My Fault

@p1kef1sh (45681)
March 19, 2009 10:29am CST
I answered something here earlier today and gave a statistic from memory. I was way out and have been caught out and had my knuckles rapped. I should have researched my reply better. Do you research before your respond, or guess, like I did, and hope that you got it right?
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@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
19 Mar 09
When I reply to a question, it is usually coming from the heart or my own opinion. I have never really come across a question that I wanted to "research." I feel that many are asking opinions, such as what would you do if you were in their position, and those type of answers really can't be researched. I think your best answers are based on your life experiences and not what you are able to "pull up" on the web.
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• United States
19 Mar 09
Same here; it all depends on what topic it is though. If it is "love advice" we are talking about, I share from the heart, and by using my own experiences. If it is medical or scientific or geographic, or political, etc., then I go by recent statistics.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Mar 09
Sometimes though it helps to have some statistics to hand. However, I usually do talk off the top of my head. That's why I got into trouble! LOL.
• India
23 Mar 09
Not always!! LOL!! I use vague terms such as "I think" "I believe" "I guess" "I might be mistaken" and so on. So far, nobody has rapped me on the knuckles. :) Cheers and happy Mylotting
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
23 Mar 09
I should have used those terms too! LOL.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
20 Mar 09
It very much depends on what needs to be said. I have been labelled by certain friends as he 'To Whom All Things Are Known' (or that tw@t, AK). Actually, this is not quite true. My mind is full of useless junk but these days it is becoming harder and harder to lay my hands on a particular piece of information just when I need it, so I begin to rely more on the adage of the Automobile Association - "No, I don't know but I know a man who does" (that 'man' being the author of some reference book or, increasingly, a web page). There is method in my madness, however. I may be making a couple of cents answering a question here but I also subscribe to a service that pays me a little more than that for every search I do. It's not a lot, I guess, but I can effectively earn three or four times the amount for a response than I otherwise would by doing a couple of searches. It's not that I count every penny I earn here but it's nice to hear them a-jingling as an accompaniment to having fun. I didn't need to research this response, by the way. I just guessed wildly.
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
20 Mar 09
BDM is just another pejorative term with which the more intelligent, sensitive and thoughtful among us tend to be labelled by the practical, busy and no-nonsense types who cannot tolerate our vacillation and deliberation. Don't worry about it. MyHomepagesFriends (ghastly name) is not a toolbar but it adds itself to the list of available search engines in the search bar of the browser. You can read more about it in the little mini-review in my profile, if you wish. I expect to make about £70 a year from using it (and already got £50 in December). There is some doubt about the promptness with which it pays but, since I do searches anyway, I don't feel that I am losing anything if they turn out to be dodgy.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Mar 09
Thank you for the information. I might have a look.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Mar 09
Small problem. It doesn't run on my internet browser! LOL.
• United States
19 Mar 09
Since I'm a firm believer that I know a little bit about everything I reply to here I usually go with my gut. I haven't gotten a spanking from misrepresenting a statistic yet. Lucky boy you.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Mar 09
You know how much I love a spanking Cyn!
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• United States
19 Mar 09
I always research. Of course, I try to use statistics that are more current, say, within the last three years. Otherwise, a statistic older than that is obsolete, and detracts from your credibility, as was instructed by my Composition II professor. Bah! So what - you made a mistake. It could happen to anyone. Just pick yourself up by the bootstraps and move on! Happy MyLotting!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Mar 09
Indeed and it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
19 Mar 09
poor knuckles..... I tag my information with something like... If I remember right or I think it's or maybe somebody else can say for sure but I remember it like.... That way if I'm right... great... but if I'm wrong then it's still all good. Does that make sense? Now make sure you ice those knuckles or let one of us ladies kiss em a bit to make them better
@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Mar 09
Kisses please. I just spent an hour talking to one of the "harem" on the phone. I am feeling very adored right now. LOL.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Mar 09
Awwww. Thank you. Here's a couple back at you. XX
@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
19 Mar 09
[/b]XXXXXXXXXX[b] Kisses you want. Kisses you get.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
23 Mar 09
All information I share comes from a very reputable and accurate source called "Jamesipedia", so as far as I'm concerned, it's not even POSSIBLE to be wrong! But every now and then I do double check other sources before making any figures based comments. It's best that I do this every now and then to not get too big a head, yes? I'm glad you agree.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
23 Mar 09
If it weren't for the Jewish Samurai, we'd have never had calamari! Thanks for reminding me of their humble beginnings. I am ashamed of myself for letting go of my historical learnings of this ilk and this re-cap provided a long overdue kick in the butt for me. It's just a shame that the British Samurai never showed up because he could have turned the fly into a Monarchist and then made everybody some tea!
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
20 Mar 09
I am more likely to just not respond or omit the statistic from my response altogether than I am to go research it. That is unless it is something I am passionate about. I suppose that is a bad thing to admit, but I have said it before that I come here for a mindless getaway. If I start working too hard for my responses it might become less fun to me.
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
20 Mar 09
;Grabs P1key's hand and skips off to the playground. Weeeeeeee!!!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Mar 09
I come here for fun and I have no idea why I allowed myself to get into that discussion. I must do better in future.
@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
26 Mar 09
It depends on the type of discussion like for example this discussion I don't have to research my answer I know that I have done research for some discussions and I have posted the places where I have gotten my information from when I debate with anyone so that I have all my ducks in a row.
• United States
27 Mar 09
honey you never have to worry about research because we all love ya... You should check out my newest discussion I have about three things to back up my thoughts.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
26 Mar 09
I don't research too many replies. But there is the odd one that I had been more diligent about.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
19 Mar 09
I don't have to research. I know everything. Of course being able to have more than one tab open at a time helps me to cheat! LOL
• Regina, Saskatchewan
19 Mar 09
Now Mr. Fish none of that. Afterall you have friends like Cyn and I now and if we can't whip you into shape, no one can! LOL Cyn.......you'd be surprised how really alike we are.....I'm just older! LOL
@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Mar 09
You are of course the wisest woman on the planet Sparky. I am but a poor male and fallible with it.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Mar 09
Well now, usually I AM right. But when I'm not, it's usually a doozy. btw did you know that 63% of all statistics are made up?
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Mar 09
I think that it's 99% and I'm not 100% sure of that. It might be 50:50!
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
20 Mar 09
i don't usually throw out many statistics in my answer, it usually comes straight from my pee brain , out my mouth, we all make mistakes. i'm sure someone called your attention to it. lol
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Mar 09
Did they ever! LOL. If I were more sensitive I'd have closed my account by now.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
20 Mar 09
nobody is perfect even tho of people think they are. have a good weekend.
@camomom (7535)
• United States
20 Mar 09
In usually say it's a guess to cover all my bases. Or say something like: "if I remember correctly..................."
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Mar 09
That's what I should have done. Never mind. LOL.
@camomom (7535)
• United States
20 Mar 09
Oh well, we all make mistakes.
@zhenghong (179)
• China
20 Mar 09
thank your message , i don't kown how to reply your question i can't.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Mar 09
Thank you.
• China
20 Mar 09
here ,shen yang of china is too late , i don't know where are you but i hnow you there is am . here is evening , bay i am going to bed. see you tomorrow. my friend
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
20 Mar 09
Well, if it is something that happened in my life then from memory but if it didn't I always look it up since I don't have a good memory about things other then me and my family.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Mar 09
I should have done that Becky. But I didn't.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
19 Mar 09
nopes,i am not the one to do researches all the time but i do sometimes-just to clarify some things which seem doubtful to me..but there have been times when i have been caught for shooting my mouth off.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Mar 09
Me too Riyasam. Today was one of those mouth shooting days. LOL.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
20 Mar 09
who did catch you,wheree???
@mummymo (23706)
19 Mar 09
Research? Isn't that like hard work or something???? I respond as best I can from my own mind and if I happen to get something wrong then so be it - none of us are perfect and sh*t happens. I do have a slight problem though I am the one who is supposed to rap your knuckles! Hmmmpppppphhhhh xxxx
@mummymo (23706)
19 Mar 09
Since your knuckles have already been done I better find somewhere else! ..........xxx
@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Mar 09
So true Mummymo. Rap away. LOL. XXXX
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@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
19 Mar 09
Ah, statistics, statistics and more damned statistics! I'm afraid I tend to run off at the mouth quoting things which may or may not be totally accurate - and remember once saying one out of every four people was gay. My four children looked at eachother wondering which of them it was!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Mar 09
Which one was it. Must be a trial being the only happy one out of all four! LOL.
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
19 Mar 09
I know. Shame it wasn't all four of them ...
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
19 Mar 09
i dont research i just type whats in my mind.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Mar 09
That's where I went wrong! LOL.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
19 Mar 09
realy?
@scorpio19 (1363)
19 Mar 09
Depends on what I'm doing p1kef1sh, if it's one of my video tutorials then I research it cos I don't want to appear stupid but if it's on here then there's nowt wrong in guessing or offering a guess...mostly we get away with it looking spectacular but sadly sometimes there's always one amongst us that knows better... what a shame they were on that particular discussion of yours..oh well better luck next time eh!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Mar 09
LOL. Your tutorials are very well managed. It was a discussion that I shouldn't have got into anyway. Politics and American politics at that!
@scorpio19 (1363)
19 Mar 09
oooo-er you will be wise to stay out of that! lol