At times women are more dangerous than a lion...

@krajibg (11923)
Guwahati, India
March 27, 2009 4:21am CST
Usually most women are bashful and docile and they do not wish to create any scene unnecessarily. Even they undergo the torture of the husbands and the in –laws they suspend their feelings. They even do not raise their voice of protest even when they are right. But there is a limit of every thing. Not all but some women are there who could be more dangerous than a lioness and a cobra. They can, if need be, kill their victims regardless to the consequence. This is the women power. And in such cases women get protection by the law more than a man does. Should all women be of this nature that they are not victimised and used their prowess?
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 09
Hi Rajib, I think men spend a lifetime denying, defending against, trying to control, and reacting to the power of women. Women a threat? more dangerous? how? Be clear! I think men should look at the factors that cause women to be violent and considered dangerous. We must assume, as they say about computers, "Garbage in, garbage out" Violence in, violence out. Women become violent because of the systematic violence done to their bodies and spirits. Being hurt they become hurters. So I cannot deny that women are legitimate candidates for systematic slaughterer. Women have the bitterness that they must speak.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
4 Apr 09
Hi zabdi, Thats what I was reflecting upon. This is the fear that the males try to dominate the female species. But the counterpart remained marooned and the upper hand went to the men. Very nice elaboration. Thanks a lot for the response.
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@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
27 Mar 09
i agree with you ,at times women act like a lion. despair came to them or got a big hurt.i could understand that.but i don't like some women who are easy to be mad like a lion.it is really dangerous like a bomb,you never know when she will get mad .
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
Ye you are right the lioness should wake up at the right cause and reason. Thanks a lot for the response.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 Mar 09
yes like me....i am dangerous than a lion because i could be a devil
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 Mar 09
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
wow ! you are more than a 'devil' m Better be careful from now on.
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• India
4 Apr 09
Hello my friend Rajib ji, yesterday was only Ram-navami, and we preyed Durga/and various Shakti, whose Chairot is Lion. They are more than Lion. Only they need some injection.
• India
11 Apr 09
Hello my friend Rajib ji, So nice of you for your soothing positive comments. Enjoy. May God bless You and have a great time.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
4 Apr 09
Ha ha that u=is the funniest thing. Thank you very much for responding.
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@neha2k94u (406)
• India
29 Mar 09
What I feel is, all that you are talking about was a thing in the past, today no women would be so calm and quiet, to listen to somebody and suspend their feelings this way... And "It takes all to make the world" so every women I dont think should be like this... Have a nice time!!!
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
29 Mar 09
Neha, you have seen only one pert of the world. Have you sen the other part of the world? If had you would not say so.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
2 Apr 09
Yes, that ration has come down. I agree to this point.
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• India
29 Mar 09
I dont feel I haven't seen every part of this world, I haven't felt such a thing happening nowadays...And thats y said so...
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@Archie0 (5636)
27 Mar 09
Lol yes i agree women are dangerous than lions, because it is not good to be quite for a husband who is just not worth of it..I think till she does not show what she is actually the man will go one doing his non sense stuffs, just to show how powerfull he is..I dont think he is because his is trying it to the person who is not at all intrested in action. I agree with my friend who calls her husband a chimpanzee who jumps for no reason of excitment sometimes..
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
28 Mar 09
Chimpanzee? ha ha ha ! Funny. But I have seen the woman power. Once I saw a woman lifting her drunken husband up with her right arm in the air and thudding him down the floor. It was a real fiery anger she had developed I guess. Thanks for responding
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
4 Apr 09
I don't think it's right to hurt anybody, whatever age, gender, position etc someone is. We all have the will to survive in us. Only not everyone realize this and some people think they deserve being hurt physically or emotionally so they never say or do anything about it. I used to be like that when I was young. My mother told me to give in because that's what a woman does, especially in relationship. Fortunately I thought it was ridiculous and up to now I still think it is. I don't necessarily fight back unfairness and lies, but I certainly don't let people get away with it. I keep my eye on the prize and nothing can stop me from reaching it. I was hurt and lied to quite a few times by female friends or men I had crushes with. One of them cost me my job. And yet I kept looking for the man I wanted to marry. I found him and married him, 8 yrs going strong. I can't imagine how my life will be if I follow what my mother said about giving in. My husband is by no means my slave, but I am not his either. My mother belongs to an old tradition, this tradition is good in a way that women don't go sleeping around, throw their babies in the garbage bin, seducing married man etc. But this tradition doesn't see women as human beings that are able to achieve what men achieve. Which doesn't make sense. men and women are both human beings anyway.
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
5 Apr 09
I see. I was venting and got out of context. oopss!
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
4 Apr 09
Hi LittleMel! What you have brought for this true but I feel there is a little misunderstanding between the topic content and what you came up with. My take was, women have been a martyr since time immemorial and men have had an upper hand on them and they went on being belittled both physically and emotionally. Hence when women in certain circumstance get frustrated and desperate they could be stronger than the powerful(?) men. Thanks for igniting the discussion.
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@dvmurphy (326)
• United States
30 Mar 09
In nature the female is usually the hunter, the more agressive of the species. I am a woman and I admit that I am usually a lot quicker to react than a man. Women are usually more emotional and emotions can be explosive. As for docile and bashful, what country are you talking about? I am American and most women here are outspoken, sometimes even confrontational if angry. I agree though that women can and do get unfair treatment in cases of the law. A woman just has to have the right complaint and the man goes to jail for abuse and can even do prison time if the woman keeps filing complaints against him and cops arrest him. I have seen this first hand and it isn't right but unfortunately it does happen. My brothe lived with a woman who cheated on him while he worked two jobs, she did not work. He raised her kids, provided their home, clothes and meals. She would get mad at him and call the law and the cops would make my brother come and stay at my house or he was going to jail for domestic disturbance. It was his house but they always made him leave intead of her. They weren't even married!
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
2 Apr 09
Great. I was tali=king of the Women of the Indian subcontinent and the middle Est Asia. And Aarika too is not an exception. Hence Mere the US can represent the whole women kind. And one thing it is the males who are emotionally weaker not women. Thanks for responding.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
2 Apr 09
sorry a typo - "tele king" should have been the tales of...
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
27 Mar 09
I believe a woman should stand up for herself. You certainly aren't describing women from my country! That is how women here used to be. For the most part, we don't put up with abuse from our husbands and in-laws but we do try to be tactful and keep the peace. I think you'll see a woman at her most dangerous when her child is threatened. Unfortunately, that instinct is disappearing here.
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@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
27 Mar 09
Well put, dragon! Just to add, I am the mommy of 2. I still have the protect the babies at all cost instinct. It hasn't totally vanished here
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
You are right. The perspective that I had on this part of the globe where women are still subjected to torture and punishment. It is not only a child issue once a woman cut her hubby's organ into pieces as he would sexually abuse her.
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@TessWhite (3146)
• United States
27 Mar 09
LOL Maybe in your country women are bashful, docile and don't protest even when they are right. And thats a shame. Thankfully in my country that isn't the case. I'm equal to any man. And have no problem whatsoever speaking up when I feel I need to. As for killing victims? The only time I would of course is if I was protecting myself or my loved ones. And then you bet I would. But then my star sign is Leo. LOL So guess thats the lioness in me.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
Does the sign Leo has anything to do with female strength?
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@Archie0 (5636)
27 Mar 09
you are right
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
28 Mar 09
Most of the time women are more strong mentally than a man usually is. You could see these days, a man only does work at office but a woman, she works at home as well as office too, it shows she is stronger than a man. So, if that mind gets into bad thoughts, she might definitely gets more dangerous!
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
29 Mar 09
It is a battle of mind and physical strenght. This shows that eyes can't see everything!
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
28 Mar 09
Yes, that is the right point you made. Women might look weake apparently but they are more powerful at times. thanks for sharing.
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@bamrahkirti (1821)
• India
27 Mar 09
It is the inherent nature of female species to be calm,composed and patient .God has created woman with these qualities because it is she who bears the pain of labor and give birth to new life as it needs lot of perseverance and patience. In olden times women were not very liberated and were treated like a piece of furniture in Indian society.They did not have their say even in simple decisions of life and they had to keep quiet all the time. But as the time is changing ,thanks to education and media ,woman of today has been liberated and she does oppose if somebody tries to cross the limits .Then she acts as a lion and she has the very right to act in her self defense.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
Yes, bahrahkirti, you have said the true story. A long struggle the women folks have had before they really reached this stage but still lots of junks are to be removed. Thanks a lot.
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@sandymay48 (2030)
• Canada
27 Mar 09
Hi Rajib...Thats where the phrase came about..'Thou has no scorn like a womans fury"...and how true that is. Like anyone else, there are all different types of women out there. There are docile ones who give and give and never receive anything but abuse in return. It becomes a learned way of living and they accept it. At one time, I was one of those also. But not now. There is the other type of woman who is very confident and will take no criticism from anyone. One where power has gone to their hairdo.. Well, thats not really me either. Some with too much power can over do it too. A woman should be confident, kind and polite but know when to draw the line and stand up for herself too. Thats me!
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
28 Mar 09
Hi Sandi! how well put! I am impressed. Yes she should be all female but should know where to draw the line and where to stand up for herself. Very balanced spoken. Thanks for sharing your views.
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@CMTS_87 (1339)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
One thing is for sure, we need to respect women. We need to promote equality among us to avoid subjection and marginalization.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
Yes you are 10% right.
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• India
29 Mar 09
well I Am not so sure about the woman being more dangerous than a lioness. I mean if a woman gets angry, the most she can do is fight, scream, quarrel. But if a man gets outta control, they get physical and that hurts the woman. Now here i am not suggesting that all men get angry and get physical, but the level to which it can go to. I know all men are not the same and so are woman. They are not all the same. I have seen woman with such a melting and soft heart that they can bear any sort of situations, while i have seen woman who would be outraged for the least detail.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
29 Mar 09
In my view this is the tag women bear that they are bearable and should bear and with this mentality they go on getting kicked and bullied by the creatures called men and therefore now women are getting more aggressive and at times could reach any height. This is what I wanted to say.
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@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
Endurance. Most women have it. But I like women who will be angry when there is a need, to cry if there is a need, but not the crazy women at all. It is not good for someone not to get angry because she can suppress her feelings and then when its full it will burst. At least you can control and that you can show your true emotions.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
2 Apr 09
Correct and now can see some visible changes taking place and this is a good sign indeed.
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• United States
28 Mar 09
I don't think anyone should allow him/herself to be victimized. If you're physically weaker that the one victimizing you, you're going to have to be more clever and figure out a way to get the advantage, even getting the police involved if you have to.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
29 Mar 09
That is the point it is very difficult to match the theory with the practice. Thanks for sharing.
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• Netherlands
28 Mar 09
Well speaking as a woman, as a general rule, I try to conduct myself in a womanly fashion but there is no way I would let anyone take advantage of me and yes I can be Very dangerous, I think that it is probably inbred in a woman but not every woman chooses to show it. But I think that both women and men should strike out if there is something that is not right...how else would things ever get fixed?
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
29 Mar 09
The problem lies there only that most women do not wish to show their huts for one or the other reasons. Thanks for sharing
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• United States
11 Apr 09
I think it depends upon the circumstances. I think that because our society has taught women for centuries to simply shut up and put up that women have been victimized because of that notion. For me, it was the Christian church that told me it was ok for my first husband to abuse me. I think after that, I did become a bit of a Cobra, striking out harshly at anything I perceived as an injustice. Over the years of healing I've learned to be wary like the lioness, but to know when to fight and when to walk away. For some women, this takes time, for some they seem born with it. I do not think the laws protect women more then men, but like anything sometimes there are flaws. All we can do is strive to have better laws, better protections for everyone. Namaste-Anora
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
11 Apr 09
Wow that is a fantastic way to express the prows of womanhood. Thanks Anora.
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@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
29 Mar 09
All women have the potential to be of this nature, in my opinion. It would be a matter of circumstances. They are more protected by law, but as time goes by that protection is getting less and less due to universal suffrage. Some have not had a what they consider a good enough reason to become that dangerous and that is why I think they could still be considered "docile". I personally, do my best to just not test the bounds that one can be pushed and treat them all equally and with respect. But this conversation isn't about me. It is a bout whether or not they should all be that way, and the answer is they are at times.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
29 Mar 09
Yes, very well said. The male domination has not ceased to exist and women are still in the bake yards and this possibly pulls them to be like that at times if not always. Thanks a lot for sharing.
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