OMG!!! OMG!!! OMG!!! Help... brain overload!!!

March 16, 2009 10:37am CST
I'm in shock! There's a Dad on the playground that I have fancied for years But I always thought he was happily married. I was chatting to him today and he dropped in to conversation that he actually seperated from his wife last year!! Well you could have knocked me down with a feather! How did I miss that bit of playground gossip?? So my question is.... do i or don't i??? Should I suggest going for a coffee after dropping the kids at school one morning? Or should I just continue to admire him from afar! Oh dearie! I'm all in a pickle cause I never expected this day to actually happen! And now it has!!!
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buggles64
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
16 Mar 09
Invite the Dad for coffee! You will never know if you really like him unless you get to know him. Oh...make sure he's divorced, no sense in getting your hopes of if he plans on going back to his wife. Good luck.
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mummyofthree
@mummyofthree (2715)
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16 Mar 09
LOL! I been chatting to him on playground for last 3 years. So I already know I like him
alegnaluvu
@alegnaluvu (660)
• Malaysia
17 Mar 09
wow..hot topic...finally the hunted is haunting you. Turn around and be the hunter. Initiate something and start the ball rolling to patch up the missing link. Who knows this is going to be the beginning of a beautiful sunshine.
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mummyofthree
@mummyofthree (2715)
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17 Mar 09
Don't feel much like a hunter! More like a scared little mouse! Was ok chatting to him when he was unavailable! Now all my confidence has gone completely out the window!
Lil Bit aka Royal Mom
@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
17 Mar 09
Go for it, girl!! Invite him for coffee. Have a long talk with him. Get to know him better. But also be cautious as he might return to his wife. You will not know what his plans are until you ask. It would be worth a cup of coffee to investigate the situation. Make sure you meet at a public place so things can not be misunderstood.
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wonttakelong
@wonttakelong (3555)
• United States
17 Mar 09
how will you ever know if you dont try? I say you go for it what do you have to lose?
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simply_lizzie
@simply_lizzie (50)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
It seems like you had been dreaming of to hear those words from him. And now it had happen, its a dream come true for sure. Life is so short sweetie, don't live on what if's???? Better yet do not live life with regrets. If you do not do it now, then when??? Live your live to the fullest... Hope you two will both have a happy ending!
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aswitzer
@aswitzer (1)
• United States
17 Mar 09
go for it....:)
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goldeneagle
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
16 Mar 09
You ask him out of course...nothing wrong with it at all...
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p1kef1sh
@p1kef1sh (45681)
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17 Mar 09
Where's the harm in going for a coffee? Do it and then report back. Off you go Agent Mummyofthree! Take care.
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paula27661
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
17 Mar 09
You will regret it if you don't invite him for a coffee. You have got to know if he may be interested, which is a possibility! If you don't you will always wonder what could have been. I don't believe in coincidence and there may be a good reason that he happened to mention he's separated. Go for it!
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Ritchelle
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
i guess the best answer is the one that would present itself. do what you had been doing and see whether he can fit in your day. don't alter anything. i believe that's how fate will let you know if he's worth it or not. good luck. but keep it together, girl. ;)
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callahanb78
@callahanb78 (529)
• United States
16 Mar 09
Might as well go for it. You never know what could happen if you dont. God luck and keep us posted.
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