You can say to somebody "I DON T LIKE YOU !" Is hard to say this words?

Hi, Ice! This is something I've always wished I had the nerve to do. I just can't. I tend to avoid people I don't like, or make excuses not to spend time with them. It's something I wish I could get past, but I just seem incapable to be hurtful. Many times, the person would probably not even care, but I can't do it. Since I've been stuck at home recuperating from surgery, the only people who never seem to miss calling me are the two women with whom I work, whom I wish I could tell I just don't like them and I wish they'd leave me alone. Another co-worker calls the my groupies, because they follow me around like shadows. They even cause people I do like to stay away! I wish I had your directness.

Even if I have such words in my mind to tell on someone like this, I have not told them or will never tell like this as I don't like to hurt others. Because these are the words which will wound the others at most.99% of the people are like that only. As we had not been told by others like that, does not mean we are liked by others always. Most of the people are having mask in their face, else running our daily life will not be possible. Do you like your boss if you are working under some one? If so are you able to tell his so? Your, so called 'style' depends on the people who are dealing with. You can never avoid the masks in your life..

Im not that mean to really blurt those words out. I mean, if you dont like that person, it doesnt give you the right to hurt them. Beside, i dont dislike someone i really dont know that much. Its being judgemental. There are 6 billion people and each on of us has different personalities. If u dont like that person, then stay away from them, maybe if theyre bugging you already, then thats the time you tell them to stay away because u dont like them..but being outright about it when theyre not doing anything, i dont think i can do that.

it is really difficult to say those words for me especially when the person is trying to be nice and friendly. i can only say it probably when the person is so rude. nice discussion ice. ann

i dont usually say these words, but i just behave so as to let him or her know i dont like him or her, for example a little neglecting or other things. what's good is that people i dont like are very smart and they soon know what i mean.

if i have a i don't like i saying true because difficult to falsify something you do not like

I used to not be able to say that I did not like a person. I was so sad to hurt their feelings that I would try to break it gently. But I found that this just made the person want me more because they think that there is something they can do to make me change my mind. Trying to be nice about it actually seems wishywashy and they think that there is a chance which hurts them more in the long run. So now I just say it upfront and you would be surprised on how quickly they more on without any pain. So it is better to just come out and say it and move on for the both people.

well,most time i will not say. even if i dislike this ppl. i just act very cold..or just normal but if someones is acts very disguesting i will say this

If I don't like a person, I may not say, I don't like her but for sure, I can't hide it, by not akways smiling at her or by not talking to her. There must be a reason for sure why we deslike a person. Avoiding her presence is one way of showing I deslike the person but it's really hard to say I deslike a person, personally.

im very how can i say this ..real ! so if i dont like u ..i dont like u but if the person hasent done anything or said anything theres no need to go ahead and say tht to them thts just lookin for trouble ... i also use those words when im mad and i dont really mean them ,,

I am hard to say that to my friend. If I really dislike someone, I will just stay away from them. One of my friend really make me hate him, he always step on my bottom line. I just tell him what is his fault, if he still doing that, don't find me.

i won't say to somebody directly that i don't like you . i think if you say to the person directly face to face it will make him or her very embarrased . Today you might not like him or her but it doesn't mean in the future you don't like him or her either. It's hard to please everyone .

Not a kind thing to say, right? Perhaps that's why we don't choose this as our first option. Especially when the person is new to us, and we don't know if this would hurt the feeling. However, for those who really irritate me, I find myself willingly to share this expression with them.

I also don't like to carry on a fake face. Or to pretend to have feelings that I don't have. So if I don't like someone, I tell that person that I don't, but I also say why I don't like. I explain it in clear words the reasons for my animosity towards that person. But one has to understand one thing... To be like that, you must be able observe yourself. So you will be able to see all the things you do that may also make other people not to like you. You know, sometimes we keep an eye on other people and we for get to look at ourselves and try to understand how other people see us. I congratulate you for not being fake with other people, just be carful not to be unfair on your judgment without giving that person a chance to show his or her qualities. Of course, we should never be unwise for there are people out there who are very rude and have no respect for others. However, if I ever meet someone like that, I will not wast my time making enemies, I just move on with my life and let that person behind to live his or her life.

actually..i don't have to tell people that I don't like them. they usually are very clear on that without any words.

hi icesmile, i cannot tell some body i do not like you,simply avoid him/her ,some day they will know ...have a nice day

yes,it is hard to say thoes word to someone I don't like.especially we are face to face.it makes me uneasy.so I choose not to talk or get togeter whit the unacceptable one.

Well you are more straight forward. I like your franknes. meapas

Well..It's not necessary to express myself with the words.."i don't like you".. If i met someone who makes me dislike...i just say hi or smiling at her or him..and then go away.. don't wanna wasting my time to respond people who can make your bad mood.. Happy mylotting

every individual is unique. if i don't like someone, it may not mean that the person is really bad. he might seem to be good to others. so even if i can i won't say such a thing. just as i would not like to hear such a thing on my face. i reduce interaction with the person and with time its over.