I sent my son a message.
By blue65packer
@blue65packer (11826)
United States
September 27, 2009 9:57pm CST
Since my son deleted me from my friend list I have been waiting for him to reply.No relpy as of yet. I decided I didn't want to wait for him to get back to me. I had alot to tell him! So late friday night I sent him a very long message on Facebook. A private message. So will go from there! I told me son why I gave him up for adoption and why it would been a bad idea to keep him! I hope someday my son contacts me again! When his birthday comes around in December I will send him a birthday cards! Until I'll wait!
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2 responses
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Sep 09
hi blue65packer oh I am so sorry to hear that. so sad.
It would be so hard to tell your son that and make him
understand I know. Adoption can be very tricky in later
years. I have a friend here who adopted her daughter when'she was very little,just a baby, now the girl is a grown woman and
'she wants to find her birth mom. well my friend Alice the adopted girl's adoptee mom is so upset. she feels hurt that
her adopted daughter wants to find her birth mother, and I
tried to explain that according to friends I had that were adopted its not that they don't love their adoptee moms as
'they really do, they just feel an empty feeling and want'to
find out what their birth parents were like and why they
adopted them out to other moms.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
28 Sep 09
I not sure how his adopted parents think about this! When I talked to him on the phone that one time he said his parents had invited me to dinner! I thought they are taking this well or they would change their minds agter they meet me! So I'm not sure what is going on with that! I do work with a womana t work who gave her son up for adoption 36 years ago. Three years ago the son found her! Since then they have meet and see each other on a regurlar bases. My friend did meet the adopted parents. At firast it was ok. After a while the adopted mother didn't like that her son found his real mom! My friend was 17 when she had her son and knew she wasn't ready to raise a child at that time! Everyone does things differently! I do hope my son contacts me and we meet some day! We'll see!
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
28 Sep 09
Aww. I hope your son will contact you again. I am so sorry that he deleted you here. I hope he will respond to you through Facebook. Parents have to make tough choices sometimes.
