Do you love your children the same?

@Tushavi (2077)
Karachi, Pakistan
May 1, 2009 1:51pm CST
hi to all Well, Is it normal or unusual that a mother or father likes one child better? Do you love your children the same? If not for what reason? similarities? behavior? or whatever your reason it is.. If you like one of your children better and one less do you feel bad about that or is it just human in your opinion? have a nice day.
8 responses
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
20 Jun 09
I think all parents love their children equally but they may like one more than another. For example, a parent can have a child that is in jail and done some bad things and they may be very angry at what they did but if they found out that kid needed a kidney or something, you know they would be first in line to donate one.
@dozhou (326)
• United States
20 Jun 09
It is not easy to treat people equally, even your kids. I have two daughters, the older one is nicer than the younger one. I should say I pay much attention to the older one. I don't feel bad about it, but I never let them notice the difference.
@rapolu_cs (1184)
• India
19 Jun 09
I love my children equally and never shows any differences between them i never want to as i believe kids get spoiled and develops the egosim on each other and this may ruin there good relations among them and even with the paents.
@kezabelle (2974)
2 May 09
I love them equally they both hold the exact same place in my heart but for different reasons, there is little things that are different about each of my children that I adore, I love them simply because they are my children so of course i love them the same, I do however i like different parts about each of their characters in different ways because they are so different my love for them is equal though!
• United States
17 May 09
I love both of my children equal...Ones no better than the other.I treat them fairly. However my family treats my oldest better than they do my youngest. I dont like it and i do confront them all when it happens. Because the fact is if you treat one differently then you do the other ,They one you treat better is going to think its okay to do it to everyone and its not and i surely dont want either one to grow up thinking they are better than someone else when they arent. However a lot of families do treat there children differently but i just dont agree with it at all but that is my opinion.
@chastity7 (104)
• United States
3 May 09
I love all my children equally, but for different reasons. they are all unique and individual and they give me different reasons to love and adore them, but as far as loving one or the other more, absolutely not. I don't know how any one could love one more or less than the others, it wouldn't be fair to any of them. but maybe some people do, I don't know.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
1 May 09
I absolutely love my kids equally BUT for different reasons since they are different ppl with different personaliteis, qualities and so on...but yes of course I love my kids equally.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
1 May 09
I love all of my children equally but, as has already been mentioned, there are different things that make each one special and unique. There would be a big hole in my life if any one of them were no longer here.