Do you allow your kids to have piercing anywhere in their bodies?

@Bebs08 (10681)
United States
March 26, 2009 8:45pm CST
I have seen so many teen agers with a lot of piercing in their bodies. In the ears, sometimes 3 piercing, nose,lips,others in the tongue. I don't understand the motive of having too much piercing in the body? They they will put rings in it.. it looks weird to see when they have it in the nose and lips. hahaha it doesn't matter they put 3 on the ears.. but on other parts of the body? that is too weird. If your kids have this piercings anywhere int their bodies, what would be your reaction? do you like it? Me? I don't allow them because it is not good to look at.
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@carann (260)
• United States
28 Mar 09
I really can't say to much to my kids about it because I have some of my own. I am glad they didn't get out of hand with it. Some have done eyebrows. one has three in his lower lip and one on his eyebrow. the piecing type I don't get are the ear plug things. The ones that stretch out the hole in there ear?
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• United States
29 Mar 09
Oh, that ear plug is so gross to look at! It creeps me out when I see one. I think that is the reaction people want when they get one, though.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Ear plug? that I did not see yet.. hahaha that is too much.. Well, it is normal to have piercing in the ear as long as it is only one but if there are lots of it? I feel it weird. For what reason they are wearing lots of earing? I don't understand the point.
@Galena (9110)
27 Mar 09
I wonder why people consider earrings to be so different to other piercings. I'm not into piercing. I almost never wear earrings. (tattoos are more my thing) I don't much like the look of them, but I don't think that's a reason for someone else not to have them. I don't like the look of a tan either, but different people like different things. I actually think that the age limit for ear piercing aught to be the same as for any other body piercing though. after all, it really is no different. and it makes me sad that people think it's okay to body mod their children when they are too young to make that choice themselves. if you wouldn't pierce their eyebrow for your own choice, why do it to their ears? so long as people are old enough to have a piercing, and look after it properly, my opinion is that it's their body, as my body is mine, and we can all do with it whatever we consider to be attractive.
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@Galena (9110)
1 Apr 09
the thing is though, what does it matter if it doesn't look natural. if we were all looking natural, I'd be blonde. I have two tattoos which I love. they don't look natural at all. naturally we don't have pictures or writing on our bodies. but I love them. piercings are not my thing at all, but why should I have ANY say in what other people do to their bodies. any more than I should have a say in what clothes people wear or what music they listen to. we all like different things.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Ah yes, we have freedom to do whatever we want in our bodies but to the point of looking overly decorated and is something unnatural? I think it is not good to do that unless some people want to attract attention. Well, that is just my opinion and I respect yours too.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
27 Mar 09
My daughter and I have already discussed this. She is 5. She was curious about my earrings I have one ear with double holes, and one with a single. I will be getting a second hole in my ear for my birthday.I just had a son. It is the only place I am pierced. After that I won't get anymore. The second set of holes in my ears are for the birthstones of each of my kids. When my daughter is old enough, if she wants, I will pay for her ears to be pierced. But we have discussed being excessive. When she is older and out of the house, she can make her own decisions. Hopefully setting a good example she will find a different manner of self expression.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Oh well, I think having hole int he ear is somewhat natural but why some have 2 or 3 holes in it? am just curious... I could think, maybe they have lots of earings to wear and want to do it all at once? or what is really the point of having lots of hole in the ears instead of one? sorry am just curious... I have one also in my ears when I was younger but now I am not putting earing in it.
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
28 Mar 09
If it was me, I wouldn't let my kids have the piercings everywhere either, I don't think it looks very good. Can't you imagine how hard it would be for them to get a job, some employers might not like that. Its just not for me, I have two holes in each of my ears but thats it, I don't have them anywhere else, I wouldn't even want my nephews to pierce their ears, but so far they haven't asked to do that...haha.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
10 Apr 09
Exactly!!! piercings for me is for the ears only and maybe one in each ear.. but in different parts of the body? that is too much..
• United States
27 Mar 09
Freedom of expression is what i teach my children. However my kids are only 1 and 3. My 3 year old he'll put on some crazy things and run around the house like that and outside but no where in public. Ears is fine but all the others no i dont approve of that. However if my children get to the teen stage they are free to express themselfs but in a good way. None of the Big holes in the ears that is just nasty to me lol but whatever floats others boats but not mine it wont happen. I dont pay a lot of attention to it except when you walk buy someone and you can see right threw there ear or the got one of them nose rings that looks like something a bull would have lol then im just like eww and of course i have to ask them if it hurts HAHA. But thats just my opinion.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
27 Mar 09
hahaha you make me laugh!! nose piercing is like a bull? yeah right!! it looks like.. I don't want my kids to have piercings anywhere but ears.
@Galena (9110)
27 Mar 09
why is ear piercing okay but others not? it's the same.
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• Philippines
27 Mar 09
I don't have any kids yet, but I won't allow them to have body piercing.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Maybe you can allow them with the ear piercing for this is common but to any other parts of the body? that is not just good to look at.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
8 Apr 09
I agree with you. Piercings are usually for women and just one in each ear.. but men? I don;t think they will have piercings? But now? men and women are all alike with differenct piercings in their bodies.
• Philippines
30 Mar 09
Yes! I would definitely allow ear piercing, but only 1 pierce per ear for my would-be daughters, but for my would-be sons, I don't think so.
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@carolscash (9492)
• United States
10 Apr 09
I won't allow my teens to do that until they are 18. Once they turn that age, I feel that it is up to them as to what they should to do to their body. I don't approve of the peircings and I don't think that it is a choice that they should make at a younger age. I think that it is tacky looking. My 18 year old daughter now has her belly button peirced and I don't like it but she is on her own and so I try to not say anything. I believe that some day she will outgrow the "thrill" of it and she will remove it.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
10 Apr 09
I just hope so that you daughter would remove that but I don't think she would specially if her friends are all doing that. She wouldn't want to be different that is always the case.
@blueunicorn (2401)
• United States
29 Mar 09
My kids aren't old enough to have piercings yet, but we already talk about it. They are 6 and 8 years old. I point out how unappealing some of the piercings we see are and ask my kids if they think the people who are being outrageous have great jobs. I know there are some very successful people with piercings, but for the most part I see it as people who do not respect themselves and are trying to get attention in a negative way. I hope my kids pick up on what we are talking about now and find different ways to express themselves when they get older. I'm not sure what my reaction will be if they come home with muliple piercings. I guess we'll have to cross that bridge when we get there. I would rather deal with that than a tattoo, though. I can tell you that much! I got a tattoo when I was 18, and that is one of my biggest regrets ever. I hope my kids don't make the same mistake.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
10 Apr 09
Oh tattoo is more nasty... sorry hahah imagine that drawings in the body? I don't like my children to have that either. I want them to look simple and overly decorated. hahaha
• United States
3 Apr 09
I'm not a fan of piercings at all. My kids won't want any because I'll scare the crap out of them.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
10 Apr 09
Good!! I appreciate you for not allowing your kids to have it because some parents are just ok and they even support their kids in this.
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
Piercing on other parts of the body is quiet weird but in some of the teen agers are very curios to put a pierce which some of us as a parents dont like he out put of it, we only guide them for their best but because of the new generations, they are trying to experiment to their body. In my opinion i dont really like to see my kids with too much pierce on their body especially to the boys, which i dont really like seeing pierce to their nose, ears and in any parts of their body.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Well, we all respect each other's view on this topic. I know there are many who like piercings as there are others also who don't like it. let's just accept each other's opinions about this.. We will not take it something personal because this is just a discussion and everybody is free to say their thoughts.. hahahah I appreciate all your honest response to this topic. For me, I really don't like my kids to have piercings all over their bodies. That's just me, it's up to you whatever you want.
• United States
27 Mar 09
I'm also curious as to why several people on here are very against boys having piercings more than girls. I don't think of piercings to be a gender-related thing in my mind at all. We need to break social and gender stereo-types. And thought I should rant a little more about this topic. Appearence is just that, they way you look, not the measure of who you are..we should treat everyone as if we were blind. I love having piercings because it helps me find the worthwhile people in life. If you don't have respect for me with piercings, just because I look different than you, when I have interacted with you in a respectful way, that says something about the person's character.
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
27 Mar 09
I think whether or not it's "good to look at" is up to personal interpretation. I think a small nose ring can look cute and feminine. Obviously something a little more big or a hoop would look obnoxious, but if I had kids, I would allow them to get this piercing (so long as they only wore small rhinestone studs) at 13 or 14 years old. I wouldn't allow my kid to have any provocative piercings, for obvious reasons - such as tongue, belly button, or anything like that. I would possibly consider letting them get their lip pierced at 16. Piercings are hardly permanent and are a way for teens to express themselves. They can also add a lot to your facial features, especially a small stud in your nose. It also teaches teens about responsibility - and about taking care of themselves. The big problem today is that teens are REBELLIOUS, and a lot of them are learning how to do things themselves when their parents say no. For example, when my mom wouldn't let me get my lip pierced when I was 15, I decided to do it myself with my friends' help. This isn't a good idea, and it could have ended badly - with me getting a blood disease or an infection for unsanity needles. If I was a parent, and I knew my teen was going to be stubborn about it, I'd rather have them get it done professionally in a sanitary environment than have them try to do it themselves, wouldn't you agree? I guess I'm a little biased, though, because I'm 18 years old, and I have about 11 piercings (four on each ear, cartiledge, nose, lip, monroe, and I used to have my septum - and I have a little bit of experience in this field, if you haven't noticed. lol.) I barely wear my piercings, or if I do, I'll wear just a small stud here or there - and I don't think it's weird. It would be hypocritical of me to deny my kids this right, considering I've gotten so much pierced. I think it all depends on how you've grown up and what kind of values/opinions your parents ingrained in you as a teen/adult. My personal opinion is that for the most part, it's OK for your kids to have piercings - so long as it's within reason, not at too young of an age, and that they're responsible about them.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
27 Mar 09
Oh!! you know what? I learned a lot of things in your point of view. Yes, it could be dangerous for kids to do it themselves for they might get infections with the needles they will used. Parents must guide their children to have piercing for the right reason. I respect your opinion but for me? I'd rather have one in the ears.. LOL...not anywhere else.
• United States
27 Mar 09
Bebs- I'm a modded mommy so I don't think there's any piercing that is "wrong" or "weird". However, the care involved with certain piercings would cause me to have my children wait on some of them. The naval takes a good amount of time to heal and it must be cleaned a great many times per day. This isn't a piercing that one too young should have because they aren't responsible enough to care for it. I don't have any issues with the nose as the healing time is fairly short-about 4-8 weeks. The tongue and lip can wait until their old enough to know how to care for them. As for myself, I have my naval piercied, both nostrils, my tregus, and both ears are gauged to almost 1-inch. Happy Mylotting. Namaste-Anora
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Well, there;s no wrong with piercing as long as it is in the right place like the ears which is the common place but anywhere else in the body? it is not neat to me.. It might make me uncomfortable. I respect your views but when it comes to me and my personal views? I don't like it.
• United States
30 Mar 09
So, don't do it if you're not comfortable. But don't dictate what others should do. Just because someone has lots of piercings or tattoos doesn't make them bad people, or less of a person. That's the sad misconception about people in the modded community. Namaste-Anora
@cieldz (709)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 09
hahaha... i have 5 piercings in my left ears, and i still wanna add them until 9 piercings... but i only have 1 piercing in my right ear... as a teen too, i love piercings... =)
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
10 Apr 09
Oh really? you have 5 and you want to have 9? hahah am just curious why you like that many?
5 Apr 09
i had by belly button pierced at 15, and i have not regreted it scince, i think from 14 onwards children should be allowed to decide what they want pierced. they only live once? let them get on with it.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
10 Apr 09
well, 14 is still underage,, maybe 18 and that is the legal age where teen agers would be free to do what they want but still they need the parents' guidance.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
27 Mar 09
i think it depends upon the culture.i donot think my kids will do so but i wouldnt allow them as long as they are with me.maybe they so because of peer presure from friends and also their own insecurity.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
29 Mar 09
correct!! I agree with that. Some kids are just pressured by peers and the parents can not do anything about it even if they don't like it. And that is also true, it depends upon the culture but for us which is not our culture and we can see young people like a bull? hahahah it makes me feel bad.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
27 Mar 09
Hi Bebs, I have the same idea, I will not allow my kids if ever I will have to have those piercings..Not my type!
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Hi Che, Not mine either. I don't like to see my kids with lots of piercings in their bodies.. that's just us.
@freedomg (1684)
• United States
28 Mar 09
My daughter has a second hole but other than that there is a big NO WAY in this house. It is more of a "how do you expect to get a job looking like that" thing for us. Kids these days want to "gauge" their ears which is where they stretch the hole and put big holes in their lips and then when they grow up and want/need jobs they find out that no one wants to hire some one that looks like that.So we are saving them the surprise by simply telling them that as long as they live with us the ear is it and no more than 2 holes(that part is for protection from infection).
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
10 Apr 09
I agree with you. Most teen agers who are doing this are looking at the rock stars who are having this style.
• Singapore
27 Mar 09
Of course i won't feels kinda gay when they pierce it, but what to do. Kids nowadays is free to do what they want, don't know how their parents feels bout it.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
29 Mar 09
maybe some parents don't like it but they can not do anything about it too. There are others also who allow their kids to do that because when they are young they also did it and they think it is cool to have it.. hahahaha
@rainmark (4302)
27 Mar 09
For me, i maybe allow my son to put body piercing as long as it's too much. For some people it doesn't look nice but for the other is an art and expression of themselves. Aside from that why i will allow my kids for piercing is you can take it off anytime and small piercing doesn't look dirty.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Yes I know that.. some people t look nice to have lots of piercings hahaha OBVIOUSLY because many are doing it. But then, there are still others who don;t like it. For me? I personally don't like it.
@iridium (431)
28 Mar 09
i don;t like the multiple ones in the ear but thats just a personal preference. I have my ears pierced once and i got bored one night and did my navel. i probably would have more done but i'm a bit shy about showing my body to strangers top get anything done!
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
29 Mar 09
hahaha that is funny!! just because you are bored you add another piercing on your body? that's interesting hahaha..