Would you date your sibling's ex?

@laydee (12814)
Philippines
August 28, 2009 7:21am CST
The thought occurred to me when I heard that my batchmates in high school who were cousins weren't speaking to each other after the other dated the other's ex-boyfriend. Is there a rule saying it shouldn't be like that? or do you think it's inappropriate when she has let go of the person, so why should it bother her if the other cousin would be dating the guy?
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@UK_Shree (3604)
28 Aug 09
No way, I could not ever go out with someone that seeing someone in my family previously! The thought alone is quite sickening. I suppose if it doesn't bother you then it doesn't matter. But it sure would matter to me and I would be very uncomfortable about the whole thing.
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@vingyan06 (2489)
• Malaysia
2 Sep 09
Hello there, It is so weird for me too. I could never never want to date with some one who are ex... from my siblings or cousins, if it is my dear friends, I also reject for that. Honestly speaking, it is nothing wrong to accept dating from sibling's ex, but I just can not do that for myself. I feel so odd and it is just like we are sharing the same person but in different time frame.
@UK_Shree (3604)
2 Sep 09
Yes I completely understand what you mean. There are millions of people in this world so why go for someone who was with someone who is close to you? I don't get it and could never do it personally.
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
that never happened to me before. maybe there's a bit of sensitivity there because the sibling felt bad when they're no longer together and it hurts the person more if the other sibling is dating him/her. my sibling had this girl friend back in 95. she was really hot for me, and when she comes by to our house and asked my sibling, sometimes i just couldn't think of a better way than to lock her there and give it all i got(imagination) too bad they didn't end up together. too bad i never saw her again..
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@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
31 Aug 09
hahahahaha!
• Philippines
31 Aug 09
but she did meet my mom at one time in school years before my mom retired, i should have talked to her then..
• India
28 Aug 09
I won't mind provided she is really good. I am married so I won't date again. But I am saying for myself how I would have taken such thing if I were there.
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