Do you stare at other hot girl or guys even your g/f or b/f is by your side?

@ktosea (2027)
China
March 27, 2009 2:16am CST
I sometimes do if I am in good mood,my g/f noticed that for several times and she is not happy with that.but sometime she reminds me to see the hot girls if I ignored.it's a little funny haha...I think it means nothing, what is your situation and how do you think of this?
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@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
27 Mar 09
Hello ktosea! I understand your girlfriend..hehehe..I won't be happy too and if ever my husband will look at those hot girls, he will be in trouble. I will look at him as if saying, watch out at home..lol.. I don't actually look at other guys aside from my husband. I mean, accidentally we can look at them because we have eyes but I won't have a second look. You know what I'm saying?
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@ktosea (2027)
• China
27 Mar 09
yeah,totally understand what you are saying,haha...you are a little too strict to your boyfriend,I will allow my g/f to see the other guys haha...it's enjoyable for your eyes
• United States
27 Mar 09
hehehe..another playboy on the road..lol
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@nobzbiz (16)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 09
Haha..i'm just like you..Everytime i stare at other hot girl, my girl hits me..just for remind me not to stare..:) She never remind me to look for hot girls,though..
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@ktosea (2027)
• China
2 Apr 09
ok,that's normal I guess,hardly girls remind their boy friends to look for the hot girls
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
I do stare if there's a guy who really catches my attention. But there's nothing wrong with that even with girls i really love to stare. Just admiring the beauty that's in front of me LOL.
@ktosea (2027)
• China
27 Mar 09
haha..that's funny.girls are just like guys on this
@CMTS_87 (1342)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
haha! yes! i'm guilty!
@ktosea (2027)
• China
27 Mar 09
Haha...that's ok,it's just a normal behavior I think
• China
27 Mar 09
To myself the answer is that sometimes I will.But to my boyfriend,he always does that,even his behavior hurt me.I joked with him,can't you see other beautiful girls when I was behind you?he answer me perfunctorily.Next time he will continue watching other girls.I have been accustomed to his behavior.That's ok as long as he doesn't make aberrant behavior.
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@ktosea (2027)
• China
27 Mar 09
haha..I also heard a story from my friend,that one day they went out and he saw a very beautiful girls passed by,he couldn't stop but staring at the beautiful girl,his g/f just noticed that and become mad at him,he finally realised the anger of his g/f but calm down soon,he said" I am just think how beautiful you are if you wear the skirt"....
• India
27 Mar 09
Hi lotter yeah of course and even my partner is allowe to do that ,coz there is no harm in staring ,i mean if any thing is noticeably good we will look at it ,its natural. :)haooy my lotting
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@ktosea (2027)
• China
27 Mar 09
thanks,I am with you
@lingzi (568)
• China
27 Mar 09
hi,ktosea,interesting topic. sometimes i would stare at other man who is handsome,but my husband never if i am by his side. just like you said,i will remind he to see some hot girl,but that different from his staring by himself.
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@ktosea (2027)
• China
27 Mar 09
haha...you are a cool woman.one of my female colleague told me that she is not fond of seeing the hot guys,don't know if she is ironic or just faked. thanks for the response,lingzi
• Malaysia
27 Mar 09
It is normal to have a roving eyes even when your partner is by your side. We are attracted to beauty and admiring someone that draws our attention only tells us that we do not have a heart of stone. Our hearts are fragile and it send the message to our eyes to look just for eye-washing but not to fall flat on a hot chick.
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@ktosea (2027)
• China
27 Mar 09
yeah,I also think it's normal to be attracted to beauty and something special thanks for your comment
@larish (2196)
• Philippines
23 May 09
Yes, I still stare even if I am with my hubby.lol. I even ask my bf (now my hubby) to look at it. So , in short we both stare at the same subject for a few seconds admiring them. lol
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@soulist (2987)
• United States
1 Apr 09
I do not look at other men when I am with my boyfriend. Sure I will notice when a good looking man will walk past and he will notice a good looking woman, but I think that is human nature. I don't stare and so far he hasn't either.
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
I must admit, I easily get attracted with those hunk type of guys. I mean, look at those hot bodies. I mean, C'mon!!! Who in the world a girl won't have that second look??! And admit it guys!! You do it too! You do it even more than girls do! Well, God created our beautiful eyes to appreciate all the good things in this world, and looking at good looking people is one of them. Staring isn't bad, especially if you find something attractive, that means you like the view and you appreciate it. But in this case, if I'm with my man and a hot guy passes by, I guess I would look at him.. And will tell my man like, "Boo, he's hot!" and add... "But you are more hot to me!" and give him a good smooch! So there he knows I appreciate the view, but I appreciate more of his view. As long as you give the assurance to your loved one no matter how many hotties will pass your way, he/she will be the best and only hottie for you! You know how that feeling feels... I hope some passive guys out there, can be a little more sensitive of their girls' feelings..
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@srganesh (6349)
• India
27 Mar 09
It is natural for humans to appreciate beauty and that will not be an alarming fault unless we take steps to develop extramarital affairs.If it is not like that,then how comes those celebrities we admire and cheer for them?And we should not feel offended if the girls too look at good looking boys.Cheers!
@sharone74 (4839)
• United States
5 Jun 09
I don't stare at anyone, whether onr not my old man is with me at the time. I do look and I am also permissive of my man looking at whatever interests him. A rich fantasy life is one of the main staples of a healthy relationship. One shouldn't be so jealous of others that they can't intellectuallize the fact that people will look from time to time. As I have always said, it is fine to look at the menu, as long as you already know and have what you want in a partner, it won't go past the initial look. In order to love someone a lot of people tend to forget that they also have to learn to trust that someone. Let them look, it's not going to hurt your relationship if what you have is strong. If it is not then it is better to find out earlyon and move on to someone who only has eyes for you
@soulist (2987)
• United States
1 Jun 09
I don't stare at another when my boyfriend is sitting next to me. If I notice a cute guy I will look,but not like stare at him. Everyone looks at someone attractive right? It is only human nature to notice someone you find handsome or beautiful.