Its amazing what lengths children will go to avoid doing someting they dont want

@dloveli (4366)
United States
July 30, 2009 6:46am CST
I just saw today that the police were dispatched to a car that was weaving in an out of the lines. When the car was finally stopped, out jumps a 7 year old. He took off running. WHen they caught him he said he took the car so he wouldnt have to go to church. WHAT THE ****? What kind of church was this. I dont mean to laugh but this kid really went to the extreme. How do you punish him. I would have to say that a spanking would do him alot of good. Sorry to all who disapprove. I totally believe if the kid got a spanking he wouldnt do stuff like that. It is truly amazing to me how far he went. Has anyone seen a child go to these lengths just to avoid doing something? Is this normal behavior for a boy? dl
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• United States
1 Aug 09
it's amazing how often kids seem to be able to get access to car keys nowadays. this isn't the first case i'd heard of this. man,back in the day if i'd have even thought of taking a cruise,i would have got my butt beat. it's..unusual for a boy..but damned determined,gotta give him that. my cousin's kid went into the cupboard and threw out all the canned veggies she didn't like when their back was turned,but nothing like that.
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• United States
2 Aug 09
i bet they wouldn't be smiling if he had wrecked the car. some people,i swear..
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
2 Aug 09
It is true that kids will be kids. It is also true that the incidents may turn into funny stories later in life. THere has to be consequences.What if he killed or hurt someone? He received 4 days no television as punishment. THe parents were on television and they were all smiling and joking like it was so funny. I cant wait to see what's next for our little friend. What is he going to do when he doesnt want to go to school? Burn the school down. If he did they'll only put him to bed without a snack. THe parents are going to be the ones that ten years from now will be saying "What Happened?" They are doing it to themselves. dl
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@AmbiePam (85878)
• United States
1 Aug 09
Oh man. That's pathetic! Yeah, he deserves a spanking. A quick kick in the rear wouldn't hurt either! And I'm sure you'll get people saying spanking is child abuse. Perhaps, depending on what someone's definition of "spanking" is. I got spanked. And I'll tell ya, it kept me out of a lot of trouble!
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
2 Aug 09
My sentiments exactly my dear! The today show had the family on and the parents acted like it was a good thing. They asked the little boy what he got for a punishment. He replied that he couldnt watch television for 4 days. WHAT? He took the car and could have killed someone. Four days without television seems to put the severity of the incident on the back burner. Then in 10 years they'll wonder why he's in jail. dl
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
2 Aug 09
This is a child who has never known any discipline, who has been allowed to do what he wants and probably even encouraged to do inappropriate things....like driving the car. Kids need limits, they need discipline, they need to be shown the correct way to do things....children learn by copying. Parents should be setting a GOOD example to their offspring. This is not an amusing situation ...the child has already proved he is a threat to the safety of the public by driving the car. His parents should be forced to go to school top learn correct parenting and the child should be placed with a family who actually care about and love their children.
@dloveli (4366)
• United States
2 Aug 09
It gets worse MsTickle! They were on the today show last weak and the parents acted as if he didnt eat all his veggies. WHAT? These parents are in for it. I might add that I dont have any pity for them. They are basically encouraging it. When asked what the boy got for a punishment, he replied no tv for 4 days. Oh yeah he learned his lesson. NOT! Its their own fault. In ten years this kid will be uncontrollable. dl
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
30 Jul 09
I think it might be normal for a little guy...and I have seen kids go to great lengths not to do something....my son was telling me that my little granddaughter didn't want to take a bath one night.....he asked me if I have ever seen a cat when they don't want to get into the water....they spread all fours and try to hang on to something so they don't get put in the water.....well that is what my granddaughter did....he said she looked just like a cat trying to stay out of the water....once in she was mad...so she took the sprayer and sprayed down her mother with water....she lost all her toys. Has to earn them back one at a time...she is four.
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
31 Jul 09
You know what Jill? I can honestly say that your son and his wife are the best punishers yet. Your granddaughter is going to be just fine. Its about time parents stop feeling bad and realize that if they get away with it now, it will be worse later on. I have seen so many instances where the kids, under 5, rule the house. They are monsters. Everyone does a little mischief. Even though it was a funny situation, your son and daughter saw the importance of not letting her know it was funny. She will be an example of what all children should behave like. I thought I was the only one that thinks its okay to punish a preschooler. My kids are older now and thank god they are well behaved. Luckily they have been no problem. You raised a good son there Jillhill! I cant believe that this little boy hated church enough to become a felon.lol Nothing surprises me anymore! dl
@suzzy3 (8342)
2 Aug 09
I am in agreement with you.My parents gave me a smack if I was naughty,they did not abuse me at all.I really think it is the parents responsiblity to let the children know what is acceptable before they go to school.I will say something after a smack of my parents I behaved myself and made sure I did not repeat that behaviour.It taught me a lesson doing the same with my own,are all above intelligence and trustworthy people.They work hard and do the same with their kids,Not one of them has been in trouble with the police,or anything serious at school.Not one of them are perfect but they do know what is right and wrong.If your parents tell you to do something like go to church under the age of sixteen then you should oblige out of respect.After that age you can compramise and come to an agreement that suits you both.Hopfully by that age they would have learn't enough respect to agree anyway.I always warned mine a few times before I smacked them giving them enough warnings ,then wack ,they learn't to behave and what is wrong with that.
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
3 Aug 09
I agree with you 100%. I get so upset when I see what the school system has done regarding punishment and touching etc. I was a teacher's assistant for five years. During this time I got to see the ways of the schools system and how they rationaize it. The schools have over stepped their bounds. They have incinuated their way into the family unit. Now I have to worry about my child calling 911. I taught kidnergarten children. They taught the children that if they get a nervous stomach than something that someone is doing to them is wrong. Of course they're going to get a nervous stomach. No one wants to get caught much less spanked. If You spank your kids they threaten to call 911. Most parents are frightened by the idea that the police would be called. Now the ball is in their court. Not in my house! I dont care how nervous their stomach feels. They brought it on themselves. Rules are put into place for a reason. If you dont want to have problems, follow the rules. Teachers and other school personell need to but out. Parents need to be strong and consistent. The parents of this young man who drove the car and could've killed themselves or someone else should make sure this young man understands the severity of his actions. According to what they said on the TODAY show he got 4 days no television. I wonder if he hurt someone what the punishment would've been. Maybe a week with no snacks. COME ON! Ten Years from now this child will be on his way to a life of crime. What then? Who will they blame? I wish I could be a fly on the wall for the day the crimes become personal. I hope I am wrong. Honesty these parents are making the biggest mistakes they could possibly make. Unfortunately you cant tell people like this anything. I can only hope they will realize they need to be on top of this little hellion. dl
@suzzy3 (8342)
3 Aug 09
Goodness knows where this will lead if they don't get punished properly for the crime they have commited they will just go on and if there are no boundaries where is it all going to end.This seven year old child stole a car and could have killed someone or himself,have these parents no sense of urgency they must do something substantial their boy won't be an angel if they don't make him into one,kids do not bring themselves up the parents are supposed to do it.These parents don't seem to be able to deal with a situation which is out of their thinking,If another child had driven that car and killed their boy I wonder if they would be so generous with the other child.I used to work at a school but no more,one of the older boys did not like me and was stirring up trouble ,so I resigned ,no way was i going to let his lies ruin my life and reputation.
31 Jul 09
i had been told about this by a friend and i laughed when i heared it. the only punishment i can think of is to give him an hold fashion grounding with a good slapping, i agree it was very extreme for the boy to end up doing this but from what i think in my own opinion is that this boy could be mentaly ill or jsut really hates god :o
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
31 Jul 09
I dont know what funnier the incident or your response. I was laughing hysterically at the end of your statement. What could have God have done to a 7 year old boy? How bad is his church? Change his religion for heaven's sake. dl
• Canada
31 Jul 09
I would say the PARENTS need to be punished for not raising their child better, and for not keeping a better eye on their child. When we were that age (we, being my sister and I) we never got far enough out of our parents site to be able to pull a stunt like that. while the child is somewhat to blame in this case, it's not completely the childs fault!!
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
30 Jul 09
YEs it was on yesterday too. and come to find out that it happened in a small town my sister lives in , in Utah! I heard they are making him go to church several times a week so dont think it was an Mormon Church as they have put thiers only to Sundays which are 3 hours long!
• United States
30 Jul 09
I saw that on TV and agree that a good spanking is deserved. Kids will try anything. I was pretty bad. The worst thing I did was when I was about 12 or 13 years old and at that time lived and breathed indoor ice skating. There was something special going on one afternoon at the rink and I was determined to get out of school so I could attend. I took a little baggie of powdered laundry detergent to school and told most of the class ( except myself and my pals) that it was sneezing powder They all sniffed it, it worked and they all were sneezing like crazy. The teacher thought it was some kind of flu epidemic and we all got sent home! Hurrah!! I went skating! The next day half the class were missing as they had severe nose bleeds. It did not take long for someone to rat me out. I got suspended and no pocket money or skating for a month! I never did that again.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
30 Jul 09
I do not think it is normal behavior for any child to do something like that. My husband and I seen this on the news last night. I think children act like wild animals these days. They know more in their young age than I ever did. I would hate to have to raise another one in these times.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
3 Aug 09
This kid really needs some serious punishment, if he is stealing cars and joy riding at 7 what will he be doing at 17? Someone could have been killed including him. Not to mention that while the police were out trying to stop him, they were taken away from other crimes. Though most kids don't like having to sit through church, they don't steal cars to get out of it. ~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**
@savypat (20216)
• United States
30 Jul 09
I would say his behavior is unusual but not unheard of. He may even have a computer game that teaches him how to drive. Church can be very hard on kids Sunday school can be bad if you don't know your lessons and get teased by other children. The first thing I would find out is why this kid didn't want to go. Then try to fix the problem from that end, of course it goes without saying that the kid would be over forty before he was allowed to drive.
@kcoregon (302)
• United States
3 Aug 09
Who knows why this child decided to do this? Kids can get very creative when they are trying to avoid something. I once read a story about a German girl whose mother asked her to clean her room. The girl instead held a sign in the window that said "Help" and looked like she was crying. (Or something among these lines). The police came to the door and the mother explained that the girl was supposed to be cleaning her room and so the police I believe made sure the girl cleaned her room before he left. Might not be word for word but the story went along these lines and yes it is a true story from a news source. Personally I would not go with spanking. In anger I always found that my parents would make their spankings even harder depending on just how angry they were. Sometimes it was a belt and a bare bottom. Once my mother broke a wooden spoon as she whipped across my bare bottom. All I ever did was resent her for it. I still hold some hard feelings towards her about it as well. Of course spanking was only the beginning. It might get your child to stop bad behavior but it may make them more rebelleous like it did me. And anyways, is anything a child does worth this sort of treatment? Even criminals who go out and murder people do not get spanked or whipped with belts on their bare bottoms. I'll just never understand the logic that goes behind spanking a child. We can't go blaming the church I do not think. It could have been that this child simply did not want to go to church. Many children can find church as being boring. He probably thought well I could get away in the car and I won't have to go. He's a child and he has an immature way of thinking. He's only 7 years old not 27. I am sure that he had learned his lesson that day. And he probably ran from the cops because he was scared. After all cops are the ones who take you to jail. Maybe the parents could have let the police talk with the little boy about how dangerous a thing he did and later re-enforce it at home. Sometimes a child is much more willing to listen to someone else other than their own parent. And I think having a good talking to with the police would likely set him straight.
@j92mike (54)
• United States
30 Jul 09
I saw that today too on the news, I haven't recently seen any kids do anything of that nature but I have a friend that started going to school online so he wouldn't have to get a job.
• United States
30 Jul 09
Yes, now that i have thought about it, i did know a boy that went to extremes to avoid certain things. He was the victim of abuse, and did his best to avoid places that he knew he had no control over.