I am confused

United States
September 23, 2009 5:48pm CST
Lastnight my b.f. asked me to tell him why i think i deserve to be here... As far as with him and I really dont know how to answer it... Doesnt that sound like something you ask your employee! Tips please?
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7 responses
• United States
24 Sep 09
Frankly, that sounds like he doesn't think very highly of you. I believe my answer would be, "Actually, I was wondering what I've done to deserve you myself. I must have been a real jerk in another life." You really need to rethink your relationship. It sounds like you probably deserve better than him.
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
24 Sep 09
If I were you, I would reverse that question and ask him what make him thinks he deserves to be with you. This question does not reflect a person that is madly in love. It sounds like he is auditioning you and if you say or do the right things he may keep you. From my perspective, he does not deserve you. Not any longer.
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@xfahctor (14118)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
23 Sep 09
Wow, that was pretty arrogent of him. With a statement like that, you should be asking YOURSELF if maybe YOU deserve better.
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@stealthy (8181)
• United States
23 Sep 09
I hate to rain on your relationship parade but a question like that seems to imply to me that he thinks he is better than you. That type of relationship can be a dangerous one to be in. You should be with someone who thinks of you as an equal. You need to be really cautious especially if this is a fairly new relationship and you do not know the true him very well. You should be very watchful if he starts becoming controlling or worse.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
24 Sep 09
Dump him. If he asks you something like that, there's something wrong with him and you don't want to find out the rest. I wouldn't stay with someone like that!
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• United States
23 Sep 09
you should say something like you are meant to be together. or we are destined to be together.
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@bird123 (10632)
• United States
27 Sep 09
He might just have one leg out the door already. Does this sound like TRUE LOVE????