Will you leave your partner should he / she has no capacity to bear a child?

I would never leave him because of an issue like this. What if it were me in his place? Would I want my partner to walk away? No! I would in fact be even more supportive of him and would talk to him about adopting children. There are so many children born into this world, who don't get the love they deserve. That is where my focus would go next. Happy myLotting! Nice topic.

In the first place you married your spouse because you love him or her and will spend the rest of your life with him/her. It does not mean that if he is infertile, you will sin and sleep with someone so that you can have what you have and that is called selfishness. A member here said that if you were in his shoe and you are the one who is having a problem on being infertile, would your hubby leave you for that, of course no. That is why both of you should talk and ask yourself if you will want to adopt a child which is not your own blood. It depends if you have a relative who would consider being adopted by you. But then again, think if you can handle the responsibility. I know that most of us do wanted to feel of how to become a mother too and have a family of our own. Leaving our spouse will never be the solution to such problem.

i have a hormonal imbalance. meaning i have irregular menstruation. so its either i can have a child or not. but my fiance/boyfriend accepted me of who and what i can only give him. and i hope that would be forever. its not easy to accept it but i have too. thats my illness that still i am trying to overcome. jhelai

To leave your parter only because he/ she has no capacity to bear a child? I think it's ridiculous. Though I'm single, I believe people step into marriage for love, not for producing a child. If I left my partner, the only reason would be love was gone. In the case you describe, I would choose to adopt children or produce children by artificial insemination. I think every problem occurred in marriage will eventually get solved as long as the couple are in true love.

Well, I'm the female in the relationship, so I don't think I'm going to leave my husband just because he can't have a kid! Lol. It's not his fault, really. :P But, no, my husband wouldn't leave if I couldn't have a kid. We would just adopt. In fact, we plan on adopting at least one child as it is, anyway, because I like the idea of giving a good home to a child that needs it. My father did that for me and I want to pass that care on and give someone else the chance to experience a loving family. :)

I lost my father at a very tender age. Due to this trauma, I feel a strong desire to have a fairly large family and to excel at parenting. In a nutshell, the number one thing I want in life is a family. If my partner couldn't provide me with children of my own I would be just fine with adopting. Would it provide the same pleasure as having children of my own? I'm not sure. But if it's one thing I've learned over the course of my life it's that blood isn't the most important thing in the world to put stock by.

I can honestly say I would not have left my husband if we couldnt have had children. We love each other and that is what marriage is about in my eyes. It shouldnt be just to reproduce. I think we would have just enjoyed each other and gone on with our lives. We enjoy each other and love each other. Besides there are so many different options if you really want a child and cant have one.

I would not leave my partner as I would not expect them to do this to me. I have always been fond of the idea of adoption so being able to fall back on this would not be considered a bad thing.

I don't want any children, so this wouldn't be much of an issue for me. I am trying to get my wife to have her tubes tied so that we do not have to worry about it anymore. With all the adoption, sperm donors, and surrogate mother programs available, it would take a pretty shallow person to leave their mate simply because they can not have a child or father a child.

It is very painful not to have a kid of your own blood and flesh. But, I will never leave my husband for that reason. I can even adopt a child. I love my husband for the caring and love he shows to me and I want it to continue. I give importance to his love and the happiness of being together than teh ability to have a child.

Bearing a child is important, it is very important to every women but some are not able to bear even one child and even some of the men can't too. But this is not a problem if they do love each other. In a relationship what's important is how you love each other and if they do really love each other then they accept them for what or who they are. =D

i will not leave him , there are a lot of options that we can do to have a baby. I love him for who he was and i will stick to him no matter what. We can adopt babies or have AI as long as we agree on which one is better for both of us. Its another thing if he just dont want to, which i think i should know even before we get intimate into our relationship. Its one thing to be incapable of having a baby and another thing of not wanting to get tied-up of having kids.

no, i will stick it out with him after all what if im the one in that situation? of course i would not want to be left behind because of something like that.

I want to have children eventually and, while I would adopt if I had to, I love the idea having my own children if I can. However, if I found out my husband couldn't have children, I certainly wouldn't leave him. I love him and we'd find a way to have a family, one way or the other. The only instance that I'd even consider leaving my husband over something like that is if he knew he was sterile the entire time we were together and kept it from me so I wouldn't leave. Lying about it while knowing I want a family could be unforgiveable, but even then I'd try to work it out.

If having my own biological children were my main purpose of life (which it isn't) then yes I would have to leave. Life is too short not to try and get the things that you want out of it. If I really wanted children that badly then I would have to know ahead of time that any potential mate I have would have to be able to produce a child.

to be honest,i like child very much,i always dream of my partner could bear a child one day.but if she really have no capacity to give birth,i think i won't leave her.because i know,i love child,but i love my partner more.

Hello there chikadee. I won't leave my partner if this happens. I think that being honest is good, but if the reason is because of being scared of being fat, I think that is a psychological barrier which can be surpassed with time. There are people whom have children but having not much of an interest and it's kind of sad to see these children neglected. I'd say no matter what the reasons are, if one is ready to have a child, then one will go all the way. And if one doesn't like, they will not do anything. Like they say, 'where there's a will, there's a way'. Happy mylotting to you..

If my partner has no capacity to bear a child and I know it will present a whole new problem. If I really love my partner then I will understand. Maybe we can adopt some baby from the orphanage.

In my opinion No, I won't leave my partner if she can't bear a child. It is not the real meaning of love. If you really love a person then you can accept what she can and what she can't.

i will NEVER leave him just for this! i didn't marry him just to have a child, yes a child will make a couple's life complete and adds life to a couple's relationship, but it is not the only thing that makes up a relationship...i marry him because i love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him...by marrying him i accept everything...his strengths and even his weaknesses...now, if i found out that he is not capable of giving me a baby...well its really a sad truth but it should not be a reason to leave him...he didn't want it either...its something that we didn't control...what he needs is a support from us as his wife, his partner...and besides there still more option if you really want to have a baby(how about an adoption?...just discuss this with your husband... and he'll sure understands. have a nice day!