Is there only one soulmate for each of us???

@sagnik42 (3598)
India
August 7, 2009 12:30pm CST
Everybody says there is someone made just for you and you have been made just her.But I wonder is that really true?Maybe there is more than one or maybe there is none.What is your opinion?
5 responses
@ulalume (714)
• United States
7 Aug 09
I don't think there is. If you consider that there are millions of people in existance on this planet, it seems kind of far fetched to think that only one of these people could be compatible. I like to tell my girlfriend that she is "not my soul mate", but more so "the girl I chose out of all of the girls I could choose." She appears to be my soul mate simply because she is my best friend. If she would leave me, I would be devastated (of course); but I could probably move on and find another love in time. That is not something I would desire, obviously; but its the truth of the matter.
• United States
7 Aug 09
ya, see i would be devestated but i wouldnt be able to move on, because i wouldnt be able to love anyone else.
@tonyllenium (6266)
• Italy
7 Aug 09
i don't know normally is really difficult to define things like that and so in love in many cases is really complicated and difficult because normally people are different approach and mind on this kind of things!i reality i never think that everyone have a soulmate now..may be some haven't really....but we think he opr she must be your soulmate and so on...if there are much more thna one..mmh it cna be posible but whata confusion for those people hee...
@sagnik42 (3598)
• India
7 Aug 09
I guess you are right.Maybe there is one girl who has two soulmates...hard to choose,eh
• United States
7 Aug 09
I don't believe that there is only one person for everyone. After all, if you had fifty people with the same personality traits in one room to choose from, I'm sure there would be some of them you would dislike for one reason or another. A soulmate does not only attract because of their personality but also because of their interests, their family life, and their quality of life. Hope this makes sense, each person is an individual and has good and bad parts to like or dislike.
• Philippines
7 Aug 09
my opinion its just only maybe...
• United States
7 Aug 09
well i believe there is. I found the person that is right for me. and i am only 17, and dont think that, oh hes 17 and thats what all teenagers feel, No, see the old folk, they were married when they were 19-20 or so, and they mnarried their highschool sweethearts. and they have been married 50-70 years or whatever. So if you think about it, yes they must exsist!