Do you mind taking a bath or shower together with your spouse?

Jacuzzi bathtub - Our dream bathroom is to have a jacuzzi bathtub =)
@thhoon72 (1010)
Singapore
July 2, 2009 1:23am CST
Hello there, just wondering what do you guys think about taking a bath or shower together with your spouse? I mean really bath and shower....and nothing else....=)) I sometimes do take a shower or bath with my spouse, maybe once or twice in a month. The feeling of scrubbing each other's back is so-oo-oo wonderful and we had lots of fun splashing water at each other and washing each other's hair. Would love to hear what you guys think. Cheers o
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@jambi462 (4601)
• United States
13 Aug 09
Yes I personally love taking a shower with my girlfriend and I find it very sensual and I love the feeling of our skin touching together in the shower. It feels good and I think that we should all enjoy it. I would like to take a bath with my partner as well but our bath tub is too small. Maybe one day it will happen though.
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@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
14 Aug 09
Hello there, I am very happy to hear that you enjoy taking a shower with your girlfriend. It is also my dream to have a big bath tub with jacucci so that my hubby and myself will be able to use the bath tub together. Cheer =)0
@Ithink (1973)
• United States
3 Jul 09
We personally like it although with the size of our shower it is hard along with having a 2 year old in the house it doesnt happen often. I love the feel of him washing my hair and my back. I think I like it more then him! LOL! I love my scalp being messaged as it is and my back rubbed it is heaven! He is hoping to get a hmm what do you call the tubs that spew bubbles? LOL! Whatever that is that is what he wants to get when he builds on our master bathroom.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
3 Jul 09
I can understand what you are saying cos my shower area is not that big either. Also, my daughters will come and look for me if I am in the shower for more than 15 mins. That is why i bath with my hubby only once or twice a month during weekend or holiday when our daughters are statying with my parents. That is why I always encourage young couple without kids to fully enjoy and treasure their time together. The tub that spew bubbles is called a jacuzzi which I attached in my photo. It is also our dream to get this.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
4 Jul 09
O, I definitly can understand how you feel. It will be good to be able to spend some time with your husband without worrying that your kids will crash into the room anytime. I am lucky that my parents are very willing to have my daughters to stay overnight with them some day. Cheers =))
@Ithink (1973)
• United States
4 Jul 09
Yes you are very lucky! Mine will take an older one now, one at a time sometimes but we still have our 2 year old then. Not that we want to get rid of them all the time but once in awhile would be nice while we get to stay at home instead of being on a trip. *sigh* Enjoy your time alone!
@indahfth (11177)
• Indonesia
11 Jul 09
I have not had a bath together with my husband. especially now our relationship is not harmonious. to eat with us is very difficult, especially for the bath together.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
11 Jul 09
Hello there, it always saddened me when a relationship between a husband and wife is not harmonious or turns sour. This is because I always believe that in the beginning it is already very difficult to find each other and then to get married. I wish that you and your husband will be happy again. Have a great weekend ahead =))
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@indahfth (11177)
• Indonesia
11 Jul 09
thanks. Our situation is very complex and probably forever will be like this. my husband is very difficult to start to discuss our problems.
@zed_k4 (17641)
• Singapore
4 Jul 09
I believe singles could answer this discussion as well.. If you ask me for an opinion on this, I'd say it's a good way to keep the existing relationship of a husband and wife closer than it already is. It's a great way to bond together in terms of chemistry and making the couple more closer, I would think. It would be great to try this out in future when my time comes.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
4 Jul 09
Hihi =)) I am quite sure that you will definitely enjoy it with your future girlfriend or spouse. Do remember to try it out o
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@zed_k4 (17641)
• Singapore
6 Jul 09
Thanks, my friend..
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
My husband and I usually sit on a bath under a running warm shower just rubbing each other's backs and feeling the quiet moment together with only the sound of water falling on our heads. It makes us feel so relaxed and feel as if all our worries are being washed away... Afterwards, we towel each other and snuggle up in a cozy embrace just chilling out.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
2 Jul 09
Hihi =) From your response, you clearly enjoy bathing with your husband. You can also feel that the bonding between you and your husband will grow stronger. For my case, it is always full of laughters and giggles when we bath together. We sometimes even blow soap bubbles at each other and make punky hair styles with our wet shampooed hair. Cheers o
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
Thank you... it has been that way for the last 6 years! The funny thing about it is that we don't talk about it, it just occurred naturally... I am sure this relationship will last because it is based on something deep and meaningful... I hope you guys have the same. =)
@lwy519 (159)
• China
2 Jul 09
Thet will be nice,for one thing it can save water and then save money,for another,it can make you two more and more pally.why not?
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
2 Jul 09
Hello Iwy519, I totally agrred with you on saving water and money when bathing together....hahaha..... Of cos, I think that bathing or showering together will improve our relationship as well.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
3 Jul 09
Yes yes, sometimes while scrubbing each other backs, my hubby would suddenly popped out questions related to you daughters or his work. A bit out of place though.....
• China
29 Jul 09
I love to do this with my bf, so does him. Ususally we play with water, or I rub his feet to make a prank with him, what i enjoy the most is that when we finish the shower or bath, my bf always dries me up and then puts the cream on me.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
30 Jul 09
Hello there, it looks like the two of you are having so much fun together. Yes, indeed I also enjoy playing with my hubby during our shower together. Thanks for your response, dear =))
@nehaagra (849)
• Singapore
13 Jul 09
Yep we love to have shower together,whenever we have a leisure time. Mostly my hubby, whenever we have chance he will defianately pop in. But yep i must admit this too, it mostly leads to... :)
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
13 Jul 09
Kekeke..... =)) My hubby would also not hesitate to join me for my shower if given a chance. But we can only do it when our daughters are staying at my parent's house during weekends and only once or twice a month. Cheers o
• United States
12 Jul 09
I didn't mind it when we lived in our apartment the shower was big enough for two. But now that we have a house with a smaller bath area and we have 3 kids it can be hard to even attempt to do such things anymore. Hopefully when they are bigger and more independant we will be able to sneak in some of those lil things we did before we were parents.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
13 Jul 09
Hihi =)) Yes, becoming a parent has totally changed my lifestyle with my hubby too. That is why we can only enjoy our little time together once or twice a month when I let my daughters stay at my parent's place. Take care and best of luck =))
• United States
11 Jul 09
I bathe alone. I wouldn't want to share a shower because it woouldn't just be a shower.I don't like baths, I prefer to get in and get out quickly.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
12 Jul 09
Hello there, thanks for your response. Different people got different views about taking a shower. Some people take it as a treat and will spend quite some time taking their shower. Others like you take it as a necessity and just get it over done with. Cheers =))
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@airakumar (1556)
• India
9 Jul 09
I think there is nothing bad in it. Taking a bath with the spouse is just like heaven on earth. I really love it wondering taking a bath together ;-) It not only increase our love and excitement for each others concerns but also give you a soothing effect. You will feel so much pampered and relaxed. Yes, splashing water at each other and so on.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
9 Jul 09
Hello there, I am gald that you like the idea of taking a bath or shower with your spouse. Indeed, you can pamper each other and also have so much fun exploring each other. Unknowingly, our bonding and lover become stronger. Thanks for your response =)
• Finland
5 Jul 09
You should allways jump in the shower when your spouse id there. At the vety least you get clean. And all the scubbing and rubbing that is going one there. can lead to that "something else" whatever type of something elese you are into there thhoon72 :P
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
5 Jul 09
Hahah.....you bet my spouse would always welcome me to share a bath with him anytime anyday cos you are right to say that he always wish that it could lead to something else more..... =))But of cos, I don't always let him has his ways. Not when my daughters are at the house. Cheers o
@jdyrj777 (6563)
• United States
4 Jul 09
I guess that would depend on if i were actually cleaning myself or playing. If i were cleaning myself i would think they are in my way. I would perfer doing that alone. Playing would be a whole different story.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
5 Jul 09
Yes yes, I get you point =) Many people see their shower time as a private time to finally be alone and they treasure their shower time alone, making themsleves clean and smell nice and maybe do some thinking. That is why I see bathing together with my spouse a chance to rebond and spice things up in our relationship. Cheers =)
@Opal26 (17694)
• United States
3 Jul 09
Hi thhoon! I wouldn't mind taking a shower or bath with my boyfriend, but he likes to take his shower and bath alone! In fact, he takes a bubble bath and and won't even let me in the bathroom! He likes to soak in the tub and listen to his cds! He says it's "his" time to relax and be alone! How do you like that one! I have offered to scrub his back and he still won't let me in!
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
4 Jul 09
Hello there, looks like your bf really enjoys his bath time alone. Maybe, you can sneak in to give him a surprise cos I am quite sure he will enjoy your company. There is many other things that you can do or explore with him when taking a bath together... kekeke... =))
@ladygator (3469)
• United States
3 Jul 09
I would love to take a shower with my spouse. He doesnt feel comfortable doing that I guess. Or maybe he is worried about what the kids would think?
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
4 Jul 09
Hmm....from the many responses I received, kids seem to be the reason why many couples don't bath or shower together. It would be good if you can have sometime alone with your spouse every month to rebond with your spouse. Without worrying about the kids, maybe your spouse would feel at ease to try out bathing together with you.
• United States
3 Jul 09
I love showering with my husband! I love it when he shampoos my hair. My husband doesn't really like to though. He says I'm a water hog!
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
4 Jul 09
Hello bakedzito =) I am glad you like it as much as me. Maybe, you can help to put body bath on your husband using your body... kekeke.... Think he will like it very much =))
@andy77e (5171)
• United States
3 Jul 09
Well, speaking from a purely hypothetical perspective, without any direct personal interest of any kind... I think that sounds like a wonderful idea. Why, if I ever get married, perhaps I'll try that, female willing of course.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
3 Jul 09
Hello andy77e, thanks for the response. I am glad you like the idea of bathing or showering with you spouse. I think that it is a wonderful way to build closer relationship and bonding with your spouse. Have a great day ahead =))
@ANTIQUELADY (36494)
• United States
3 Jul 09
I think it's a great idea. When i had a spouse we had a good time doing that. There is nothing wrong w/something else happening.. Just enjoy whatever pops up.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
3 Jul 09
Hello there =) O yes, there is definitely nothing wrong with something else happening.... =)). We really enjoy our time together and have fun together. Thanks for your response. Have a great day ahead o
@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
3 Jul 09
Its a great Idea,,the love grows,and more so in these times of so much tension,,and its so natural and so much fun,, also I agree that the relations get better,, we are going to do it more often now,,Thanks for the reminder dear
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
3 Jul 09
I also wish that we can do it more often. But got to wait when my daughters are older and they don't cling to us so often. So now we only bath together during weekend or holiday when we left our daughters with our parents. Have a great day ahead =)
• Denmark
3 Jul 09
Me and my BF take showers together all the time. He can't wash he's back himself so that's just practical way to enjoy it. We do it couple of times in a week and both of us really like it too.
@thhoon72 (1010)
• Singapore
3 Jul 09
Yes, yes, take your time and better enjoy it as much before you get married and have children. Cos with children around, the both of you will hardly have time to spend togther.