I dont know how to flirt?

@MizFel (89)
Nigeria
August 16, 2009 4:25pm CST
My boyfriend told me that i dont flirt with him and he said its an issue!!! its not like i don't show affection or anything. he says that he is always the one making the move that i have never ever tried! Is this a big issue? does it mean i dont like him? What does he expect me to do most of the time? Guys what do you expect most of the time?
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5 responses
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
19 Aug 09
The first thing you need to do is BELIEVE you are sexy!!! Act that way!!! Learn the art of the TEASE!!!!It's all over TV and the movies! If you still don't see, go to the library or search the internet and learn. Most men will do anything for a sexy woman. These women who are best at this, aren't physical perfection. THEY BELIEVE THEY ARE SEXY!!!
@MizFel (89)
• Nigeria
19 Aug 09
thanks
@meapas (2436)
• India
17 Aug 09
Just fool around a little, he may be getting little high by this. Still if not clear then ask him plainly what he means by that.
@MizFel (89)
• Nigeria
17 Aug 09
well i tried today! but it did not seem to work! o well sucks for him!! :D
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Aug 09
mizfel I guess you are supposed to giglge and act silly,incline your head and pretend you dont see him,simper and drop your hankie,and this is so silly.what does he want as flirting is 'usually done before you get a boyfriend not afterwards.If 'he is talking about coming on to him first in order to make 'love why the heck doesnt he just say so. flirting when you are already in a relationship,I dont think so.
@MizFel (89)
• Nigeria
16 Aug 09
i thought i was the only one that sensed something wrong with what he said. guys are difficult sometimes
• United States
16 Aug 09
Ha! Ha! MizFel, this is an interesting topic. :-) Well, as for the 'flirting' issue, I am not so sure that I can answer this question, so I will only give you my viewpoint. :-) It is so easy for me to 'flirt?' with someone because overall I am intrigued by people. :-) What others consider, 'flirting' I consider 'compliments'. :-) I like when people are happy, and find the goodness in everyone regardless to if I have been wronged by 'said' individual or not. :-) I feel that this world is filled with lots of unhappy and uptight people, and it is for that reason that a few compliments, here and there are not so difficult to give. :-) On the flip side, the only problem with 'flirting' is that the other person may reciprocate your intentions of good and try to change them into something that is bad. :-) The only advice I can give you, as far as your boyfriend and yourself are concerned, is to tell him how much you like the little things that he does, for example, I really like your smile, it seems to brighten my day... or I really like the shirt you are wearing today, it makes you look so handsome. :-) Hopefully this bit of information has helped you a little. :-)
@MizFel (89)
• Nigeria
17 Aug 09
thanks! its a big help! Well i did talk to him today! Was trying to tease him and all you know! ^-^. I also feel d same way about the whole flirting as a compliment!
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
16 Aug 09
it's easy dear... i think every woman has a flirty side within her
@MizFel (89)
• Nigeria
17 Aug 09
yea i know but maybe i do it with out knowing or maybe i don't do it at the right time :( o well