how many best friends do you have?

Philippines
September 23, 2009 12:03pm CST
how many best friends do you have? if you ask me? i Still have no best friend ^_^ and i don't know why? but it's just fine because i have many good friends and close friends. But there are times that i feel jealous when i see other people have their best friend :( they laugh together, they go home together, they share experiences and etc. on which i lack one. :|
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@feodda (579)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
I have two best friends, from my high school days and my college days. They are not just best friend to me, they are also my sister that i can talk to. All my secret are kept safe with them. I have many good friends and close friends. They are also very supportive and caring. They give all the laughter and joy, as i am with them.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
yes, friends can make you smile in times of trouble and sadness :)
@feodda (579)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
You're right. They are the one makes you smile in times of troubles and sadness. And they are there to wipe away your tears.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
24 Sep 09
poor of me. my best friends is gone, he had a great life with his life so he forget me. maybe because now iam not same level and same social status with him.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
what do you mean adhyz82? he forgot about you and your friendship? thats rude of him
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
2 Nov 09
ya, he act like iam not his best friends anymore. i always think he is the listing on the top of my friends but he didnt like that. he think and act like that because iam not his work mate and didnt same level with him.
• China
24 Sep 09
I only have one best friend.Frankly speaking I think he is more important than other friends,because he will try his best to help me when I need and I will try my best to help him too.If you want to have a best friend you should give him what you want to get from him.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
but how about the trust? i can't give my all to anyone without trusting them first :D cause im too careful nowadays hehe
• Malaysia
24 Sep 09
Hi, I have many good friends, but only 1 is best friend.We know each other since primary school and when we enter secondary school, we are situated in the same class. Now, he is sitting beside me in the class, we do not have any quarrel. A funny thing is he always ask me to 'donate' some food to him when it is recess time.(like to eat) Lastly, I wish you can find best friends in your life. God bless you!
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
how lucky of you bryanlee92 to have a funny friend like you have :D hehehe do not ever let him go and enjoy the rest of your life together :D . . and thanks for your concern :)
@kid221 (151)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
Hi guys.. I have seven (7) childhood bestfriends up to this moment. Im already 35 years old and I know each one of them since our prep school. We have been classmates until our secondary education years and yet still friends. We had our ups and downs but the bond of friendship and brotherhood made our group survive the test of time. One most significant pact that we had as friends is to be the godfather of our first born child. We fulfilled that promise as all of us were witnessed to the christening of our godchildren. We are now separated by our work, since most of us are located in different countries. We still take time to communicate always and strengthen our bond as bestfriends and brothers. I have new friends but no one beats my Magnificent 7 bestfriends!
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
yes kid221 you're right , wherever your friend may go, keep your bonds with them :)
@vdhaval (119)
• India
24 Sep 09
well i have about 3 best friends 2 since school and one in college dont worry ur close friends may be ur best friends but u dont know yet and y dont u improve ur friendship with ur close and good friends so u guys can like hang out more and enjoy more
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
thanks vdhaval for replyig :) i do hope so hehe but i think, based on my financial status, i think i can't hang out more with my close friends. . . :|
• India
24 Sep 09
Well, right now, I only have one Best Friend. He has been my friend since seventh standard, and we are pretty close. He is a pretty cool person and he helps me out every time. I have many close friends and nice friends and good friends but there is only one person I can put in the best friends category. He is currently in Indian air force technological wing and so he is always away from home, so we have quite less time enjoying. Any ways we always keep in touch. Take Care
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
what a cool friend you have raphael_volts! hehe :D
• Indonesia
24 Sep 09
I have only 1 best friend. He is my best friend since junior high school until now (32 years old). I separated in each city but always keep in touch from call phone and social networking. Every 6 month, we always meet in the city where we was born
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
hello masteronline thanks for the reply, i also want to have that "childhood" friend . . . possible if i have a second life XD hehe
@SHAMRACK (8384)
• India
24 Sep 09
Dear friend, I do had few best friends and in them one of them is more than best friends. I do consider him as one of my brother. Moreover my parents and siblings are more than just best friends. We were three people who where considered to be best friends ourselves during our college days, even now it is going on.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
continue that bond with them as always and im sure you'll be more blessed ^_^
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
I only have few friends but I consider them all as my bestfriends because they are the one's who is really there when I need them... I do love to have lots of friends but I only have a few because I'm so silent and I am very choosy when dealing with people...
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
oh why so silent and choosy? met bad experience before? :?
@janebeth (2034)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
hi uchi, well i have a lot of friends, since elementary.. but best friends, hmm, i can count only and they are only few.. i have a group last high school, we call our group as Monster Clan, we made it all by ourself and pick it from our names.. we are 6 all in all, and upto now we are attached to each other.. even if we can't meet all the time, only occasions that we can met up.. during college days i think i only have one, i can call her my best buddy because even if she is no longer living here, she still make a communication on me and i am happy for that.. i hope we can be still friends until we get old.. hugs and kisses, janebeth.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
hello there janebeth , i also remember back in my high school days, we also have a group called "BYF" i don't know what that means but they said it was "Batang Yagit Foundation" XD it was kinda funny so i joined in and found some of my closest friends today. but when we went to college, we separated and started a new life until we did not see each other again and have no contacts with each other. I'm looking forward to our reunion if there is one. and before in my first year of college, i have 2 best friends but we have separated also, my other friend shifted from our course, HRM into Priesthood, and the other one, we can still meet but just once every two months or sometimes not because he also has a financial problem like me XD in your side, i'm sure that bond with your college friend will grow old until you grow older XD hehehe
@jhenn22 (1243)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
i only have 1 best friend but i have plenty of good friends. She's with me in my ups and downs and vice versa. We understand each other and i consider her as my sister. I treat her like a true family member.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
answerte hehe :) how lucky of you also that you have each other :)
@gelibean (159)
• United States
24 Sep 09
I have four best friends. Two are males and the other two are females. I can tell my female best friends anything and they never think any differently of me, and I can ask my male bestfriends stuff about guys and almost anything. We all hang out, go to movies, or out to eat and just have lots of fun. I wouldn't change a thing about any of them and I don't think they would change me. I have been friends with two of them for about 10 years and the other two are friends that I met while in college.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
how lucky of you gelibean to have them, im happy for you :)
@auzi17 (43)
• Myanmar
24 Sep 09
same here. i still have no best friend. if it become,i trust its god.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
yes auzi17, we are not alone always :D
• United States
24 Sep 09
1 and that is jesus.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
wow what a faithful one :D
@se7enthbird (8328)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
i can say that i have only one best friend and she is my wife. i have a few friends and acquaintances but i only have one best friend. when i was a teen i do have a lot of friends but i realize that they are not good friends and it is hard to find a good friend. so from then on i limit myself on going out with people that calls me friend and now i am proud to say that i found a good friend and a wife all rolled into one.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
good to know se7enthbird that you found someone like your wife :)
@cjfoust (614)
• United States
24 Sep 09
I have one best friend. We have known each other for the past 16 years. We've had our good days and our bad, but I wouldn't trade her for the world. We are close with each others families and pretty much are family. I wouldn't know what to do without her. You will find someone, probably when you least expect it.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
hello there cjfoust, that's what friends are for :) hehe you two makes a good pair for eternity :D
@Melbee11 (233)
• United States
23 Sep 09
I have 3 best friends. They mean so much to mean they been through many things with me. It makes me happy that they are always there with me. We all have are disagreements but, we all get over it anyway. I do love my best friends they are one thing that complete my life. :D
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
hello Melbee11, thanks for the reply :) wow that's great you're a lucky one :)
• United States
23 Sep 09
Hi, uchilaseymour, I would say I have three best friends in my life. Two of them are My sister and my sweetheart my third best friend I met about 8 years ago. These are the people in my life with whom I feel the most comfortable with. Every new person in your life has the potential to become a good friend and even a best friend. You say you have many good friends and close friends. That is wonderful. I'm sure that you will have a best friend eventually. Maybe even one of your good friends you have now will become your best friend. :-)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
how lucky of you to have three best friends of your life :) im happy for you also heheh however on my side, those close friends of mine tends to be so busier than me. they have no enough time for me, except if we will meet accidentally in some places. :| i hope you're right, that one of my other close friends would be my best friend :|
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
23 Sep 09
I have one solitary best friend. We've been really good friends for almost as long as I can remember. We met when we were both four years old and here we are 25 years later and growing closer all the time in many ways. Going through school we were involved in all of the same activities, Girl Scouts, church youth group, Swim Team, etc. We were together almost all the time. When we graduated from high school, we each went our separate ways, but that didn't hurt our friendship. We still talked all the time. Now, she lives in Texas and I live in Kentucky. She's married with five children and I am married with two children. We still have a lot in common. We are still able to talk sometimes and she is the God-mother to my youngest.
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
wow that's good and nice to hear :). how i wish to have a friend like the one you have, like a childhood friend or someone that stays and keep in touch with you forever :)