each other ^_^ Even though as frenz, they have gone thru the ups and downs in life, together, and that's what makes their relationship even stronger ^_^ SO far, i have only known one couple whom had married their best fren, and that's my cousin ^_^
@suzzy3 (8357)
1 Mar 09
I take it you mean someone you knew well maybe for years before you got married,no I did not falling in love with a stranger is my story,but he is my best friend now.
• Canada
1 Mar 09
I'm not married yet but I'm engaged. My fiance is my best friend. I'm so happy I have found someone like him that I am so madly in love with AND best friends with.
• United States
28 Feb 09
I'm not married yet. However if I do get married to my boyfriend, he is going to become my best friend. Currently, were in that stage where we get to know each other better. I'm hoping that our relationship will last.
@cindyhxf (1447)
• China
28 Feb 09
yes,some couples wanted to be friends first,get married after they know of each other more .their love will be strong foundation and trust.better more than "flash marriage".i think it is good for marriage.
@dragon54u (31635)
• United States
28 Feb 09
No, I thought I did but I didn't and it's done and over with after 19 years. But my two best friends got married and they were best friends! It's a great marriage and convenient for me to just make one phone call to speak with them both!